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 *november babee*
Joined: 2/19/2009
Msg: 4
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why is it too early...?

would you like a call/txt or mail from her telling you that she had a really great time and would love to do it all over again..? yes...? well so would she...
dont go listening to anyone who tells you to play it cool, wait for a day or so to call.. or to stick to the 3 day rule or whatever it is these days...

keep the momentum going and ask her for another date in a day or 2 or the weekend or whatever....
 Delete_Me_Please
Joined: 11/10/2009
Msg: 6
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Posted: 3/8/2010 12:31:34 PM

How can I convince her to go on a third date?

I can tell you what not to do: don't make that face you're making in your main photo. It looks like a guy with a rental van and a manifesto.
 happygal_28
Joined: 9/25/2005
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Posted: 3/8/2010 4:22:50 PM
@downtowngeorge...
Maybe he's not as much nervous as just thrilled and excited..for a girl to see this, it ain't a bad thing! Doesnt sound like buddy is screwing up at all, just thoughtful. Seriously, he's on the 3rd date!
 redheadruby
Joined: 11/24/2009
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Posted: 3/8/2010 5:07:59 PM
Ok Downtowngeorge....if we all waited until we got our shit together and weren't nervous.....none of us would ever date......we'd all be on here age 85....still hoping it will happen. He's a kid.....he's nervous..it's new to him...and probably to her........he's not jaded like the rest of us.......so OP...ask her......let her know you're enjoying her company.......nothing ventured...nothing gained. Don't overthink everything.....the curse of dating.....: )
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 3/8/2010 5:26:16 PM
Nervous is normal.

Call or email her and tell her you had a great time and want to see her again.
(and suggest something...movie..dinner..whatever)

Talk or text her abit between dates.
just small talk. The day to day stuff.

You two are nervous cus you don't no much about each other yet.
The more familiar you become, the less nervous you two will be.

And another thing.
If she was nervous, it may be cus she likes you stud.
women aren't too nervous when they don't.
Then they just seemed bored.

Good Luck
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