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 Indigo1
Joined: 7/7/2005
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I am a dancer, and I hope someone says yes!
 rexall002
Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 7/9/2005 9:24:24 AM
I have been having a lot of success on this site!
 Justme_J
Joined: 6/26/2005
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 11:56:08 AM
I would, if one would date me (which ain't gonna happen LOL)

I knew some strippers when I bartended in Myrtle Beach many years ago. Never dated any. Many had various issues, including drug habits (these were the ones I knew, not ALL strippers). A few did not. One was making $100,000.00 a year, and doing the right thing with the money, ie investing for her future. Like she said, where else is a young woman going to make money like that? We knew each other fairly well, and I don't believe she was doing "extra" things aside from stripping to make that money either.

Back to the point though. From what THEY told me, for it to be a serious relationship, the guy must be very secure, and not go to the club they strip at. It involves an incredible level of trust.
 4sexyfun
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 21
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 5:02:41 PM
I used to be a dancer ...always had plenty of offers!

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 therabbitt
Joined: 8/13/2004
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Posted: 7/9/2005 8:35:57 PM
Fo sho. Just as long as there not coke sniffing psychos, which is a fifty fifty shot with strippers. Who wouldn't date a stripper, they make their living trying to turn guys on which can only be a bonus in the bedroom
 Scorpi0n
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 7/9/2005 11:29:11 PM
I thought there were a lot of strippers on this site already! Haven't you seen some of the pics? Oh, wait, maybe they're wannabe strippers?!?
 m68
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Posted: 7/10/2005 9:01:16 AM
As long as they repect themselves and don't do any type of drugs..sure. After all it's not the job that matters but the person. I have never known or met ( that I know of ) an dancer,I guess since I don't frequent clubs but,would not say no to dating one,even seriously if she was the right person for me.
 RomPrince
Joined: 7/10/2005
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Posted: 7/10/2005 9:05:55 AM
It would depend on the person. I have dated exotic dancers before, and am good friends with several throughout Canada. But, along with the profession comes the stigma and atmosphere of it as well.

As long as the person is doing the job, and not partaking in the "extra curricular" activities, then yeah, I'd be game. The problem is, and I'm in no way saying this is always the case, but more often than not, it's a certain type of person who's attracted to this style of profession. With that comes the lack of trust, due to said personality type being typically more likely to cheat. That in and of itself makes me second guess this as an option.

So... yes I would, and have on several occasions, but again, it's all circumstantial.
 diverse33
Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 36
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/10/2005 12:14:33 PM
Matter of choice i guess,
I wouldnt, period.
 TheAnswerIsYes
Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 7/10/2005 1:13:44 PM
YES i could see why any body would say no i like the question they are pretty and if they were not dancers they'd be noticed and bothered they would very gaurded in ways how to deal with the wrong people sooo yes much respect
 addictable
Joined: 11/24/2004
Msg: 48
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Posted: 7/11/2005 9:03:13 PM
i've gone on dates with some, but don't think i'd be in a relationship with one
 JessKO
Joined: 1/18/2005
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Posted: 7/12/2005 3:40:17 PM
If you have to drink to do your job-- the biz is not for you.

If you have to drink to do your job better occasionally--- that's another story.
 JIM630
Joined: 7/11/2005
Msg: 56
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Posted: 7/13/2005 10:42:20 AM
YES I WOLUD I DATED ONE FOR 4 YRS,
 JessKO
Joined: 1/18/2005
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Posted: 7/13/2005 1:05:41 PM
If you date customers: don't date the regulars and don't date the guys who buy private dances from you.

SERIOUSLY

Just date the guys who rarely go and came out cause of a stag or bday party or something.
 sassygal_2005
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 60
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Posted: 7/14/2005 3:24:09 PM
you naughty boy
 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
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Posted: 7/14/2005 10:08:36 PM
I can't see why not. There are many different types of dancers within the community. I've met some that do sexual favours for drugs. I've also been good friends with a couple who are single mothers. They just do it for the copius amount of money that can be made.

If you know that she's dancing and NOT hooking, there's no reason not to.
 mikelgreco
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 63
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Posted: 7/15/2005 8:02:28 AM
There was a time when all of my friends were dancers and working in the entertainment business. I had a roommate that danced and I meet many girls through her. I stayed away from going to the clubs to watch them dance but I had no issues with them doing that for a living as long as she was coming home to me...which she did. Most dancers are doing this for s hort time anyway and if they are smart they save the money on getting the things they could get before...and education, a car, a house...what ever. I think men have jealousy issues or mistrust issues and that's why they will date them but never go to the next step.

-Michael
 lennybay
Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 64
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Posted: 7/18/2005 5:55:43 PM
Yes I would. They are people to. What the difference what they do for a living, but I would have to get to know them first. Wouldn't you
 biglen
Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 65
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Posted: 7/18/2005 7:49:01 PM
There is no doubt about it...YES
 Silberne
Joined: 1/9/2005
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Posted: 7/18/2005 8:01:46 PM
Sure, if she was a nice person. Your job is your job...

I'd date someone who masturbated bulls for biological studies as long as she was a cool person and didn't compare... ;D
 Ruby Lips
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 67
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Posted: 7/18/2005 8:22:26 PM
Hi people. I'm not a stripper of course. But I sure know one. Her name is Tanya. She gave her family fits when she started to do that. But she needed the money to go to University and pay for it herself. So she became what her family called a peeler. She had the same boyfriend she has now. She got that education. Made $2600.00 a week. She does not drink, smoke nor even swear. She is a sweetheart. The whole family came to terms with it, and loves her no matter what. Strippers are any body's daughter, sister, friend, and come from all walks of life. The industry does have problems. Tanya never went to strip without an escort. So she avoided the dark side of it. You cannot blame them for just doing a job. She is done now too. Made the money and moved on.

My personal opinion? I would never do it, would not want my daughter to do it, but in the circumstances of each life it's not our call to judge anyone for what they choose to do with their own life. More power to em, if they have the guts to get the glory. Strippers are just ordinary guys and gals doing a job. So I wish them well.

Would I date one? Well heck yeah! He would probably be a Chippendale and who in their right mind is gonna kick one of them to the curb??
 gc33
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 70
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Posted: 7/18/2005 10:46:58 PM
Absolutely not. Unfortunately, a lot of girls that strip have "issues" like drugs, past abusive relationships, etc.

And please don't bother with the "I only strip to work my way through college". I am sure there are exceptions, but like this site, you have to fight your away through a lot of psychos to find someone normal.
 Sakon
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 73
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Posted: 7/19/2005 4:19:27 AM
Chances are probably not. Alot of the strippers I've come across are either drama queens, drug addicts, annoying as hell, or just plain snotty. I'm not saying that all strippers are like this but if i were she'd have to have a good head on her shoulders (as would any woman.)
 james78
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 76
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Posted: 9/5/2005 7:28:58 AM
yes
 Nighted
Joined: 8/14/2005
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 9/5/2005 8:13:48 AM
I have a couple of times. Doesn't bother me!
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