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Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 5
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I hope you don't answer those questions, sounds like the beginning of the "I'm going to rape you checklist". Not to be crass but that's a creepy question, also what in the hell makes you think you'll ever see my house; rather your house. I hope you just instantly block on that situation, could be potentially dangerous. I say that for just a week ago I came across my first POF rape thread(OP just mentioned it, entire thread wasn't about the incident) and found though the playful banter and cute smile avatars are but one portion of this site, their will always be the human sinister and depraved individual that has breached the walls & walks among us. BE AWARE friend .

P.S sorry for the run on sentence their, Ramadan is kicking my ass
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 6
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Posted: 8/24/2009 7:41:39 PM
They want to know if they'll have to bring their can of chloroform with them or not. They want to know if you have a hawt romomate. They want to know are schtoopable in short order.
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 8/24/2009 8:35:05 PM
^^^Exactly - if they live alone then it's not an issue what happens somewhere else. I get the question a lot too - I don't get it either, at least not so soon in a conversation where I may not even date the guy anyway.
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 12
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Posted: 8/24/2009 9:28:35 PM
Sometimes people don't wanna deal with roommates/family/whatever interrupting, even if it's an old fashioned, clean date.

For example, I pretty much NEVER invite anyone over to the house unless both my roommate are away. I'd just feel extremely awkward if either of them were in the house.
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 8/24/2009 9:39:59 PM
that question is generally conversation filler,but can be a good way to get know someone. it leads to more questions that can tell you alot about the person in general and where abouts they're in their life.
Joined: 5/20/2009
Msg: 16
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Posted: 8/25/2009 12:42:01 AM
they wanna know if they're able to have a joint with you in privacy.
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 20
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Posted: 11/3/2009 4:25:05 AM
Sometimes you are sharing you accommodations with your boyfriend, it is kind of a quick way of asking if you have a SO in your life.
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