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 terilyn59
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 2
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Friends like this, you don't need. She appears to be confused and full of drama. She doesn't know what she wants from one minute to the next and it's not fair to you. You have made a lot of sacrifices and the only thing she seems to be concerned about is herself. Everytime you make a decision, she flips on hers. Take care of yourself, first. Some people cannot be helped and she does not appear to be ready to make any real changes in her life right now. As long as she can keep falling back on you in the meantime, she will. That is not a happy place to be. Fidn a woman who is sure of you and what she wants. You deserve to be loved and adored.
 bmore_goat
Joined: 4/8/2009
Msg: 4
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I was dumped after relocating maybe we should be friends
Posted: 12/15/2009 2:33:44 PM
Dude,
I'm just wondering where the hell are your friends and family during this $hitstorm of a life you are having.

I feel so sorry you need the help of a bunch of internet strangers telling you what you all ready know to be true.

You have literally fcuk'ed your life up for a self -centered MARRIED woman with kids.

Living in a hotel for a month? She lied about her marital status. The list goes on and on about how she is just not good for you.
When I was 24, I was single, living in europe, dating, I had money, a job (actually two jobs, doing something I loved) and had a great life. It just sadden me to read your tale on how you are ruining your life over tail. The 20's are suppose to be the best part of your life!!!
This woman is a serious cancer on your physical and mental well-being. In fact she, sound mentally unstable and she is just pulling you down that deep black hole with her.

I'm really at a loss to see what is so special about her, that makes you want to give up EVERYTHING to be with her and just flush your life down the toliet. Where do you see yourself in 5 years, 3? Even next year, do you see your life improving next year being with her?
Better yet, last year, how is your life better this year from last year. You were in Florida, warm, happy, maybe with a job or going to school. Now look at you, no money, somewhere cold and still on your own.

Yes, go back to therapy, get your life back on track and maybe, just maybe you should stay away from married unstable women.

Be friends? This woman is NOT your friend. Friends look out for you. Do you really think she cares about your best interest?
 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 7
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I was dumped after relocating maybe we should be friends
Posted: 12/16/2009 7:05:46 AM
ughhhhhhhhh........my head just exploded after reading all of that!...........in my mind's eye it was like that Bonnie and Clyde movie all over again....all these people in and out of hotels, motels, not knowing where their home is minute to minute.........crazy!

I need to take a walk and clear my head after reading that.......
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