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 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 2
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I can think of no reason for a "money shot" other than just that, $$$$, which, imho, is assinine.
Sooo, yeah, only if you paid me to do it. I ain't cheap, lady, but I can be had.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 3
Man withdrawling to ejaculate on you.
Posted: 1/12/2011 9:52:16 PM

As a man that knows your SO is on birth control, is there anything you find sensual etc. about ejaculating on the woman? Other than being a poor birth control protection method, is there any reason you would do this?

Yeah - variety. I find it to be a turn on sometimes and so does my fiancee. It's nice to have options or be told what to aim for so sex doesn't get routine and boring.

I am talking about a trusting relationship. Where you know the woman is taking the pill.

I'd never consider the pull-out method to be a substitute for real birth control.
 CMonster
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 4
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Posted: 1/12/2011 10:19:25 PM
I can't help but feel that I'd be short-changing myself.

And no size jokes from the peanut gallery!
 CallmeKen
Joined: 9/4/2009
Msg: 5
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Posted: 1/12/2011 11:56:19 PM

I am talking about a trusting relationship.

Even in the most trusting relationships, a woman can be in a rush and forget to take the pill one morning. Some antibiotics can interfere with hormone-based birth control. Even the pill, if used correctly, is expected to fail 1 time out of 100. I have just one word for a guy that trusts a woman to handle 100% of the birth control responsibilities: father.

Ideally, if you don't want a child, the guy should wrap his rascal, the woman should be on the pill, and you should use a spermicidal gel or "magic bullet" as part of foreplay. Trust me, it's cheaper than 18 years' worth of child support payments.
 AquanGold
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/13/2011 3:21:05 AM
Why on earth would i want to ejaculate on my women if she`s protected?! What fun is that? The best part of the ride is the end,when i`m able to pull my lover close to me by cupping her beautiful posterior and squeezing them tight against me in a beautiful and loving embrace,while my tongue is deeply planted inside of her mouth,until the last drop is complete. That in my opinion is the best part of intercourse for both parties involved..
Have you actually discussed tjis with your SO to find out why he`s pulling out,rather than allow you the pleasure you deserve?
 Island home
Joined: 7/5/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/13/2011 3:40:57 AM

Personally I didn't care for it. I like to feel the moment, not have the moment happen on me. I just didn't get it.

Perhaps he would like
you to find the unacceptable
acceptable
so he can feel accepted
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 14
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Posted: 1/13/2011 4:34:39 AM
I think something like 98% of what people do sexually OUTSIDE of the basic act of copulation, is either to enhance the immediate physical pleasures they have, or to enhance the MENTAL aspects of it, through symbolic actions. This probably falls into the latter group. As someone else said, if one's concern is to avoid pregnancy, so far as I'm aware, there is no medical literature that suggests that this practice would have a prophylactic effect.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 1/13/2011 4:36:35 AM
Why would a man withdraw and ejaculate on you?

Because it is erotic..the raw animalistic view of the sperm shooting out to complete the copulation act..

Personally I've asked first..in the heat of passion..and sometimes the answer has been "in me", and sometimes it's been, "on me"..just depends on the moment.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/13/2011 5:14:27 AM

Why would a man withdraw and ejaculate on you?

Because he wants to, is my guess.

Because it is erotic..the raw animalistic view of the sperm shooting out to complete the copulation act..

I'd agree with this.

Personally I've asked first..in the heat of passion..and sometimes the answer has been "in me", and sometimes it's been, "on me"..just depends on the moment

I agree. Variety seems to be a tad more exciting to me personally than status quo. And there is the "drip factor" (as I call it.) If I'm on my way to work or something and don't want to feel the ooze all day, I'd prefer it elsewhere. But then again, it's all just personal preference. JMO
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 1/13/2011 6:11:00 AM

Why on earth would i want to ejaculate on my women if she`s protected?! What fun is that?

If you ever have a woman reach down and take hold of you with her hands while you shoot on her, or she says, ``put it right here, (indicating anatomical target)'' you'll know the answer to that question. It's fun in positions other than missionary, too, e.g., doggie, cowgirl. I would think being predictable and finishing the same way all the time would get sort of boring.
 dare2c4yourself
Joined: 11/9/2010
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/13/2011 7:13:50 AM
I never felt any attraction to ejaculating on a woman
EXCEPT between the breasts, the finish of a plasant moment.
Only if the partner doesn't mind of course.
Otherwise it's a lot better from or with the partner.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/13/2011 7:44:11 AM
Because it's erotic as hell!

the messier the better!!
 Adam Taylor
Joined: 5/11/2006
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Posted: 1/13/2011 8:29:48 AM
In my relationships, such has only generally been done as a punishment. Of course, most of my relationships have been D/s, so it's a case of denying them what they want.

During threesomes such has been done a few times, but then it's for different reasons. Usually so one can clean up the other.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/13/2011 9:36:25 AM

I would think being predictable and finishing the same way all the time would get sort of boring.


