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Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 3
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OP- because her new love interest is touching her all she needs and she has no desire for you to touch her right now.

she only wants him to touch her.

make sense?

unless you're a gay friend or a family member- she's growing closer to him physically and pushing all other guys away from her.

honestly, I'm really confused by this entire screams something that I cannot actually say.
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 4
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Need help deciphering her actions!
Posted: 10/28/2010 8:42:41 AM
There could be lots of reasons but if she is declining physical contact then it's best to back off.

You are a friend and usually there's no problem with giving a friend a hug, unless her boyfriend has objected. I suspect this is a big factor. If they are getting serious, he's probably starting to 'claim' her and wants her to draw boundaries.

I would keep it the same way in private though and not let her switch about and only acknowledge you then. You deserve respect too.
Joined: 8/12/2010
Msg: 6
Need help deciphering her actions!
Posted: 10/29/2010 1:39:03 PM
She doesnt want people talking, and giving her bf any reason to think she is farting around with you on the side.

Her acting like her old self when you two are alone is a bit weird. Id put a stop to that myself if I were her, but it looks like you may have to be the one to stop it.

Sounds like you are both still young and learning the ropes. She is on the right track by realising that she cannot play with other men and date seriously her bf. She needs to go one step further tho, and stop it all together, even when no one is watching.
Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 7
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Posted: 10/29/2010 7:37:56 PM
OK. Just to sum up what others have said because I'm bored and haven't been round these parts much lately:

She has a BF, BF probably isn't a big fan of the "playing" etc. She's choosing her BF not being pissed over you not being confused. Not rocket science is it?
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 9
Need help deciphering her actions!
Posted: 10/31/2010 9:08:42 PM
She still wants to keep you around---like a comfy, broken in pair of old shoes. Ever since she got a shiny new pair, she prefers to wear her new pair out in public, yet keep the old, broken in pair to slip on in private---just because they still feel so comfy.

Don't be her comfy, old pair of shoes. Next time she tries to slip you on again, keep your distance, and your self-respect.
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