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 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 2
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Pain you feel now...
is the down payment for future happiness with someone better.

You did the right thing.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 6
why oh why oh why!????
Posted: 12/22/2009 9:38:40 PM
....and cut yourself some slack OP.
Soon after a marriage we just don't make good decisions.
(I didn't)

You know now.
It hurts, but you won't fall for that again.
Next guy will be better.
 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 18
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why oh why oh why!????
Posted: 12/26/2009 2:06:30 PM
The OP says this in the opening post:


<div class="quote">fell in love and moved in together,long story short, cant hold his beer, ok til the switch flips and he is a mean drunk...very jealous, and not super motvated


.....and yet in her profile, says her idea for a first date is to go have a drink........good lord almighty!


First Date
NOT HAVE TO PAY FOR ONCE...INSIDE JOKE...
GO HAVE A DRINK AND TALK, HONESTLY I COULD CARE LESS AS LONG AS ITS STRESS FREE,


You troll for drunks and yet complain when they take the bait? I'm not wasting any advice on this pathetic story...I mean, her story is that she fell in love with a drunk, moved in with a drunk and now complains she got what she designed....a life with a drunk! (and now is advertizing for another drunk to come on in to her life.....unreal!
 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
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Posted: 12/26/2009 2:43:22 PM
The point is that she hates drunks........but saying she'd like to go for a drink (which will never be just 1 drink) as a first date is a sure fire way to give the green light for drunks to contact her......I mean, it's ridiculous!

That's like a person who just escaped a drug addict and complained about said drug addict suggesting smoking a few joints would be cool for a first date. Welcome to more druggies!

...sheesh!
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 12/28/2009 2:48:15 AM
and he didnt drink beer before you moved in together??

Give me a break!!!
MHO..You thought you could change him by moving in with him, that didnt work so now it is all his fault!!

OH your foolish pride!!
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