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 love friends
Joined: 8/19/2008
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I have dates that have said : "I feel so alive with you"
What that means?

I have never hear a girl saying that but males,

I feel alive always, so that expression makes no sense to me,
I know its a good thing, that they are happy, having fun or whatever.

GUYS/GIRLS have you ever felt alive and why? what do you mean by it?
guys, Do you feel alive in company of other guys too?

I FEEL SO ALIVE
Posted: 5/19/2010 1:28:39 PM

GUYS/GIRLS have you ever felt alive and why?

nope, still waiting.

plus, i've been told a few times to get a life. i wonder if they're related.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 5/19/2010 1:34:37 PM
It means that you are probably so quiet, so shy, never smiling, never saying anything, that they can feel their own pulse and realize they are alive.

Dahhh.

Of course YOU KNOW what it means. Do you like to dance, you smile all the time, crack jokes, make people feel good, are the live of the party and see the positive on every one.

So which one is it?
 bucsgirl
Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 5/19/2010 2:36:30 PM
It's one of those things someone says when they don't know what to say. You never know it could be a veiled pick up type line.....ehh. If you wanted to know why didn't you ask him, that's what I would have done.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
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Posted: 5/19/2010 4:06:02 PM
Were these MUCH older guys?
That sounds like a sugar daddy line.
Like a viagra moment.

If younger guys, it means they're attracted to you.
It is better than saying you make me hot!

:-P
 ForumFilly
Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 5/19/2010 4:45:40 PM
Yes, there are some people in this world that just light it up. They make you glad you are with them and they make the world seem a better, brighter place. I've been told that by some men and I've been with other men who make me feel that way. Nothing cheesy about it. Some people are just more fun to be with and make you feel more alive.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 5/19/2010 4:46:18 PM

nope,still waiting.
plus,i've been told a few times to get a life.i wonder if they 're related.


I am alive and kicking, even in my sleep I was kicking my cover ,it is not that I am trying to strip tease in my sleep, I don't know if that is my life or I need a life to be alive.....

 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 5/19/2010 6:25:46 PM
Hmmm. Well, it IS a comparative term. Have the men who have said this experienced a near-death experience? Without a clearly established reference, I would challenge their observations as specious, or even a result of a self-induced fantasy, if I were you. Perhaps I'm too analytical though.

Other than using it as a very uncreative, crustacean-obscured way of saying that a guy is hot for your bod, the only logical reason to use it, would be because a life-threatening situation has just occurred. Unless you are threatening your dates with lethal weapons, I expect they were simply saying they wanted to jump your bones. The reason you haven't heard women say it, is probably that you have not been with an uncreative woman who was busy coming on to a guy who wasn't getting the message.
 Vannili
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Posted: 5/19/2010 6:49:48 PM
Take both compliment and don't let your panties hit the floor unless you really want to.


Abbici, suppose I want my panties to hit he floor ,but it won't fall down because it is secured by big safety Pins , it is not my second best , it is my old ratted one,,,,,,what shall I do ???????????

Vannili



PS.just kidding I understand what you mean..
 lateā„¢
Joined: 2/1/2010
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Posted: 5/19/2010 8:18:29 PM
It's almost as bad as the, "everything happens for a reason", ...swill. Ooooh! that one makes me cringe.
 Vannili
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Posted: 5/19/2010 9:31:47 PM

D'oh You beat me to the punchline,although I was going to use the term ' crotch throbbing',


You ladies are bud, kidding aside is the term " crotch throbbing" has something to do with "crotch on fire"? Or they are related?

please forgive my grammar and spellings , for English is my second language...
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 5/19/2010 11:50:57 PM
I used that line once on a nurse as she was sticking a needle about a foot long in my azz...............................
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
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Posted: 5/20/2010 11:45:24 AM


Troll call.


The thread has definitely been spun in that direction.

no way! can't you lowbrows recognize the subtle profundity of male-female communication at issue here?
 Vannili
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Posted: 5/21/2010 12:09:33 AM
If a man will compliment me with the words " I feel so alive with you" I will check the front of his jeans first before I'll believe him, if there a tent in his front he is telling the truth. My respond to him is>> I Am Not Blind,and I have a throbbing------headache.
 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
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Posted: 5/23/2010 10:36:15 PM
OPie, I think you're mishearing. What they're really saying is "I feel saliva with you." Which is simply a statement of fact. You needn't read a compliment into it.

