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 baseballboy
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 1
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That's not going to make you smoke, right?

I quit three years ago, but this woman who I made out with last night was a chain-smoker.

Made me nervous. After I quit smoking I got a lot healthier. I hope this doesn't count as a relapse.
 tbuddha
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 2
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 2:52:31 PM
When a girl with smoker breath kisses me, it's an automatic turn off. Disgusting...
 baseballboy
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 3
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 2:59:25 PM
We're not hooking up again. This was the only time in my life that a woman was trying to put her tounge in my mouth and I was trying to keep it shut.
 IdoDares1
Joined: 11/19/2007
Msg: 4
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If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 4:18:09 PM
You're with a chain smoker and what worries you is that kissing might cause a relapse? This is just plain silly.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 5
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If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 4:30:34 PM
I had quit smoking for a few years and dated someone that smoked - it was gross to taste on him - made me glad I had quit! I don't think anything could make me smoke again - it's nice to breath!
 Zebra Circle
Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 6
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 5:26:00 PM

When a girl with smoker breath kisses me, it's an automatic turn off. Disgusting...

Ditto, ditto, DITTO!

To a big-time nonsmoker, a woman with smoker's breath is grosser than gross.
 Shaitan
Joined: 7/8/2009
Msg: 7
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 5:46:45 PM
Dude I'd be more worried about being retarded than relapsing because you kissed a chic that smoked... WTH? ..

^T^
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 8
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 6:10:37 PM
her saliva contains massive quantities of nicotine, the addictive substance that makes you want to keep smoking.

had you swirled your tongue around hers, had you swabbed out her mouth with your tongue while french kissing you surely would have picked up saliva and swallowed the addictive nicotine. this could easily lead you into craving a cigarette.

never ever kiss a woman who is a smoker no matter how hot she is. her breath is stonky and smells like a wildebeeste's azzhole and her smoke stench is horrendous.

BEWARE!!!!!
 lovemesomemen
Joined: 7/14/2009
Msg: 9
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 6:54:12 PM

We're not hooking up again. This was the only time in my life that a woman was trying to put her tounge in my mouth and I was trying to keep it shut.


Then why worry about it? If you were going to see her again, hook up with her again, the taste MIGHT make you want to start again. But if it was a one time thing, no biggie
 DALLASDAME
Joined: 8/5/2009
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If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:00:48 PM
OP

I am one of those horrible smokers! Ha ha ha. Now the best kind of smoker for you is someone who can go without one in your presence. This means if she spends the night she is never to smoke period. There's plenty of time for smoking when she's back on her own turf. I've dated many men who did not smoke and they never had to worry about me lighting up. Most of the time they forgot that I did until a friend would bum one. Shoot, I don't have time to smoke when I'm getting some good lovin'!
 Rob_SA
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 11
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:57:33 PM
I'm a smoker and I actually prefer the generic smell or taste of smoke breath to tasting what they had for lunch.
 WalkingInLondon
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 12
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 10:04:22 PM
I used to smoke, but I never smoked during the day, because I did not want to smell like cigarettes when dealing with clients. Mornings were too busy to even think of smoking, so the only time I would take a puff or two was in the evening before bed, just to relax.
My bf didn't smoke, so I didn't smoke around him, and he was over all weekend, so if I did hav a cigarette I would go outside and then brush my teeth after.

One weekend I totally forgot about smoking...it was 5 days later when I realized I had just quit.

I'm not perfect, I've taken a puff or two here and there, but usually only at extremely stressful times.
My bf never hounded me, or said anything about me smoking...I always made sure I smelled and tasted fresh and clean for him. That was cool, his whole attitude about it.

Beth
 winteragain
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 13
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/27/2009 10:06:49 PM
it's the nicotine that gets people, not so much the tasty tar/smokey flavor of a good Marlboro so unless she's chewin nicorette you should be fine
 totoman
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 14
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/28/2009 2:09:44 AM
Truth is this is a deal-breaker for many people. You'll probaI curently smoke at the moment so it wouldn't bother me. But if you think the taste of a cigarette is going to cause you to smoke, it looks like you're finding reasons to ALLOW yourself to smoke. But you know as well as I do, the taste of spent tobacco is not going to cause you to pick up another cigarette. If you are losing yourself in her, and are willing to let anything slide to keep the relationship in harmony, then get away. When a guy tells me he is affraid he might smoke again over some girl -- goood or bad -- then I say you need to look at your plans and goals to remain nicotine free. Either that or go pick up another cigarette -- because that's what I'm hearing as what you want to do.
 miss_contemplative
Joined: 3/12/2008
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If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/28/2009 7:51:42 AM
Just don't kiss smokers. Problem solved.
 spitfire6844
Joined: 6/30/2007
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If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/28/2009 8:08:21 AM
OP: if you're trying to stay on the wagon in regard to not smoking, you need to remove all opportunities to relapse. Screen friends and dating prospects ruthlessly. You don't want to be in smoky bars and clubs if you want to avoid resuming the habit.

