"Setuid I find that hard to believe..."What is hard to believe about it? I don't sleep around, and since I haven't found any serious relationships or partners, there's no other option. "Self-help" got boring fast, so I just focus my energy on other things.
That being said, I have been sexually "active", but not ACTUAL sex (see my previous thread about the woman who wanted everything but kisses and actual genital penetration on any orifice). She was a taker, not a giver.
Being sexually active and having sex are two very different worlds, however.