Carry on.
 jamie9562
Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 16
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Posted: 5/24/2010 1:00:36 AM
lol you guys are having way to much fun with this one....and understandably ,,,,,,



as a side note,,what happened to the sex forum? damn,,they are whittling the forums away to nothing...

as for this gem of a post,,well it got me to thinking,,,,and i am going to go start my own thread,,it will go like this..

why do women say to me,,"my god you are wonderful and the most amazing man i have ever met and your the best lover and greatest human being ever!,,can i bathe in your body sweat and would it be possible for me to get a poop popsicle from you because even your poo taste like chocolate mousse"

but i am in no way self promoting and am totally not stuck up!
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 5/24/2010 11:05:20 AM
I've never heard this, and it's a good thing - I know I'd bust up laughing. It's extremely corny. Then again I'm not a romantic so when a guy starts spouting off Hallmark crap (where else do you think they get it)? I tend to find it awkward and humorous.

Maybe he just means he likes how he feels with you - but he could just say that.
 theforumfiend
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 18
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Posted: 5/25/2010 10:30:24 PM
You... you mean it wasn't true?

Sigh...
 Secondhand_Lion
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Posted: 7/6/2010 8:30:39 PM
I thought I felt that once on a date.....then I realized I was sitting on her dog...........................
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 7/7/2010 5:15:26 AM
Yes, this thread was dead - but like so many others it got resurrected...

It`s just an expression. The meaning of it is simple. The guy you`re dating is truly "turned on" by you and enjoys your company. There is nothing wrong with a man expressing himself to a women who he wishes to be with is there? This man is showing his emotions and sharing his feeling with you.

Can't he just say "I enjoy your company"? "I feel so alive" - is just so song lyric, so cliche, so Hallmark. Why not just say what you have to say?
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2010 7:43:31 AM
I think a lot of people know all about the concept of romance
and how to express your feelings to other people.
I think most people know exactly when they are being complimented.
I think what happens often (at least here) is people feel the need to
post things either to get a reaction or to get an ego stroked and some
of the posters recognize this and respond with remarks that others
construe as jealousy or stupidity.

I mean seriously, would I come here and post "I was working at the
bookstore last night and a customer came in and said how beautiful
I was and how I made him feel like he was 16 years old again and school
was out and summer was long road of possiblities and surprises and what
the heck could he possibly mean?"

I wouldn't look at him like he had two heads, but I'd be looking at the
person who posted it in the forums with supposed innocent naivety
like they did.


 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 7/7/2010 2:51:37 PM
^^^I totally get the charge from the person you're with thing - I guess to me "so alive" is more like how you feel after a morning run on a spring day or something similar. I don't care how a man puts it so much as how he actually feels (within reason, I don't need to hear anything offensive or illiterate).
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 7/9/2010 6:52:40 AM

I feel sorry for the cynics and jaded folks who *don't* get that charge from the person they're with.


I don't think it's the cynics and jaded folks who are here pretending
they don't know what that feeling is. These forums have sadly become
a place where people can either pretend they don't know what's going on
just so they can have a thread that has people checking them out, validating
their feelings or stroking their egos, or others can pop in and tell us how
wonderful their life is and how sad everyone else is or worse they can use it
to project or vent their feelings.

Of course I could pretend I don't know what's going on in here either.



 DragNFlyBuzzez
Joined: 12/9/2009
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I FEEL SO ALIVE
Posted: 7/14/2010 12:32:46 PM
ok, based upon responses, DNF scratches that line from my list, man I thought it had merit as a panty dropper.........
 CoolBreezez
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Posted: 7/18/2010 7:03:09 PM
Guys say this? Seriously? Is this before or after a few cans of Red Bull?

Well OP you must have some magical super power going there...bottle and sell it......

Or their channeling the 80's- "So Alive" by Love and Rockets... it was big for a whole month or so...
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