Kissing a smoker is out for you.
 LovinLife_01
Joined: 4/1/2009
Msg: 17
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/28/2009 8:12:47 AM

TOMic bomb:her saliva contains massive quantities of nicotine, the addictive substance that makes you want to keep smoking.

had you swirled your tongue around hers, had you swabbed out her mouth with your tongue while french kissing you surely would have picked up saliva and swallowed the addictive nicotine. this could easily lead you into craving a cigarette.

never ever kiss a woman who is a smoker no matter how hot she is. her breath is stonky and smells like a wildebeeste's azzhole and her smoke stench is horrendous.

BEWARE!!!!!


Damn, Man! Stop beating around the bush...and come out with how you REALLY feel!







Dude I'd be more worried about being retarded than relapsing because you kissed a chic that smoked... WTH? ..


Yeah! What she said!

Sheesh! Things people worry about!
 throwit2me
Joined: 6/23/2009
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If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/28/2009 8:46:56 AM
Congratulations on quitting.

I've never smoked and I'm generally very sensitive to the smell of smoking, but I've made out with a handful of women smokers both when drinking and not and I never tasted that they were smokers. I found it very strange.
 baseballboy
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 19
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/28/2009 12:44:52 PM

Dude I'd be more worried about being retarded than relapsing because you kissed a chic that smoked... WTH? ..


Hey, I'm just trying to stay in good shape. Unlike you apparently I give a stuff about my own health.
 totoman
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 20
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/28/2009 3:28:45 PM

Hey, I'm just trying to stay in good shape. Unlike you apparently I give a stuff about my own health


Yeah but if you were that serious then you wouldn't be dating her. It's not the kiss that's going to get you... and you know it.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 21
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/28/2009 5:09:59 PM

I'm thinking that a smoker at least has the option of quitting. But an inarticulate cretin.....[/quoate]

LOL. Nope, you can't fix stupid. But that presupposes that the OP's inquiry is what it appears to be, and not a fairly transparent announcement that he does not smoke, but is available, and is lost in the woods and it's getting dark.


Now the best kind of smoker for you is someone who can go without one in your presence.



Sneaky smokers?!! They're the best kind? LMAO I tried that a few times, when I was a teenager, slipping around the corner, kinda outta sight. But sooner or later, they always caught me.
I can't lie worth a damn, either.

Listen well to Gamslover, OP. Stay away from the beer-battered shrimp- it'll get you hooked.
 _Icon_
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 22
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 8/28/2009 5:26:42 PM
I briefly flirted with a man who proved to be all wrong for me on many levels. I did it because I was very physically attracted to him. He claimed he was a light smoker and only smoked when "stressed about work."

The first time he really kissed me, he said "You're afraid to kiss me!"
Afraid? Was he really that clueless?

The second time he tried to kiss me, I was prepared. I pulled out a toothbrush and handed it to him. (lol) He used it, he came back, he kissed me and this time he said "Wow, ok. Thanks for the toothbrush."

I stopped seeing him for other reasons but it blew my mind that the first thing he thought was that I was "afraid".

Yeah, he was really that clueless.
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 23
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 10/3/2009 6:29:33 PM
i must be super sensitive but a smoker's breath is like GARLIC.

you can brush the crap out your mouth but you can still smell it and taste it! YUCK
 nate_in_fl
Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 24
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 10/4/2009 1:00:36 AM
Tried kissing a girl that smoked once & I came very close to throwing up in her mouth. That would have been TOO embarassing.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 25
If you kiss someone that smokes a lot
Posted: 10/4/2009 6:01:17 AM
I smoke, now, again, having quit, cold turkey, about five years ago, for about 18 months. I consume, on average, about a pack a day.
My last remaining vice (he says, modestly,lol), and I'm kinda stubborn about it. Apparently, I am "oral" ('course, I have plenty of "genital" and "anal" moments as well) . BUT!!! I have a plan, to quit, with a recent lady friend who seems to want to partner up, to become as perfect as all the other non-smokers in the world:
Whenever I get that urge to smoke, I nudge her, wink, signal somehow, and she slips off her jeans, drapes her legs over my shoulders, and I "smoke" her pvssy instead of that evil Marlbora weed! I get to stay pure, and she gets, well, happy!
Which is about as close I may ever get to multitasking.
She is somewhat daunted by the daily frequency of these curative efforts (20 cigarettes per pack), but a selfless spirit, seemingly willing to give her all to my noble goal.
Not sure exactly how this is gonna play out, but as my plots and plans go, this is definitely loaded with potential.
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