There is no such thing as 'being played'...that is cover for "wow, I made a dumb ass decision".
No one can be played- we just IGNORE what is right in front of us hopng and
praying pretend guy will come back and we will live happily ever after.
ahh...... if you are so inclined to live in flip flop world then by all means continue
to take his calls, meet him - see him for a month or two and then yet AGAIN be
devalued and discarded - or ........ use your ovaries and tell him to go "find himself".
There are no "mistakes" - you meet, spend time together and decide right
then and there that you want to be together. There is no break time to decide.
Love is pretty simple. You either feel it or you dont. He isnt feeling it and has
no clue probably what anything feels like except what benefits him.
Grown men dont act like this. Immature, narcisisstic people do. Selfish and
does not care about how all this discarding affects you. Only them.
Get out - no contact. Find someone who cant wait to see you and KNOWS how
he feels about you.