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 jw503
Joined: 9/21/2009
Msg: 1
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So I know this guy whos 22, and he's still a virgin. Not a big deal in my mind, but he wants to get laid so bad that for his birthday coming up, hes looking into hiring a hooker to lose it to. I tell him he should just wait until he finds a girl he doesnt have to pay for. Most girls dont think hes the best looking guy, and his personality kind of sucks. Hes not outgoing at all, his standards are way too high and he wants to find a smoking hot girlfreind. I continue to tell him that beggers cant be choosers, and unless hes filthy rich or has a great personality hes probably not going to find anyone, especially if hes not making an effort to look himself. Ive taken this guy to a few night clubs in portland, hoping he would get out there and make a move, dance with a few ladies, or gain some kind of communication skills when it comes to at least "initiating" a conversation. It didnt take. Any advice for this poor guy?
 matt32mdv
Joined: 9/14/2009
Msg: 2
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Posted: 10/1/2009 11:37:06 PM
Losing it to a prostitute... Well get a smoking hot girl, along with who knows what else. Tell him to loosen up a little, lower the sky high standards. lose the shyness and he should do alright. Above all else be himself.
 DistanceTeaParty
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/2/2009 7:57:08 AM
Why does he think it's so important to lose his virginity that he'd risk STDs and lose it to some strange woman?

Sounds like he needs to gain some self respect.
 89*4L
Joined: 8/7/2009
Msg: 4
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Posted: 10/9/2009 6:56:34 PM
Made me think of the song by Queen "another one bites the dust"
 jw503
Joined: 9/21/2009
Msg: 5
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Posted: 10/9/2009 10:23:19 PM
hahaha, nice. yeah i dont know what his deal is, I cant convince him otherwise. Its a huge risk, not only that but its just the wrong way
 89*4L
Joined: 8/7/2009
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/10/2009 1:12:08 AM
What's the right way?
 jw503
Joined: 9/21/2009
Msg: 7
Losing it to a prostitute?
Posted: 10/10/2009 5:21:09 PM
Certainly not with a paid-for prostitute. Seems like an easy way out of what appears to be a serious issue for him. Im not saying he should get married first, but I think its something that hes gonna remember for the rest of his life. And for most of us, after weve been through relationships, we would look back on that in a very negative way. Not only will he have to live with an automatic bad decision for the rest of his life, he may even be left with some "additional gifts" if you know what I mean. Then hes REALLY narrowed his future market. The right way, im my opinion for him is that he should just wait it out till hes able to experience it with someone he cares about, or in the VERY least: Someone who cares about him...
 oregonsaint
Joined: 5/22/2009
Msg: 8
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Posted: 10/20/2009 12:21:25 AM
A virgin at 22....thats rough! I think you are right on target as far as your buddy needing to loosen up, and stop setting unattainable standards.

The reality is, that until he realizes that "hot" is much more than mere physical appearance, he will be single for along time, and stay a virgin for along time. There is likely nothing that you or anyone else can do about it. Growing up is something we all have to do on our own. It seems to me he is "putting the cart in front of the horse". His thinking is ass backwards. Find a nice girl that you click with, develop a relationship, and the sex will follow. Then you get the best of both worlds.

Not to mention that I cant imagine that a prostitute would be able to give him a worthwhile sexual experience. Especially considering it is his first time? That is of course unless you consider emptying your wallett to a woman that has had more weiner than an oscar meyerr package, and might give him the gift that keeps on giving a great first sexual experience.

Oh well, to each their own.
 Zabrix
Joined: 10/17/2009
Msg: 9
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Posted: 10/20/2009 10:16:44 PM
Hit him on the nose with a rolled up newspaper and go "No, bad boy. No prostitutes for you!"
 m kaemicha
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/21/2009 10:33:19 PM
I don't know. I mean, he's 22 - not that young and if this is what he wants...
I don't mean to be real casual about this but I think a pro would make sure that he wore protection, take precautions so no STD's could be transmitted and bottom line, if that's what he wants...well, Happy Birthday!
 Blues1963
Joined: 9/13/2009
Msg: 11
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Posted: 10/22/2009 6:17:06 AM
I agree with MK. I'd probably haul him down to Reno though, they're legal and inspected there. I was kind of a chubby dork at that age myself, and getting that first time out of the way was a huge relief. Took the pressure off and made it much easier from there on out.
 younowho
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/23/2009 12:43:25 AM
people let me tell you a little something.. i drove truck for Avery long time, one of my main routes took me Reno to vegas.. Ho alley ...

I'll start with there isn't any houses in either city. Now far to many watch these movies or Tv. you see the Hot Ho's ..... Ya,, 10 bucks right and every Ho house has 30..

just to be clear I'm cheap, no Ho's get my money or slot machine , any way I doing this driving, it JUST happens these places are where there's a wide enough place for big trucks to pull off that highway. So you see the Babes.

guess what the babes .. I'd say. ya they would look ok .. after 12 beers, 3 shots of jack and about 2:15 am... believe me there not filming any movies using those women.
at the same time each house uses a CB radio, late at night the girls are always on the radio, you get to know each place and the girls voice and there name. They have nothing to do but talk, so we talk stories, talk of our lives, often you can talk about 1 hr before loosing range/contact.. I can say, it will cost you between 2 to 300, there will be between 2 to 3 ladies, and a ass kicker, and the owner. that no less than 5 working there, there could be as many as one other customer and you.

These are the on the highway houses, which most are trailer Houses.

So not quit like on TV. now from what I know there are a few Hi $$ places, get out the big bucks,, The only place you will find that fansty land sex is in vages ,, top floor of any casino. To get on those floors, million dallor bond uo front in cash.

some say the pro's are clean they get checked, so this is like telling the pope you been bang'n his sister, and he for gives you. ???

lets us know how that works out ..
 Altair_4
Joined: 11/14/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/17/2009 6:38:07 AM
What is the rush to lose your virginity? Are you considered a loser if you haven't lost it? Certainly not in my book. I think you should only lose it to that special person in your life. But then again, I'm old fashioned. I have friends who are more or less into casual sex. Not one of them has not had a STD. It can be playing with fire and sooner or later you are going to get burned. I say let him lose it on his own schedule and don't push him into it. I don't think a prostitute is the way to go, in my humble opinion.
 Fandango
Joined: 1/28/2012
Msg: 14
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Posted: 2/5/2012 10:01:15 PM
Hahaha..... Well on the insdie anyways.

Um tell him to use a rubber... or two. No tongue.
 qwerty4565
Joined: 10/15/2011
Msg: 15
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Posted: 2/8/2012 8:44:44 PM
I know a guy who is a closet case and 26 never even been on a date tell the 22 y/o guy to keep his chin up! he could be a fat loser!
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