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 brad1411
Joined: 1/17/2009
Msg: 1
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I don't know if I'm just unlucky in this department or if most women are actually like this. Every woman I've been with has refused to let me cum anywhere on her body. She says it's gross and hates it. Is this normal or have I just run into the small population who really don't like it? Because to be honest, I really want to try it lol :)
 afashionlady
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 2
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 5:49:52 AM
Because most women aren't porn stars and don't want the mess.

Plus, if you're wearing a CONDOM there's no such thing as a cumshot.

If you want to shoot jizz all over, pay a prostitute--that way you can try it and see what the big deal is.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 5:54:39 AM
Well I'm one of those freaky women that love it!

I figure my man deserves the best orgasm he can have.......and if cumming on me makes it a little better......then shoot away!!

(BTW......a condom can be taken off when he pulls out and starts to cum)
 afashionlady
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 4
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 6:01:07 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^

Don't encourage the troll Micki.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 5
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 6:01:24 AM
I don't hate it at all. It's messy, sure, but it can be fun--also, if a partner of mine wants to do something sexually that's not one of my hard limits, I'm game even if it doesn't do all that much for me personally. Satisfying my partner is important, and that sort of give-and-take is important in a good sexual relationship.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 6
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 6:25:10 AM

Now i'm sure that the women i've been with would just as soon not take it on the face/body if I hadn't made the decision for them.


Wow, what a fabulous and giving lover you must be!
 afashionlady
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 7
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 7:27:35 AM

Now i'm sure that the women i've been with would just as soon not take it on the face/body if I hadn't made the decision for them.


Gee...wow...so sensitive. You're 25 yrs old...when you're old enough to know better, then you'll figure out that those aren't "women" you're dealing with--they care as little for you as you do for them.

What you're doing isn't confident...it's arrogant. The one man who did decide to cum on my face without even asking? That was the last time he ever saw me. He took your attitude..."that's what I wanted to do so I did it" and that didn't fly with me. It's my body, my decision--you don't get to choose what you want to do to someone just because you've got a****

THIS is why some women don't like cumshots--arrogant, self-centered, I'm gonna do what I wanna do men.
 7th son
Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 8
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 7:31:09 AM
What a nice lady,,,,
 7th son
Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 9
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 7:35:09 AM
What an extreeemly nice Lady ,,,
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 7:54:06 AM
I've known a few who enjoyed a cumshot on various parts of the body,although I've never known one who liked a facial. There was one one former girlfriend who decided to try it to see what it felt like and proceeded to catch it in both eyes. Really wish I'd been at her work that night to hear her explanation of why her eyes were so red and swollen.

Really,it's no big thrill for me. I've no doubt it gives some guys a feeling of empowerment over their women,but I've never found it that big of a turn on. Generally I'll do it when I'm having trouble cumming inside,so I'll just jerk off on her stomach. My girlfriend actually loves that,but the problem is that it turns her on so much that she wants to go again,and of course I'm done at that point.
 Happily Ever...maybe
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 12/19/2009 8:52:23 AM
Some women are into that sort of thing, and some aren't, just like all sorts of other sexual acts between two partners. The most important thing, as it always is, is to communicate with her about your sexual wishes and desires and her's. And don't get caught up in confusing porn with real life.
 tayl0rd
Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 12
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 9:25:02 AM
Hmm... Interesting question now that I think about it. I've only come across ONE woman who expressly didn't like cumshots. All the other women I've ever been with in my life have never said they had a problem with it or even thought anything of it. (Even the frigid one.) If anything, the ones I was in a relationship with would ask why I didn't pull out if I came inside them. That in itself is an odd question because they'd ask immediately afterward, but not in an angry or otherwise upset manner. It was more like they were concerned something was wrong that I didn't pull out and spray 'em. Weird.

Anyway... Cumming on a woman isn't any kind of "turn on" or power play for me. It's just something I do. I've never given it any thought since I've only had the one complaint. Heck, one of them used to "help me out" when I'd pull out to cum. Now that was HOT! Never realized how good it could feel to have a woman jerking it when I pull out to cum. Boy, I miss her! LOL

Back on point, OP, you've just been unlucky. There are vastly more women out there that don't care than there are that don't like it. Unless I've just been really lucky, that is.
 indefatigabilis
Joined: 11/10/2009
Msg: 13
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 10:22:10 AM

Because most women aren't porn stars and don't want the mess.
That's rich. Did you know that vagina translates literally as "messy place"?
 afashionlady
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 14
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 10:26:22 AM

That's rich. Did you know that vagina translates literally as "messy place"?


When men can enjoy cum in their hair and maybe an eye shot...come back and try to convince me. Mind you...cumming on my stomach or breasts...got no issue...if you've asked. But if you've never had it in your eye, or have gotten your hair done and some guy decides that it's hot to shot it everywhere...I don't wanna hear it.

Some women don't like it because some men think that porn is real life...we aren't getting paid to have some guy shoot on our faces...well some aren't I guess!

