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 benspurr
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 4
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What's to be confused about?

He wants to hold off having sex too soon.
But he loves you, so of course he's going to embrace and kiss you.
 HalftimeDad
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 8
Need guys helps. He wants to wait.
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:02:07 PM
There are just too many different explanations that could work here.

Sorry. We just don't have enough information.

Example: Some guys have a Madonna/Whore complex. Women are either: nice and to be respected and appreciated, but not to be nailed; or trampy and doable. If you didn't put out then he put you into the former.

But that's only one of thousands of possible explanations.
 JP1111
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 9
Need guys helps. He wants to wait.
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:09:56 PM
So let me get this right, you both wanted to wait, then you said you were ready and he wasn't. Now he is giving signs that he is and now you are confused?

Bottom line here is, NOW he is ready!
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 12
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Need guys helps. He wants to wait.
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:51:57 PM
Have you felt wood? maybe he has a reason, maybe he has 1" or maybe it doesn't work. Be nice to him, he has an issue cause I can tell you this as a normal man, that is NOT normal.
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