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 Svetlana Blue
Joined: 6/23/2009
Msg: 2
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Ask them. It could mean a number of things. I do not have it on mine; I have what I do not want on here but people have still lied. So, I got really blunt about it. It works too. Finally, people who lie stopped e mailing me. Ask them what it means. Not that difficult. To me games and drama means people who tell stories and lies to try to make you want to meet them. Drama means tons of issues with the X, tragic behaved kids, etc. It is an issue that is WIDE open. All you can do is ask.
 Aisfor_Amanda
Joined: 11/1/2009
Msg: 3
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 1:16:54 PM
It means they don't want someone who plays Dungeons and Dragons or World of War Craft.

No drama means no actors.
 ForumFlounder
Joined: 3/13/2009
Msg: 4
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 1:18:48 PM
^^^lol @ snarky.

OP -- there are plenty-a-men who put this on their profiles as well.

I think this is right along the same line of "I hate liars, posers and cheaters".

Well, umm hello!?!? ...Who does??

I sometimes find that folks who have to reiterate this are the very thing of what they think they're trying to repel.
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 1:23:34 PM
^^^^ding ding ding...Its kinda the like attracts like thing....do you really think somebody that is high quality and can pick and choose is going to listen to "drama"....
 feistyredangel
Joined: 7/9/2009
Msg: 7
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 1:26:33 PM
Exactly, Landra.

And in my experience I have found that the ones that say no games, no drama are the first ones to start it.
 artist_48
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 8
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 1:38:35 PM
This is interpreted differently by each of us- male
and female alike.
It may be a defensive measure or it may mean
that they will not place interest in anyone who
employs mind- games as standard MO. Mind
games= control, defensive measures, etc.
I tend to see those broad statements as a defensive
measure of the one who posts it. They may tend to attract
people of that nature, yet not have an awareness
yet as to why, so they place this statement in
their profile thinking it will steer the mind- playing ,
dramatic people away....
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 9
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 1:40:16 PM

It means they don't want someone who plays Dungeons and Dragons or World of War Craft.

No drama means no actors.



 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 10
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 1:44:06 PM
.Amen!!

I have found that the ones that say no games, no drama are the first ones to start it.


That is a big nuh uh on a profile to me.


WTH???
Snarky..lmao
 honeyangel1985
Joined: 6/25/2009
Msg: 12
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 2:31:35 PM
It's going to mean differently to everyone.

I used to have it on my profile when I was single and the translation was no players, multiple chatters, multiple daters, liars, cheaters, fakes,dishonest men, no guys who keep in contact with ex-girlfriends, no divorced or married men, and no men who throw mantrums. And the biggie, no men with single women friends. And I found one who met my standards.
 Svetlana Blue
Joined: 6/23/2009
Msg: 13
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 2:34:03 PM
JKS, it is not to much to ask. However, it is sad what has happend to some of on here. I used to have a cool, neat , friendly profile; and guess what? I met nothing but men with poor, bad intentions. And I put a lot of time into getting to know these people before even meeting them; or so I thought. One I even dated long distance and moved for; that is a whole new thread. So...just send a few e mails. See how it goes. Meet ASAP and never be shocked when people are not who they are in photos or what they have told you. Good luck. And that is for everyone. I know there are still a lot of good people on here. I am just done with the whole on line approach. It wears people out who are busy and have their lives together.
 demondingleberry
Joined: 9/13/2009
Msg: 14
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 2:39:34 PM
It means
"I'm manipulative, emotional, and controlling:
I am trying to control who contacts me
I am frustrated at not being handed perfection so have to add vague subjective requirements I get to define to my profile that are socially acceptable
I am trying to manipulate you into seeing me as someone that doesn't play games or has drama, and that I am so smart and together I can spot it."

Or it means
"I don't really want to talk about myself on this dating site because I still have negative associations with it so am going to hide my true personality. Instead I am going to throw common cliches on my profile that make me sound normal and good, like baiting a trap. So no matter what happens if it ends I can call it a game and drama and shift blame to you."

Means the same whether men or women use it.
It's not gender specific IMO.
 Atlantis80
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 15
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 2:45:45 PM
Im very wary of folks that put "no drama" and "no games" in their profile because in my experience...the ones who complain the most about that type of stuff and how much they dont want it in their lives are the ones who constantly create it for themselves.

Can mean a bunch of things if you want to get technical.

But honestly...who DOES want that stuff in their life.

That's like other profiles I've read that said..."No cheaters, liars, moochers" etc. As if any of us want them.
 Jewlsey*
Joined: 1/24/2009
Msg: 17
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 3:06:18 PM
When I see the words 'drama' or 'games' on a profile, my eyes glaze over and I forget anything else I read on that page. When I come to, I usually find that I had clicked 'NEXT' in my zoned out state....
 SassySky
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 18
What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 3:37:17 PM

what exactly does this mean to a woman?

No games means to me on any profile, haven't worked through issues and need some help or they haven't learned how to play any board games.

No drama means they don't want your drama they only want theirs.

I click next... when I see or hear these so over stated words that to me are so bloody hypocritical and over done.

If I am being charitable I think that the user was looking for filler to put on their profile.IMO
 myrgth
Joined: 8/15/2009
Msg: 19
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What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean?
Posted: 11/16/2009 3:38:32 PM
All it means to me is that I'm not going to be going on a date with them and odds are I'm not even going to respond to a message they send me.

Unless they are really hot.. or have a good job.. or are really hot. /facetious
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