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 DoubleParked
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 1
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I've been reading these forums for awhile and participate occasionally. Seems as if the only qualifying adjective posters use to describe their new found sexual partner/adventure is 'AWESOME'. Is it because many of us on this site haven't 'gotten any' for awhile, so of course it IS awesome or is there a subgroup of people out there, that we can tap into, who hit on us hapless POFers and have AWESOME sex with us?
 WalksOnWater2
Joined: 5/19/2009
Msg: 2
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Posted: 10/16/2010 1:41:44 PM

Seems as if the only qualifying adjective posters use to describe their new found sexual partner/adventure is 'AWESOME'

Yes, of course, if you haven't eaten anything for months, even boiled oats will taste like gourmet food...

 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/16/2010 1:48:37 PM
I was in a relationship where the sex really was THAT good. Awesome wouldn't even come close to describing it. Now, with new partners, I worry, "Is she going to measure up? Am I going to be able to preform to that higher standard? Is this going to even come close, or are my expectations going to be too high?" my biggest fear is that she, meaning my former partner, is NOT going through that at all. Lol!
 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 4
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Posted: 10/16/2010 1:50:56 PM
You might want to AVOID those purveyors of "awesome sex". It seems those people are notorious for not calling back the next day, or suddenly disappearing from the face of the Earth, or they live 500 miles away and can only make it into town on businesss convention weekends.

Also if you have "awesome sex" get your thumbs in shape, since most women who give such a rating follow it up by texting 150 times over the next two days....without getting a single response.

There are also some very important phrases you should know by heart:
"I don't understand"
"What does it mean?"
"Why would a guy give awesome sex and then disappear?"
"Did I have sex too soon?"
"Can I trust him?"
"Does he love me?"
"Why does he treat me like this?"
"Who are those women's phone numbers I saw by accident when I checked his phone when he was in the shower?"
"Why is he still on POF and/or Facebook?"
"Will Viagra make me pregnant?"
 Gashlycrumb_Briny
Joined: 9/26/2010
Msg: 5
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Posted: 10/16/2010 1:53:27 PM
'Awesome' sex is the only way to get 'beautiful' children.
 DoubleParked
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/16/2010 2:14:48 PM

...the only way to get 'beautiful' children


And gifted as well.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 7
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Posted: 10/16/2010 2:31:36 PM
Not at all Wanton...otherwise, at some level- wouldn't everyone be having great sex with everyone we get with?


awesome sex is great. i cannot have awesome sex with every woman I have sex with. otherwise- if I were having awesome sex with every woman- why would I stop having sex with her to go find another woman?


sex is sex- which means basically (for the most part) even when its bad, its good.

but to truly have awesome sex with someone, to have that connection with another person, is special.

anytime I've had awesome sex with a woman- I sure as hell have come back for 2nds and then some.

mediocre sex at the very least- requires that I won't be coming back for 2nds, even if I don't have any other lined up.

i don't go back to mediocre sex.

I've had better than awesome, all the superlatives you can imagine- and if ANYTHING, it tends to cloud my judgement with all partners I've been with since.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/16/2010 3:57:54 PM
I've found since I hit my 40's......all my sexual experiences have been awesome!!

I figure that to be a good thing......rather than something to complain about!
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 9
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Posted: 10/16/2010 4:38:19 PM
I'm not sure exactly what you are asking here, but sex is bad, good, great or awesome no matter when you get it or how long its been.

What is a qualifying objective responder?...As for finding awesome sex, you can either go after it or wait and sift thru the mounds of emails. But awesome is subjective, and what you read may not be what you get.

But if your interested there is a sub culture sex group made up of select responders, We are having a meeting next Saturday night at 8:00 p.m. in Chicago, fly in early, grab a cab and ask him to take you to 33rd street and vine ave, get out on the east end 33rd. Next,go up the alley behind that street, go down 7 doors on the left, till you reach the green door marked: J.C.'s Expresso.

Knock three times twice, you will be asked the code word, its New England Clam Chowder, you will be asked what color...the color is red. You will be let in. Go to the back room and knock once. You will be asked: who sent you. Tell them: the guy from the comedy club....They will let you in.

Don't look for me, I will be doing a benefit concert in Miami for retired members. If Chicago is too far, check back, we do all the major cities every other Saturday....

