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 revoskeepnus
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 3
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there's plenty of girls like that out there...
my one friend is pretty violent with her men, but she used to play football, so...
she punches and what not
wrestling's fun
especially with flexible people :P
 ConsensualViolation
Joined: 11/24/2010
Msg: 4
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/5/2010 7:50:29 PM
Many women enjoy both physical and psychological power games - it's simply more a matter of trust with the physical. Some women I can wrestle/physically dominate within 20 minutes or so of meeting them, some months...some never.

It's always a good idea to lay the groundwork psychologically first, as most women will find it creepy if you try and wrestle with them. Then again, if they are truly attracted to you (sexually) unless you're proposing something REALLY weird it shouldn't be a problem.

-Jeremy
 smartypants24
Joined: 8/3/2009
Msg: 5
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/5/2010 7:52:44 PM
I'd look at HOW you're bringing it up. Are you building up to it with some light wrestling, bringing it up in a discussion of each of your fantasies, or just springing it on the poor girl?

A friend and I (really honestly not talking about myself BTW) were discussing rough play in the bedroom - an ex partner of her's had decided to try pulling her hair during sex. She actually enjoys it, but what turned her off at that moment was 1. It was a hard enough pull to rip out some of her hair, which he grabbed by the ends rather than the roots 2. There was NO build up to it, like gentle tugs at first to test the waters 3. He failed to bring it up before or after it happened as something he would like to try.
 revoskeepnus
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 7
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/5/2010 8:59:52 PM
Yeah... baby. Southern girls are much more fun...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6nygPJMNBU



Seriously though, some girls like to fight... and it's not "ladylike", so of course you're gonna play fight with your S.O... just as long as there isn't any blood... and that both parties understand a risk of blood is present. lol
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 8
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Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/6/2010 9:10:54 AM
I know there are guys who like a punch in the ring by a woman.
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 10
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/9/2010 5:38:29 AM
I guess this all depends on what level do you want this wrestling/fighting to go to? If a guy tells me he wants to play around with some wrestling, I'm in. I would also assume he either is going to let me win, because that turns him on, or he just has this desire for me to resist him so he can overtake me. There obviously isn't going to be much competition that could be called real, since most men( unless the woman is an amazon) are massively stronger. So how do you ask? Just ask, can we wrestle? Can we fight? The fighting one would turn me away, because it's just not my thing. Wrestle? Bring it on!
 grizzelda
Joined: 6/25/2006
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Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/9/2010 6:58:09 AM
UMMM Unless this is your girlfriend you are talking to about this, why would you be surprised that these women are looking at you strangely? Or do you think that men talking about their sexual fantasies to casual aquaintances is standard chit chat around the water cooler?


Also, I would think that not too many women are keen to hop into this type of behavior with someone they dont have a lot of trust in or history with simply becasue of the potential risk. Frankly their reaction isnt all that odd, your reaction to it is though....
 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 12
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/9/2010 7:06:51 AM

Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?


^^This is not my idea of foreplay. A lil' pillow fighting and such is fine, but fighting/boxing?

I guess most women don't correlate fighting/wrestling with foreplay?
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 13
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Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/9/2010 8:44:12 AM
another type of unsafe sex . whack in the balls!
Maybe this is cross-pollintion from the dress up thread but safe for people wanting to fight/wrestle
get nekkid an only wear blow sumo wrestler suits or panda suits and
then go berko [beserk ]
at each other.
tip for guys: before you strt drop your testicls in icy cold bater for 1 minute
they ascend to safety and are protected for the rest of the fight, added positive
side effects -- cool balls =higher sperm count
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 14
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/9/2010 6:35:47 PM
I heard someone say "southern women" so I figure I'd chime in.

Down here we don't don't bring it up.
We just piss em off and duck.
:-P
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 12/9/2010 8:02:22 PM
Stray cat

OP......you have to admit this isn't a "normal" fetish.
I think you need to go to a site that is geared towards this thing.......
your average girl is not going to consider "hitting each other" as foreplay!
 revoskeepnus
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 16
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 12/10/2010 8:40:22 AM
dude... i don't think he's talking about hitting, just wrestling. Hell, just wrestle with her and then ****... you'll get off on it, and she won't know.

