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 The Ogre of POF
Joined: 6/5/2010
Msg: 2
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Nope... Don't kiss her. Let those of us who have experience in kissing do it. That way she won't end up with a bad kiss and grow a huge issue with disliking it. Just need her phone number and I'll take care of it for you. I'll even let her know you sent me.
Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 3
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Should I kiss her??
Posted: 6/18/2010 7:29:24 PM

Then I got put in the friends zone any how.

Since then she has been sort of distant from me.

You were probably friend zoned from the get go, and now she thinks she might be leading you on. Or you blew it and she's making sure she's not leading you on further.

Or, maybe just getting that friendship back and suffering through it untill I feel she is completely comfortable with me kissing her again. I am confident I can get back to this point with some time.

Ya - girls love it when you become their friend with the sole intention of trying to win them over later. This plan has never backfired in the history of man.

My idea - next time you hang out, rip the bandaid off so to speak. Kiss her, then you'll know for sure. Either she's cool with it, or you've blown it....but you already admit that you don't think you can be just friends with her, so maybe blowing it will save you some pain of trying to be friends all the while wanting more.
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 7
Should I kiss her??
Posted: 6/19/2010 7:26:58 AM
It doesn't sound as though she cares to kiss you anymore - you've stated she seems a bit distant since you kissed her the first time. While she enjoys talking with you and being your "buddy," it's pretty clear she doesn't see you as a romantic interest.

Don't "surprise" her with anymore kisses. Once was enough - you saw the result and it wasn't positive.

Quite honestly, you clearly give the impression that this girl is out of your league and that you're totally infactuated with her. She can sense that and it doesn't bode well for you - it makes you look like a hormonal teenager with a crush. Not attractive.

I, too, was suprised to learn you are in your 30's.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 9
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Should I kiss her??
Posted: 6/19/2010 10:32:10 AM
you are 33 and asking us if you should kiss her, from my experience women love passion, and from everything you said you do not sound very passionate
i thought this was a post from a teen
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