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 theforumfiend
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 3
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Are you implying that only bad boy types can be abusive?
If you are... well, you are wrong. Abusers can look like the
girl/boy next door, the active church member, the politician,
the police officer, the judge, the coach, etc. Are you getting
the picture?
 rainman12
Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 4
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when does dating bad boys become dangerous?
Posted: 7/1/2010 5:24:44 PM
Hmmm - choice between:

A) Passion hoping it might last forever and might even change for being healthy

B) "Niceness" that will last forever, but won't scratch that "itch"

I know I don't choose the plain yogurt over the hotfudge sundae with sprinkles and nuts knowing that in the long run it'll be better for my heart. It's just what I want. Oooey gooey sticky....I digress....

As for teaching things to her daughter - maybe she's teaching her daughter to follow her heart and not settle for plain yogurt? Maybe the daughter will find some magical non-fat, low carb fudge sundae with massive nuts? Or she can settle for that guy in her math class and have 2.1 kids and 3.2 cars and all the other averages that I can make up on a whim.
 Worbug
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 12
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when does dating bad boys become dangerous?
Posted: 7/1/2010 10:57:01 PM
At Hello......
 sarniafairyboy
Joined: 6/19/2010
Msg: 14
when does dating bad boys become dangerous?
Posted: 7/2/2010 1:47:15 PM
so..she SHOULD go out with a 'nice guy' - like YOU ?

are you sure your 'concern' is not really 'jealousy'?

you seem worried that she is fvcking a lot of guys - but not you..
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