although there is no need for me to justify why I was arranging to meet 3 guys i would like to clarify that meeting guy no 1 was arranged for the thurs, he blew me out for work, so he said. Guy no 2 was for sunday, arranged after no 1 'had to work, said he'd call and explain and never did ....he also had to 'work' but did call at least. guy no 3 was for this thursday also arranged after sundays no show.. I was not intent on dating 3 guys at the same time ( ).In hindsight, I have come to the conclusion that as I had made the initial contact to all three, maybe that is the rub, also that I was willing to meet quite soon although that was at their suggestion...guys do like to believe they are the ones doing the 'chasing' and do not like what may be termed 'predatory women'. However, I have never sat back and waited for life to come to me, I prefer to go and grab it by the balls! (life I mean not the guys...that really would scare them off!)... so i will continue to make first contact, but maybe, using my femine whiles...(wtf are whiles anyway?! )i'll keep their interest !!
are you sure your not mixing confidence with desperation? i mean surely you must of told guy 3 about guys 2 and 1 not turning up? sometimes people think this one sounds a bit desperate and declines.