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 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 3
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Is your name Elin ?

last name Woods?

just asking is all.....nuf said
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 12/15/2009 4:14:18 PM
There is no such thing as 'being played'...that is cover for "wow, I made a dumb ass decision".


Yup. Exactly.

No one can be played- we just IGNORE what is right in front of us hopng and
praying pretend guy will come back and we will live happily ever after.

ahh...... if you are so inclined to live in flip flop world then by all means continue
to take his calls, meet him - see him for a month or two and then yet AGAIN be
devalued and discarded - or ........ use your ovaries and tell him to go "find himself".


There are no "mistakes" - you meet, spend time together and decide right
then and there that you want to be together. There is no break time to decide.

Love is pretty simple. You either feel it or you dont. He isnt feeling it and has
no clue probably what anything feels like except what benefits him.

Grown men dont act like this. Immature, narcisisstic people do. Selfish and
does not care about how all this discarding affects you. Only them.

Get out - no contact. Find someone who cant wait to see you and KNOWS how
he feels about you.
 Ron429
Joined: 2/26/2009
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Posted: 12/16/2009 11:37:03 AM
Women lie about their feelings and emotions just as they accuse men. There is no gender monopoly. A woman that SAYS she loves you and then treats you in an exact opposite fashion. No contact whatsoever is good advice. No e-mails, phone calls, letters, texting, no trying to get their attention. She was your love, and yes you are a toy and/or an option. Let something go and if it comes back great. If it doesn't you never had it in the first place and you are much better off dear.
 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
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Posted: 12/16/2009 6:57:26 PM
I always say that dating is and should be like a job interview..........sadly, our emotions get in the way, but if we boil it all down, it really is a long drawn out job interview.....(and especially more so if kids are involved)

.....don't yell at me folks, because I understand it's a little more complicated.....
 dbedazzling
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 16
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Posted: 12/17/2009 8:05:02 PM
He is not RELIABLE n ur only an option to him...y on earth would u want a man like that in yr life....focus on his short comings n yr feelings for him will change...u kno u deserve better...
 terilyn59
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 17
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Posted: 12/17/2009 10:27:41 PM
Dump Him fast! He's quite the operator.
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