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 ann48
Joined: 8/21/2009
Msg: 1
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i meet a guy he says he likes me alot and respects me 2 times we were going to hang out togather but his job got in is way he works alot of hours and has his own buisnes we talk alot on the phone and internet im starting yo like him alot is he even worth it? its been 3months we been talking what do i do blow him off or give it more time
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 8/30/2009 4:30:40 PM
I'd say, since you can, do both: date other people, AND give him more time. You certainly aren't required to go one person at a time.
 FLmusicdude
Joined: 7/14/2009
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Posted: 8/30/2009 4:47:11 PM
I'ma be realistic with you, depending on how things are with his business right now it could be like this for a while. It takes every part of your being to keep a business successful. I don't doubt that he does want to spend time with you. He just cant find the time to do it the way he really wants to. 3 months is a while for you to be going without a proper date. Remind him of that in a non-nagging way but more of a dissapointed way. Guys hate to be nagged but they love to feel needed. If you express your disappointment I think your gonna go up 2 or 3 notches on his radar since he will be scared of losing you. Remember the key is to sound disappointed you can't spend time with him, not annoyed. There's a art into making that work. Good luck!
 girlred228
Joined: 6/23/2008
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Posted: 8/30/2009 7:06:21 PM
I am not trying to be mean.. I really wanted to help you with this, but it is not coherent enough. cCould you try rephrasing or something? Please
 KinChandlerAz
Joined: 8/13/2009
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Posted: 8/31/2009 12:05:10 AM
its been 3months we been talking what do i do blow him off or give it more time


If after 3 months a man hasn't tried to get you to meet him in person then he will never want to meet you. There's a very good chance he's already married or in a relationship.

If a guy thinks you're hot, and he really wants to see you and he's AVAILABLE then nothing will stop him from getting to see you in the flesh!!! NOTHING.

Quit wasting your time with him. Even if it seems harmless it is wasting your time. Unless you enjoy the mystery of a little relationship on the internet, you're simply killing time with this guy because there's nothing to pursue.

Men want what they want. He obviously doesn't want you.
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