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 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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I am at a loss as to why you even bothered to post what took place.

Um, yeah, you got shot down..there are a couple of real good clues there.

Why not just forget it and walk?
 GWSmith
Joined: 12/18/2008
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Msg to her confirming a date we set...but she cancels?
Posted: 7/16/2010 12:22:12 AM
She wasn't interested... swing and a miss, oh well step up to the plate again and wait for the right pitch.

Someone else will be along and you'll get your Tuesday night date then.
 DragNFlyBuzzez
Joined: 12/9/2009
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Posted: 7/16/2010 3:19:19 AM
Well that wave just crashed onto shore............now be a good guy and paddle back out at a chance to catch another one
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Msg to her confirming a date we set...but she cancels?
Posted: 7/16/2010 5:26:11 AM
She used every excuse in the book to shake you off instead of simply telling you she wasn't interested in meeing you.
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
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Posted: 7/17/2010 5:16:55 PM
op, you might consider the rule of twos. which states that any two unreturned texts/vmails/emails equals "i'm not interested." most women won't even be so direct as to way 'we might not have enough in common."

also, any date cancellation that doesn't include an alternative proposal from her equals "i'm not interested." (and if this happens the day of the date or day before, you can bet your house, car and firstborn on it.)

so when you make that confirmation call and she makes an excuse, don't rush in with an alternate proposal. accept the news and let a little silence happen. that's her window for a counterproposal. if she doesn't make one, there's your answer.
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