|I'm sorry you're feeling dissappointed about your past experience. Perhaps in the future you shoud find out this:|
he sees us both with someone else someday.. before you meet the poor innocent kid(s) that shouldn't have to be subjected to the romantic whims of (supposedly) mature adults.
ANY of my ex's would tell you what a wonderful kind person i am. I will assume that you are a wonderful person.. But, what are you doing that makes them want to be ex's?? Why are they not staying with someone who is so wonderful?
There is a lesson in your last relationship. Learn what that lesson was before you venture out again.. If you don't learn about YOU.. The same thing will keep happening.
I think you are right in leaving someone who "sees you both with someone else some day." He was just there to kill time.. That doesn't mean he wasn't enjoying your complany, nor does it mean that he wasn't fond of you.. It just means that you gave your heart to a man that didn't really want it. Learn from that, forgive yourself, forgive him.. figure YOU out and then you'll find someone who's in it for more than the moments of pleasure you share(d).. Casual relationships are fine when it is what both people want. When It's only what one person wants.. then they're not so "fine."
~ Wishes ~