Do not, under any conditions bring anyone with you, these meetings are secret.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 10/16/2010 5:27:35 PM
When younger, we have all these hormones giving us the urge to procreate at least three times per day, but at 18 to 30 y/o we don't know what to do[unless we're with a super experienced person and learn from experience]
When older, generally its a case of wanting quality over quantity.

you might not be as good as you once were, but you're good once as you ever were.

having said that both sexes can use Viagra [ in women it stimulates lubrication - be careful check for side effects of course]

Awesome sex is a matter of taste for the individual and can range from starfish sex to ultra high teck SMBD and everything in between.
sex is what you you make of it, guys or girls need take responsibility for your orgasms,
1 hour foreplay and twenty minutes pumping is a reasonable amount of time. Don't unnecessarily blame your partner if you don't orgasm after that.
read up on sex, see a sex therapist, masturbate and experiment, If you can not make yourself orgasm easily how do expect others to make you orgasm?

Don't forget that anti-depressants SSRIs can make it more difficult to get the big O
 VacationGuy234
Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 11
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Posted: 10/16/2010 7:33:59 PM
I think it has more to do with the average age of the people who post on here. If you were to go into the younger age group you might hear words like Dope or something.

I don't think most people on POF are under sexed. I will say that the last time I had sex, it was AWESOME!! Although, I'd also say that this is really an understatement because words couldn't describe it. And, I don't think it has anything to do with the frequency so much as having it with the right person.
 myrgth
Joined: 8/15/2009
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Posted: 10/16/2010 7:46:26 PM

Is it because many of us on this site haven't 'gotten any' for awhile, so of course it IS awesome


Haha, if this is the case then it is a choice the person has made to not get any. My experience would indicate that POF has endless sexual opportunities.

I think that awesome is more about the chemistry between two specific people than frequency.

Pfft, if I am having awesome sex with someone the very last thing I would do is tell people on POF about it! I would be too busy having it.
 Rob_SA
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 10/16/2010 10:09:29 PM
Are you sure you're not mis-hearing what they're saying. It may actually just be "Awwww. Some sex!" ;-)
 06mc69
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 14
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Posted: 10/17/2010 1:24:14 AM
I have a partner that I've been sleeping with for the past two years, and let me tell you, the sex gets better and better everytime we get together. We have such great chemistry together, and we thrive on new ways of pleasure. Love him to death!
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 10/17/2010 1:53:37 AM
Actually, I think it's more basic than that... nobody would post if the sex sucked, or was mediocre. "Yeah, I don't know; nothing I did would get her off; and she was pretty unremarkable herself." Doesn't make much of a post.

These forums also tend to draw individuals at the extremes... those who truly enjoy sex, and are looking for anything they can find that might enhance the experience; and those who are either anti sex; or very selfish. For the first group, the sex really is awesome; and for the second group... see above.

Someone stated that Viagra is for both sexes... hate to break it to you; but even the studies done by the Viagra people showed NO DIFFERENCE between placebo and Viagra. Think about it... do you think for a second that if anything even remotely resembling a positive effect was shown, that the Viagra people wouldn't be spending tens of millions of dollars on commercials? Have you EVER seen a commercial where they said, "Works for women as well"? Nope, because it doesn't. If she is physically capable of getting wet; you need to take your time, and see that she is. If she isn't physically capable... that's why God invented lubes.
 06mc69
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 16
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Posted: 10/17/2010 2:03:12 AM
windloverr, actually, as a matter of fact, there was a thread on here a few weeks ago that a woman had started, stating that she couldnt keep her man "up". So, that blows your theory there.
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 17
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Posted: 10/17/2010 5:19:58 AM
Confession: The sex is not always awesome for me. It's almost always because of rushed foreplay, and I have lost count of how many times this has happened. I have an issue with smokers, because they usually don't have the respiratory endurance to keep up with me. If someone starts a sex gone wrong thread, I could possibly be the poster child.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 18
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Posted: 10/17/2010 6:16:43 AM

I have an issue with smokers, because they usually don't have the respiratory endurance to keep up with me.


well perhaps you should allow smoke breaks or merge with that thread "smoking while having sex"

you could bend over and they could put their ashtray on your lower back...bet they'd go all night long that way!!!