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hitting? With gloves and headgear? Naked? Can I tie one hand behind your back?

sorry, OP, you're gonna have to give us a play by play scenario to fully understand this fetish...
 gardenias2
Joined: 1/13/2011
Msg: 17
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 5/26/2011 1:55:45 AM
i love to wrestle with men....full body, arm, leg any kind.

i know the man is going to win but i can keep him going for a while. and its always a win-win for me because i get to feel his physical stregnth holding me down at the end. yeah it turns me on to be over-powered physically by a man. is that a fetish?
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 18
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 5/26/2011 3:02:44 AM
i have been with a few ladies who were into this sort of thing.they were pretty good at it annd i imagine they could win againest quite a few guys.

 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 19
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 5/28/2011 3:00:18 PM
I love wrestling with a guy because it's so hot (and after all, I am a sub, lol). I am a big woman, not a delicate flower, and it takes a bit to physically overpower me, but I love feeling that male strength. My late husband was a wrestler in high school and I used to beg him to wrestle me, but he was always afraid of hurting me. As if.

I don't want to do it in competition, though - just for play.
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 20
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Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 6/1/2011 4:52:09 PM
Not a fetish nor anything I've done for sexual gratification (much) but this did remind me of how fun it was to get into a playful wrestling match with my SO. Good times.
 rbtlinkus
Joined: 4/19/2011
Msg: 22
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/27/2011 10:34:27 AM
i have always enjoyed wrestling with a woman and would love to have a semi competitive match. the main problem with doing this with a romantic partner can lead to hurt feelings etc.
 bearpaw67
Joined: 7/20/2011
Msg: 23
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/28/2011 12:28:33 AM
Me and my ex girlfriend always wrestled around. I would toy with her, then BOOM!!! I would roll her over and pin her. After that we would be both hot and sweaty, then something told us to "wrestle" underneath the sheets. Ha lol I miss her!
 funinsun32
Joined: 9/1/2011
Msg: 26
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 2/16/2012 10:37:18 AM
I have to say I very much enjoy a good "wrestling" to get things moving along
I, however, am not one to punch or kick box my partner. I think the wrestling get's the blood pumping and it's the closeness that brings in the arousal. I also like to be dominated in the bedroom so it gives me a good idea what I am in store for
 funinsun32
Joined: 9/1/2011
Msg: 28
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 2/16/2012 10:53:11 AM
Thank you and yes, he better be able to or I'm going to have a hard time getting aroused
 LovesCurves604
Joined: 2/15/2012
Msg: 30
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 2/19/2012 1:45:14 AM
Mixed wrestling is fun! The woman should always win.

The first videos on youtube were mixed wrestling and catfighting videos

I bet the website wb270 has many visitors.
 rbtlinkus
Joined: 4/19/2011
Msg: 32
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 4/8/2012 3:14:57 PM
hey I am in daytona beach, I would love to get together sometime and wrestle.
 Allforfun80
Joined: 2/3/2012
Msg: 33
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 4/8/2012 3:34:25 PM
Hi there OP,

While reading your post, I remembered a man from POF who sent me a message asking if we could wrestle. At first, I thought he was joking but, it definitely was not a joke. I think his big mistake was asking me that in a first message.

I think it would be much easier if you had a girlfriend, for a while, and then lightly approached the topic. Personally, it's not my thing but, I'm sure there are some women who share your fetish.I think the poster who mentioned looking for a website that caters to fetishes, would be your best bet.
 dudefighter
Joined: 7/22/2011
Msg: 34
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/1/2012 7:46:25 AM
yeah wanna wrestle girls waitin,****es,dudefighter
 dudefighter
Joined: 7/22/2011
Msg: 36
Fetish for Fighting/boxing/wrestling (competitively) with the opposite sex?
Posted: 11/7/2012 7:05:53 AM
finding a lady to wrestle with all the time,what a relationship we would have.
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