I'm not against them but it's not something that you as a man should always just DO. Not every woman likes it and a respectful man will ask before doing.
 barbyanne2
Joined: 10/19/2009
Msg: 15
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 10:28:37 AM
relax Brad. You just haven't met someone yet who likes that too. It's pretty basic, as in sex 101, so I'm surprised, actually, to hear you say that. Also, look for a woman with an educated & healthy attitude about sex and the human body. Are you dating teenagers in high school!?!

Semen is not GROSS. It is a normal body fluid that is awesome as it is a visual symbol that your guy is turned on by you, ladies. How would your ladies like it if you found them GROSS regarding something normal that we have no control over - like their own body fluids.
 Cherish Luv
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 16
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 10:37:40 AM
Your cum is something special you think a woman should look upon it a gift or feel privileged to have it all over her face or body? You are one sorry loser for any woman to go to bed with.
 blowmydoorsoff
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 17
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Posted: 12/19/2009 12:55:08 PM
Dood if they like U enough to have sex with U. They'll let U cum on them, just do it. With the exception of facials. If your in the throes of passion, that'll fly too. But is just kind of inconsiderate to do. Uve been watching too much porn man.

If your expecting a woman to hit her knee's and open their mouth to accommodate your climax, then U need to get into the porn industry. That's one of the good uses of rubber's, aside from the birth control and STD protection, not as messy.

So if U have some fetish ( would ask yourself, where it came from ... ans: porn ) your going to have to find someone who's ok with it, or spend enough time with someone. To the point that they care enough to let U experiment. I mean its not like there isnt a shower somewhere close. Warm soapy shower play has its own appeal.

Just man up and do it ( once again with the exception of facials ) And if its such a timid situation, that she wont let cum on her or in her mouth. Then U probally shouldnt be fecking them in the 1st place. Think its your approach, if a woman will let U into the most intimate part of her body, she'd let U cum on her.
 77Angela
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 18
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 1:18:52 PM
You need to choose a different "type" than you have before; try farm girls or girls who play sports. They're not scared of having to clean up some semen like some princesses or "daddy's girls" would be!
 berrysweetncgurl
Joined: 8/2/2004
Msg: 19
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 4:33:26 PM
You just havent met the right woman yet, cumshots are wonderful! Why waste it, when you can taste it?
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 12/19/2009 4:57:37 PM
I never ceases to amaze me how some folks are actually grossed out by sex. Yes...it's messy and it has odors associated with it. So?? The way some people seem to think of it, it's a wonder they're able to tolerate it at all.
And as to the women who just can't see themselves making contact with semen, much less swallowing it, think of what guys are in for when they go down on you; that's right.. a steady flow of vaginal mucous for the duration of the "act".
 blowmydoorsoff
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 21
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 11:24:02 PM

a steady flow of vaginal mucous for the duration of the "act".


That didnt really need 2 be said .... now did it ? Quit trying to make going down on women, seem so arduous, when its so frickin great, lol !!!
 itsallinthesoul
Joined: 6/26/2009
Msg: 22
Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/19/2009 11:33:06 PM

a steady flow of vaginal mucous for the duration of the "act".




It may not need to have been said, but it was funny to read....it is interesting I suppose how many people like receiving but hate giving oral pleasure.....

As for the original topic.....some will object, some won't. When two people are together sexually, they should have their likes and dislikes respected. Even though one poster kinda got slammed for his own contribution to this thread, he makes a valid point....sometimes it is in the confidence of one's "delivery". I wouldn't recommend cumming on a woman's face if you don't know how she will react though...especially if it is someone you hope to see again. Other than that, be considerate and help clean up the "mess" after you are done....nothing worse than having to get up and make a run for a towel while the cum is dripping all over the floor....
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 12/20/2009 3:57:56 AM

It may not need to have been said, but it was funny to read....it is interesting I suppose how many people like receiving but hate giving oral pleasure.....


Yes, my point exactly. I've heard many women on these fora say how "nasty" they think semen is. What do they think is dripping out of them when they're in a state of arousal, maple syrup???
I just have trouble understanding folks who want to have sex but, can't deal with the fact that it's wet, sticky and smelly. To make an omelette you gotta break eggs.
 blowmydoorsoff
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 24
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Posted: 12/20/2009 4:03:11 AM

can't deal with the fact that it's wet, sticky and smelly. To make an omelette you gotta break eggs.


When U put it that way, doesnt sound very appealing. Man U sure do have a way with words 2nite/dy. Thinking the sex industry isnt going to be hiring U anytime soon, to do marketing promotions for them. Just making fun, cuz its enjoyable.

Reminds me of a family guy episode. When one of them sayz, .... close the window, your letting all the stank out.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Why don't most women like cumshots?
Posted: 12/20/2009 5:33:17 AM
Airtight.. you'd try that sh*t on me once. Once. Mouth is fine, anywhere on the body is fine. My face is off limits. Period. End. Stop. When unwanted (as in my case) to do it is degrading and disrespectful.

As for the OP... I'm thinking it's just a poor choice in partners. I've never had an issue with a man cumming on me, with the exception of my face. The last fellow that did something I had very specifically told him NOT to do, received a rather vicious bite for his failure to comprehend what he'd been told.

Within a relationship, or where it's been discussed between two consenting partners, dropping a load somewhere that's been agreed on previously can be incredibly erotic and a major turn on for both partners.
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