;)

 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 10/17/2010 7:03:02 AM
As to why 'awesome's the most common adjective, I imagine a logical analysis would determine that there is a direct correlation between people who write posts celebrating their sexual fun, and a vocabulary shortage, or disinterest in finding alternate words to use.
I disagree completely with the guy who said (more or less) "any sex is good sex." One of the reasons I'm divorcing, is because the sex was VERY bad. I'm sure there are many people who know from experience that one can have sex with a willing partner, and due to a mismatch of some sort, it isn't fun at all.
A subgroup who hit on us hungry folks? That's been a large part of the crowd of GUYS hunting GALS for as long as I've been aware. I haven't been a gal myself, to my recollection, so I'm not aware of whether there is an equal sized group of WOMEN out there prowling for guys to have wild sex with, and then discard.
Does sex seem awesome simply because there's been a long drought? Not in my experience. The EMOTIONAL component of having someone actually WANT to be with you sexually after a long time with no one showing interest, is certainly rewarding, even if the sex itself doesn't work out. But, for me at least, great sex is not a SPORTS EVENT sort of thing. I know for some folks, it's all about techniques and ploys and tricks and moves and positions...and the partner doesn't make that much of a difference. For me though, sex with no future in it has never been rewarding, no matter how physically attractive the woman was.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 20
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Posted: 10/17/2010 8:54:24 AM

I am having awesome sex with someone the very last thing I would do is tell people on POF about it!


Yeah, I don't either. It just seems a bit tacky. Past experiences are better fodder for discussion actually. Better humor too. :)
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 21
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Posted: 10/17/2010 9:48:05 AM

you could bend over and they could put their ashtray on your lower back...bet they'd go all night long that way!!!


Oh dear. If this ever happens, I'm coming after you.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 10/17/2010 11:15:51 AM

I've found since I hit my 40's......all my sexual experiences have been awesome!!

I figure that to be a good thing......rather than something to complain about!

Agreed. Sure, I have regular sex and it's always awesome. Of course in order to continue it'd have to be or why bother? I do agree that bragging about it repeatedly on a dating site or anywhere else is sort of unsolicited and dare I say, uninteresting to most people out there.
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 10/17/2010 7:12:44 PM

I've been reading these forums for awhile and participate occasionally. Seems as if the only qualifying adjective posters use to describe their new found sexual partner/adventure is 'AWESOME'. Is it because many of us on this site haven't 'gotten any' for awhile, so of course it IS awesome or is there a subgroup of people out there, that we can tap into, who hit on us hapless POFers and have AWESOME sex with us?


Not necessarily. I'm still looking for an "awesome" lover. The last few were really disappointing and the really good ones live too far away to be available. The awesome ones have totally spoiled me and left a void that the mediocre ones can't come close to filling.

Sometimes people have posted that they've met someone they like but the sex isn't so great and they aren't sure whether to continue or not. Or they meet an awesome lover with fatal flaws.

Or, yeah, maybe it's the rush of those early encounters.

Or maybe they don't have enough experience to really know when sex is truly awesome and every encounter is awesome in their minds. Kind of like when I'm at a dinner party and someone who clearly has not had good pineapple says of some clearly bland pineapple, "Isn't this good?" Uh, no.

Or maybe they don't want to admit to having mediocre sex.

Take your pick.
 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 24
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Posted: 10/18/2010 3:52:48 AM
Awesome:
Inspiring awe
Awe:
Emotion of reverence, respect and wonder inspired by authority, genius, great beauty, sublimity, or might.
Remarkable or outstanding.

Remarkable:
notably or conspicuously unusual; extraordinary
worthy of notice or attention.


I would say awesome is a good thing op.

I don't want some guy to stand up and say Oh fabulous!! Just fabulous!!! Enjoyable performance my dear..Stupendously enlightening.




I will say that the last time I had sex, it was AWESOME!! Although, I'd also say that this is really an understatement because words couldn't describe it.

Hmmmmmmmmmm

I would do it again then.




I have a partner that I've been sleeping with for the past two years, and let me tell you, the sex gets better and better everytime we get together. We have such great chemistry together, and we thrive on new ways of pleasure. Love him to death!


AWESOME!!!!!!
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 10/18/2010 7:36:48 AM



I don't want some guy to stand up and say Oh fabulous!! Just fabulous!!! Enjoyable performance my dear..Stupendously enlightening.

Now you know what Camilla Parker-Bowles puts up with.
(just like horse dressage ain't it?)
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