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 paulbme
Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 4
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mmm too much ,well who knows ,never been there
Its seems more like not enough (or none at all ) thats doing the damage
 WithJustaLittleLuck
Joined: 10/27/2008
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Posted: 11/25/2009 7:07:06 PM

lm thinking maybe its bad for us?...reason being the females are loosing too much lecathin (bodily juices are made of it)its not being replaced by females nearly enough.... in pregnancy, when in nature... we arent supposed to have sex once pregnant because the lecathin is used to make up the babies brain.Fact!


I would love to see a study that demonstrated that “fact”. I think that you are thinking of lecithin which is in many bodily secretions including blood, vaginal secretions and gastrointestinal fluids. Lecithin is involve in brain development though it is hard to imagine anyone producing enough vaginal secretions during sex to have any effect at all on their foetus or anything else and interestingly while there are lecithin supplements that people can take for various reasons, usually having something to do with being over weight or suffering memory loss, it is not know with certainty if it is safe for pregnant women to take them.

I am not sure what you mean by “in nature” the idea that it would be common or normal for hunter gathers to stop having sex as soon as they realised they were pregnant strikes me as unlikely to say the least. The very idea that humans could have too much sex is itself an odd idea given that human unlike most mammalian species that have an obvious estrus cycle, have evolved concealed ovulations and concomitant uninterrupted receptivity so it is hard to know what too much could mean. Anyway the important point if someone were loosing enough lecithin during sex to make a difference to anything they probable have a promising career ahead of them in the porn industry though they would need a stage name something like “the hydrant medusa”.
 Island home
Joined: 7/5/2009
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Posted: 11/25/2009 9:12:10 PM
Male after sex = deflated/de-energized
Female after sex = energized, after short break ready to go shopping or redecorate the room

Guess to much sex
for a male the risk is having forehead collapse Like deflated balloon.
for female the risk is to pop like a pricked balloon
 WithJustaLittleLuck
Joined: 10/27/2008
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Posted: 11/26/2009 1:10:21 AM

Though I guess if you find yourself walking like John Wayne and leaving a snail trail everywhere you go you may be over indulging just a tad.
Now where is my horse??


Well if you are going to ride a horse, for god’s sake be careful; don’t break your neck, I have no idea where we would get a “Y” shaped coffin from.

I wonder if there is a more decorous expression than “leaving a snail trial”?
 ocrikeymikey
Joined: 12/15/2004
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Posted: 11/26/2009 7:58:07 AM
Its been a while between drinks for me so I thought Id better Google 'sex' and get myself updated. The first thing I see is 'results 1-10 of about 99,000,000 for sex'....hmmm....Im gonna be a while researching before I can give an informed opinion on this topic!
 Akizzej
Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 24
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Posted: 11/26/2009 8:42:01 AM
Forecast for Akizzej's sex life determines a drought break in 8 weeks and five days...

and then I'll report back if too much sex is detrimental to the system...

Oh stuff it, I'll say it now...

NO IT'S NOT. Releases endorphins of feel good, better sense of self esteem in womens, mens easier to deal with...
In fact, there's definitely more fact than fiction in this ol' essay that does the rounds sometimes.



Sex Helps You Keep Looking Good.

Scientific tests find that when women make love, they produce double amounts of the hormone estrogen, which make hair shiny and skin smooth. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that romantic dinner. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body. It's more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps and you don't need special goggles!

Sex is an instant cure for mild depression.
It releases the body endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being. A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever. The more sex you have, the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy! Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. It is 10 times more effective than Valium. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay, preventing plaque buildup. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restrict blood vessels in the brain. Sex actually relieves headaches.....
 Con Ten Ted
Joined: 6/25/2009
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Posted: 11/27/2009 3:17:50 AM
^^^^ You been out fixing some femme's house ???

The only times that I can think of where too much sex would cause harm to someone would be if that someone was sharing it around and the sig. other found out .... tends to cause a little upset I hear .....

By the way, any female tradies out there looking for some work ???
 Island home
Joined: 7/5/2009
Msg: 31
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Posted: 11/28/2009 4:57:15 PM
Good posts Madison
 Akizzej
Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 32
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Posted: 11/28/2009 7:08:59 PM
Maddison... since you've named me directly.... guess I has ta post back...

Of course as an older woman, with some medical and health background experience, I posted the 'benefits' as a tongue in cheek - I'm sure that anyone with an ounce of sensibility would recognise that...
Hence the 'statement':
In fact, there's definitely more fact than fiction in this ol' essay that does the rounds sometimes.


I know that sometimes the best cure for a headache is a simple glass of water, that running and walking melt off the kilos... {loardy knows I've done it enough times}
Saliva by gum chewing, good and well when it doesn't stick to the dentures...

and I could go on...but I have learnt in my life to say ''how nice dear''...


