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 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 3
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You know - thread search is your friend.

This will probably get deleted.

I dont know why they dont answer. Maybe she had to pee.
They just dont so just go on to the next one. Lots of girls
here.

Your age is a factor. Sad but true. 21 year old girls get lots
of mail probably - Mr. Knightinshiningarmour probably emailed
her and her attention span - which we all know could be that of a
three year old(I have been acused of it) could have taken her
somewhere else.

Dont fret. Just keep emailing and talking. And yeah -get out from
behind the computer and meet them in life.
 LiliMarleen
Joined: 5/24/2009
Msg: 5
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Posted: 1/27/2010 5:40:31 PM
For what it's worth, your response was very charming. I think you're a good, lively writer, you responded to the things she said and added some of your own. Very nice e-mail. For me, there would have been plenty to run with in the mail you sent.

I don't know why she didn't respond back . . . who knows about these things, really, but I don't think you said anything wrong.
 Puppydog54
Joined: 7/30/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 1/27/2010 8:30:31 PM
All I can offer is... get used to it, bud. Happens all the time for any number of reasons
 CommonSensible
Joined: 1/10/2010
Msg: 7
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Posted: 1/28/2010 12:07:44 AM
Mike.. I presume they are in your age group.

THEY are doing what ALL little childish TWITS do.

Go finish your education and get your career going.

The females you may meet now are "dream killers" and your dreams will go down the toilet. Dont get sidetracked. ALWAYS use condoms at ALL TIMES. NEVER leave the used ones behind at HER place.

Just some wise words of advice.

Oh.. since you are a student.. always go dutch with these women. You dont make enough money to be THEIR "social event daddy-wallet" Remember, the pleasure of YOUR company is worth just as much to THEM.. as their's is to you.
 Happinesstoo
Joined: 11/16/2007
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Posted: 1/28/2010 11:39:42 AM
common sensible,
why are you always so nasty and negative, I am sorry some woman or women have broken your heart but maybe you need to look at yourself and what you want out of a woman and or your life. NOT all women are out to screw men over and a lot of what goes on in this world and how we treat each other is because we took away accountability and self accountability.
 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
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Posted: 1/28/2010 1:34:00 PM
To the OP.....aren't "private messages" supposed to be just that? ...."private"......

There is a lot of identifying information in those messages you posted.

That's just wrong to post that stuff. She was clearly smart enough to write you off fast.
 mysteriosa
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Posted: 1/28/2010 6:34:55 PM
Of course she could always answer soon, that's possible. I'm assuming you've edited her message otherise it looks very choppy and incoherent. If you haven't, then I suspect it's her not you in this situation.

People just suddenly lose interest and there' s no knowing why - something else captures their attention or something we say just doesn't work for them. There's nothing wrong with your writing.
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