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 Lint Spotter
Joined: 8/27/2009
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The one thing I hate about porn..Page 1 of 4    (1, 2, 3, 4)
To be more specific, you like erotica, not porn. There is a difference.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 3
The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 4/22/2010 4:23:56 PM

Porn is, by far, the largest content on the internet

I'm pretty sure the "who pays?" thread took up more space.

The thing *I* hate about porn is the fakey moans. UGH--no, wait, the spitting on body parts!
 barefootkitten
Joined: 12/17/2009
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Posted: 4/22/2010 5:11:06 PM
My thought: do they even MAKE videos that don't end in facials anymore? To me, that's just as degrading as the name-calling.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 4/22/2010 8:24:35 PM

My thought: do they even MAKE videos that don't end in facials anymore? To me, that's just as degrading as the name-calling.


I'll never understand the thought that a a facial is degrading ??
I'd really like for someone to help me understand that thought process.
I'm not trying to be judgemental ....nor am I saying that opinion is wrong.....
I would just seriously like to hear why you and others feel this way.

But I definately agree that the name calling isn't my thing....in porn or in my bedroom.

And who started all this spitting? Who decided this was sexy/erotic?
Totally ruins it for me.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 4/22/2010 8:55:35 PM

I'll never understand the thought that a facial is degrading ??
I'd really like for someone to help me understand that thought process.

Well, let's see. I am pretty clear on the thought process.
If someone spits in my face, it's degrading.
If someone shytes in my face, it's degrading.
How come in YOUR mind it's NOT degrading when someone spluges in your face?!
It's a form of domination--not that there's anything "wrong" with that, necessarily.
But I can see where many, many women would not like it.
 wvwaterfall
Joined: 1/17/2007
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The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 4/22/2010 10:03:51 PM
It's been forever since I've watched any porn, so I don't know what the current stuff is like, but I've always thought there was the potential for SOMEONE to make a truly erotic movie with an enticing plot that included graphic sex. Some of the old stuff like Emanuelle and Behind the Green Door at least had some sort of plot line, but what I've always envisioned was a movie that wasn't primarily about sex but somehow found the right emphasis on it to go beyond the eroticism of mainstream movies yet had more of a plot line than simply bridging one sex act to the next.

Personally, given the varieties of erotica to be found, I get more turned on by a still picture from which I can build my own fantasy than a film of variations of in and out and obviously contrived sounds of passion coming from marginal to poor actors.

Guess maybe I should try my hand at script writing....

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 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 4/22/2010 11:12:45 PM

I watch it like a train wreck, but more from a clinical point of view...


I never knew 'cat wrangling' was so .. involved.
That's..umm..interesting.
 MsMicki
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The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 4/23/2010 5:46:57 AM
I'd say the difference between "degrading" and "erotic" would be the mindset of the individuals involved.

If a woman enjoys a facial or being called names......it is erotic.
If she doesn't enjoy it......and the man persists to do it.......then it is degrading.
 barefootkitten
Joined: 12/17/2009
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The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 4/23/2010 8:02:23 AM
I could care less if OTHER people enjoy facials. I pointed that out because I haven't seen ANY recent porn where it DOESN'T end in a facial. It's not my cup of tea, but to each their own. I was just bemoaning the fact that almost everything made recently has that in it, not the fact that some people like doing it.

If you like facials, then do them.
If you don't, then don't. I don't because I feel it's degrading, but if it's your preference, do it.

I just wish they made recent videos without it for the many of us who don't like facials.
 chameleonf
Joined: 12/22/2008
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The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 4/23/2010 8:56:37 AM
It's the sound. I turn the sound off. I've heard less moaning in the maternity ward of hospitals when there's far more reason for it. Not that a well placed moan doesn't have it's place, but c'mon now, the overkill is ridiculous.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 31
The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 4/23/2010 9:27:00 AM
I watch gay porn, there's a lot less name calling going on there.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 32
The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 4/23/2010 9:39:06 AM
The thing about porn is that- they have everything anyone could possibly be into.

Just go find what turns you on...