IMO, the mere matter of the fact is....

Sex is good, fun and as a sign of maturity can develop feelings of extra intimacy with the RIGHT person, and that's something that develps in AND out of bed {or the laundry, or the kitchen, and the back yard or your pit of passion}

So you choose not to converse with an 'addict'... that's all good and well. I choose not to also... sometimes I can't get enough.... and sometimes I don't want to think about sex at all.

That's the difference between men and women, hormones and horniness, the simple facts of life... it is, simply because it is....

hey, watch out - tongue in cheek comment coming up...
You know why nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes.... it's because there's too much fraternising with the enemy!!!



{not that I have to say anything, I also know about the using sex and promiscuity as a pain relief tool, to take away the pain of childhood abuse, that at least for just that moment in time, someone that I CHOSE thought I was special - life matures you of that - sometimes. I say sometimes, because then you get those to whom it hasn't, and so you get the old farts thinking they'll get a 'leg over' on the young girls... and they haven't matured to their dellusions}
 roatw
Joined: 8/20/2009
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/5/2009 2:29:25 AM
Sex?...whats that?
 Watermanmax
Joined: 11/3/2011
Msg: 43
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Posted: 11/23/2011 8:26:04 PM
depends on how late you are for work....
 lastgreatromance
Joined: 11/26/2011
Msg: 48
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Posted: 12/13/2011 2:16:21 PM
I know facts on this, sex is great and who cares what its doing to us, think ill have some now just to make sure
 gingerosity
Joined: 12/10/2011
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Posted: 12/14/2011 2:23:11 AM
After seeing a documentary about the sex lives of bonobos I realised that over millions of years of evolution we have become superbly adapted to think about and do lots and lots of sex. So the answer is you'd have to be either a top porn star or a poor prostitute to run into this kind of problem - we can take a lot.

And us poor singles are much more likely to have the problem of 'scarcity of resources'!
 Hilly02
Joined: 10/7/2011
Msg: 51
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Posted: 12/23/2011 3:39:34 AM
Sorry not tonight dear....I want to attain my peak aesthetics.
Good luck with that one
 smothy
Joined: 1/26/2008
Msg: 52
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Posted: 12/23/2011 4:02:15 AM
dose that mean that if i keep practicing i wont hit the ceiling
It is the silly season i am told

 Johng9322
Joined: 12/23/2009
Msg: 53
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Posted: 12/27/2011 6:34:29 AM
I cant see how its bad for you, might tire you iut if you're over doing it i guess thats about it.
 rupert01
Joined: 3/15/2008
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Posted: 1/12/2012 12:39:10 PM
I started to go blind so I stopped when I needed glasses. I think that it probably would be more fun with a partner though.
 qldblue
Joined: 2/4/2009
Msg: 56
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Posted: 1/17/2012 1:20:53 AM
I know all about sex, it comes after 5 and before 7, I have to get myself a job where I am not working those hours

 gingerosity
Joined: 12/10/2011
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Posted: 1/17/2012 1:30:58 AM

I know all about sex, it comes after 5 and before 7


Only if you're from kiwi-land...
 AddHomonym
Joined: 12/26/2011
Msg: 58
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Posted: 1/17/2012 2:09:00 AM
I doubt too much sex is a serious problem for anyone but you certainly can "injure" yourself with all sorts of odd and uncomfortable afflictions when you over indulge. I'm not talking about STDs either. More like sprains, strains and carpet burns...lol
 teddyoo1
Joined: 2/22/2011
Msg: 59
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Posted: 1/22/2012 12:23:33 AM
lol sure he can as for the rest of the this debate the short answer is no. but too much is dependent upon the indervidual we shou;ld know our limits and respect them all the info in this chat re good for ect is proven fact . also a proven fact is anything done to excess is harmfull either short or long term find your balance and enjoy. now just need a partner to test my summations lol
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 61
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Posted: 5/3/2012 11:10:14 PM
ill let u know if it ever happens hahahaha, ( highly unlikely in my case)
 Akizzej
Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 62
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Posted: 5/4/2012 7:17:18 PM
Well, if the "WTF was that" I got yesterday was 'sex' then I'm going to have to 'retract' my 'no' from 2009

That was a disaster and then the selfish sod says "Happy Birthday"... say what???

Rephrase to "too much GREAT sex" and then I'll agree....
 HappyRocker
Joined: 8/13/2011
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Posted: 5/5/2012 7:24:04 AM
It must be, I feel terrible.
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 64
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Posted: 5/25/2012 2:48:46 AM
its a sign of low eq, needy people wit emotinal deficits r into sex, yes its bad 4 welbeing, counselling may help.
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