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 Irish Eyez
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Why can't YOU ask to meet him?
 nexthyme
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He won't initiate a face to face meeting?
Posted: 2/16/2010 6:51:31 PM
Five whole days?

In the scheme of things five days isn't quite what I'd consider to far out of the ordinary for this on line thing, however as the others have said, if you are ready why don't you ask him...

I am hoping by the time I die the double standards of dating have become of thing of the past, where women feel at ease in asking, and those men who feel they need to be the chase are comfortable with someone chasing them for a change...

OR in other words, act like equal adults and it doesn't matter who askes first and just goes for it. Jmho
 nexthyme
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He won't initiate a face to face meeting?
Posted: 2/16/2010 7:03:08 PM
Oh huni you are just beyond the age of men trembling in their boots, and are looking foreward to the one gal that does at least half the courting...

Sighhhhh, LOL, men used to be hunters, now they are just like a lot of other people trying to get by in a crazy world...
 Wishes Granted
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He won't initiate a face to face meeting?
Posted: 2/16/2010 7:23:22 PM
Op: Is your email only programmed to receive invitations? Why don't you ask him to call you.. then at least you'll advance to human interaction. Better yet.. get his number and you call him..


He won't ask until you send him a picture of yourself wearing a hat with fruit piled on it. He is shy as a rule but can't resist a good whiff of Carmen Miranda.
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 Wishes Granted
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He won't initiate a face to face meeting?
Posted: 2/16/2010 8:24:08 PM

Good insight nexthyme.....btw....I was the first to e-mail him because he added me to his favorites but never contacted me......
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Do you wanna know the main reason a guy adds a girl as a favorite instead of emailing you??? You have Must not have messaged others who are looking for intimate encounters email restriction on your profile.
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lot of guys who can't email you because they have messaged others looking for intimate encounters add you as a favorite in hopes that you would initiate first contact breaking the restriction so he can email you.



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