I mean its a smorgasbord of whateverness...


everyone who says they are not into porn, likely just hasn't found what turns 'em on...
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 37
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Posted: 4/23/2010 3:01:54 PM

I know quite a few women who love being called "slut" and "whore" during sex. I don't happen to be one of them, but I promise you there are plenty of them out there. It's not degrading if they get off on it and people respect each other, and that's something that's hard to tell from a porn tape.


you are 100% correct...

see its all about how you use the word...

like i had a gf that wanted me to call her puta (wh0re) when we had sex...she said a million times all she wanted was to be my puta for all my life...

it turned her on...


however...if i ever called her puta as in , like we were in an argument...a fight...

well, lets just say it did NOT turn her on...it was like pouring water on a grease fire...


so it just depends on what u consider degrading...
 jamie9562
Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 42
The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 5/3/2010 11:38:05 PM
dawn,,,,,,look up a guy named nick manning,,,,,,then see if any guy ever made such a fuss when cumming,,


seriously,,check it out,,it's actually funny and he is famous for it now...like peter north is famous for huge loads
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 5/4/2010 7:14:20 PM
I'm not sure how it is possible to have all the things done to them in such a way and not feel anything or be bored with it o.O

Most people don't like things they enjoy over and over at least once a day, never mind things they may not be into or people they may not have interest in but are in scenes with on a film shoot on any given day.

Trust me, I'm sure for porn stars sex in most forms is no more exciting than brushing your teeth after awhile, especially with a camera in your face. I rarely see a professional porn scene where the actress isn't clearly going through the motions based on the standard men like to see. It's why they call it acting.
 want to travel
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The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 5/6/2010 8:11:39 AM
people in love can call each other names, as long as it is just role play
my first great relationship, was with a woman that loved to be called names, she was a wonderful woman, in every way,she is the one woman i married, i have had two other long term relationships, both these women, would not have loved to be called these names
 .dej
Joined: 11/6/2007
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The one thing I hate about porn..
Posted: 5/6/2010 10:52:30 AM

I'm obviously seeing different porn than other people. I sometimes hear the woman actor say some of the words the OP mentioned - "I'm your dirty little slut/whore" or along those lines - but not the male actor unless he follows with an: "Oh, yes, you sexy little slut." But it's nothing outrageous or different than things regular people say when they're having raunchy sex as opposed to friendly sex or romantic sex.

Yes, but there's a lot of stuff out there that has a very hostile tone to it. Which doesn't make sense to me. And it doesn't seem attractive. I just don't *get it*.
 want to travel
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Posted: 5/6/2010 11:10:33 AM
the thing i really hate about porn today, is the fake look,all the women have perfect, if not fake breasts,the fake orgasms from the women,most of the women cant even give a good bj
oh, and the fully shaved little girl look, is gross too
 alexberks
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Posted: 5/8/2010 5:06:38 PM
One other aspect that doesn't seem to have been mentioned yet is.... why does the guy have to *take over* at the "vinegar strokes"?

If, for example, fellatio to completion is the act in the footage - I know I would want to stay inside the lady's mouth if it was me..but no. the guy ends up *masturbating himself* into the lady's open mouth... huh?

Every time...

Also, put me down as one of the guys who hates the misogyny out there.

Alex
 .dej
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Posted: 5/8/2010 5:21:50 PM

If, for example, fellatio to completion is the act in the footage - I know I would want to stay inside the lady's mouth if it was me..but no. the guy ends up *masturbating himself* into the lady's open mouth... huh?

Ugh, seriously. What a crappy ending to a blowjob.
 Devilsfan58
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Posted: 5/10/2010 10:31:42 AM
That 11 0 clock stuff that is on most of the major satellite networks is worthless. The simulated or implied crap. Everyone that buys that should get a refund, that stuff isn't porn. Seriously talk about bait and switch or breach of contract. How do they get away with it?

You might also find this simulated crap at major hotels and motels. Talk about huge disappointments. Its better to bring or make your own.
 _Full_of_Awesome_
Joined: 6/26/2012
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Posted: 8/12/2012 7:18:42 PM
"There are three things wrong with pornographic movies - they're immoral, they're degrading, and the lighting is terrible."
- Woody Allen

:-)
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
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Posted: 8/12/2012 11:27:41 PM

But remarkably, there is one thing I truly despise about it: I hate, hate, HATE , how the producers of it insist on calling the woman either "bee-otch" or "Slut" or "Whore".

I find myself agreeing here, I also hate the whole fakeness of it all, but does every one of the women have to have implants or brazilians? The sexual act is real of course, but totally mechanical and devoid of all passion or even interest, the acting is so bad these people can't even fake interest, let alone desire.

The porn my partner and I like is amateur, couples filming themselves, it might not sometimes be the best quality, but at least it's REAL.
 Drawesome32
Joined: 6/26/2012
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Posted: 8/13/2012 12:43:31 AM
arent porn actresses getting paid to have sex? thats pretty much the definition of whore. whore is such a dirty sounding word, but it is what it is.
 MakeUTingle
Joined: 5/8/2010
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Posted: 8/13/2012 10:24:00 PM
I would like to MARRY a porn star
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