Because he didn't get sex - he could be upset about that, but most guys at least have condoms in the house. He asked me if I had any, or if he should get some (this guy is almost 44 years old). He told also he likes anal sex, not crazy about that!
I tried oral sex on him, didn't work.
Am I missing something? Your whole description here sounds like a one night thing. And with all due respect, you are sounding far too easy. Despite him being rather boorish and crude, you still started oral sex on him?
And, it sounds like your whole relationship (if you could call it that) is based on sex. You never once described anything else about you two except sex.
How about actually finding out if you are a match and spend some quality time with each other instead of the discussion focusing on condoms, anal sex, oral sex and the like.
You are just as much responsible for this situation as he is.....don't blame shift when it was you who allowed yourself to climb into bed with this guy in the first place. He is what he is so recognize that and learn to treat yourself with a little more respect..........condoms or lack thereof aren't the bigger issue here.