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 Stafford_Jim
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 3
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Yes, and unfortunately it also ended our friendship that was bruised but intact after I had broken up with her.

Once I found out she had no intentions of keeping her end of the bargain as a condition of me taking her back I ended it again about 4 months later when I realized things were never going to change.
 packagedealx3
Joined: 2/4/2006
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Posted: 9/26/2009 10:55:45 AM
I avoided this by first asking my ex what had changed and then making sure he knew I was dating four guys at the time, that seemed to do the trick because apparently he thought we would magically fix things just by getting back together.

Is this really a question, on top of whatever split things up the first time there is a huge lie, if it were a small lie designed to get me back he would be gone immediately.
 singleagain66
Joined: 12/29/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 9/26/2009 12:20:26 PM
NEVER DATED ANY FEMALE TWICE IN MY LIFE AND NEVER WILL

THEY BECOME AN EX FOR A REASON AND THEY WILL STAY THAT WAY
 girlred228
Joined: 6/23/2008
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Posted: 9/26/2009 12:27:13 PM
I think people get back together all the time and it works... but I think many people rush into the relationships and not resolve the issues that caused the breakup... and that is where the problem lies.. not that people can;t do it.. but people are afraid to look at what is wrong with themselves.. looking in the mirror I would say... afraid to be who they are... so they manipulate to get what they want only to lose it again because it was not built on anything geuine and real..
 Udahchica
Joined: 9/10/2009
Msg: 12
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Posted: 9/26/2009 12:48:02 PM
I have always regretted going back to an ex. ALWAYS. Never once have I said "Oh wow I am sooo happy I did that."
 barbee1970
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 9/26/2009 3:02:46 PM
I see those rebound relationships are no good. Give someone a 2nd chance and I get SOS--same old sht. It happens every time.

False pretense? Of course they ALWAYS say they changed --NOT!!
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