Worked for Arnie Palmer, on every 18th hole. He'd put it in the hole, and the gallery would erupt with applause. Never did put it on the hole. Lol

OP, some folks get off on Wonder Woman and Spiderman, meh I'd rather invest it where I think I get the most bang for my buck.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/13/2011 9:44:15 AM
WW.......what if your woman wants you to cum on her?
Women can get off on the visual as much as a man can...
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 25
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Posted: 1/13/2011 10:19:51 AM
I don't see what the big deal is...

Some women have issues with bodily fluids and the messiness that goes along with sex. That's one more reason to straighten that out before getting married. In my opinion, sex is messy if you do it right, so I'd get bored with someone who didn't think getting messy in various ways is erotic.

.......what if your woman wants you to cum on her?

I'm not sure about anyone else, but I might ask where or I might just wing it and let 'er rip (and try to avoid her eyes).
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 1/13/2011 11:57:47 AM
I dated a woman once who just liked to see it happen. She would always look surprised and elated, and would just love to "play with it" afterwards; you know, roll it in her fingers and even smell it, although she never wanted to taste it.
 CMonster
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 27
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Posted: 1/13/2011 1:00:55 PM

If you ever have a woman reach down and take hold of you with her hands while you shoot on her, or she says, ``put it right here, (indicating anatomical target)'' you'll know the answer to that question.

That sounds like a woman who has experienced living with a guy that has really bad aim in the bathroom.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 1/13/2011 1:02:10 PM

what if your woman wants you to cum on her?
Women can get off on the visual as much as a man can..


Lol. Delighted as I am that you've corroborated that women are inspired by visuals just as men are, I equate pulling out of the hole I'm about to cum in with her removing my dyk from her mouth just before I cum on her tongue. Yeah, I'm one of those guys who prefers a swallower. But, to be sure, and equitable about it all, I will happily swallow hers as well. Hey, I usually put out about enough to fill an adult-sized thimble at this point, lol, so to take it internally makes only a tiny ripple in the Force. I know, I know, a thimble full doesn't make much of a mess, but I've only "pulled out" once in my life, in college, and came somewhere below her navel (kinda edgy, at the time, lol), and I'd just feel that my fluid is being somehow deeply discounted if I had to turn a sublime orgasmic moment into a photo op. I'm gonna wanna cum in the hole that got me to that point.

Now, I did say "most bang for the buck", lol, and if my partner wanted it, well, I'd probably oblige, sometimes. But I have this working theory that the testosterone (and whatever other ingredients, tangible and intangible) in semen gets absorbed by a pvssy, at least (not so sure about alternative holes). A few years ago, in a barbershop, I read an article/survey in friggin' Cosmo that concluded that women who aren't involved in a sexual relationship may think of sex (on average) a few times per month, but women who were actively engaged thought about it all, I say, ALL the time! I figure it's gotta be the semen at work. And if we fvck once, I'm gonna want to repeat it, soooo I'd like to think there's a slightly addictive element in semen. lol


In my opinion, sex is messy if you do it right, so I'd get bored with someone who didn't think getting messy in various ways is erotic.


LMAO!!!! You're one of those mud-wrestling enthusiasts, aren't ya? That's cool. Hey, I have no issues with body fluids, the non-urinary kind. Mix'n and match'n is a good thing, imho. My cum on her skin is, like, segregation (on it's way back in Wade County, NC, I hear), and I really like the mix part of the "m & m".
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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Posted: 1/13/2011 4:06:25 PM
I much prefer to come inside my girlfriend,as it's much more intense. However,I occasionally come on her once in a while for one reason or another. She's told me it's a big turn-on for her,and of course she wants to keep going,but I'm done at that point for a while.
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 1/13/2011 4:11:48 PM
I like it because it is HAWT!!!!

I love the way it feels, smells, tastes, I love to watch him finish....Plus it is easy clean up!! :)

I think it is a waste for him to unload inside me, not to mention I think it is disgusting!!!
To be left all squishy and dirty!!! YUCK!!
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 31
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Posted: 1/13/2011 5:10:40 PM

LMAO!!!! You're one of those mud-wrestling enthusiasts, aren't ya?

Well no, but probably only because the opportunity to mud-wrestle with a woman (women) in a skimpy bathing suit(s) never came up. If it had, I'm sure I'd have become a fan. If women are involved, I'm probably a fan (except for dancing).
 a_lonewolf
Joined: 5/21/2010
Msg: 32
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Posted: 1/13/2011 5:36:06 PM
It's a hint that you are spending way too much money on skin and hair care products.
 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 33
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Posted: 1/13/2011 6:47:27 PM
OP - Are you trying to tell us that you've never had a man ejaculate anywhere on or near you, only inside your vagina?

- Never had him cum in your mouth after a BJ - or on your face?
- Never let him shoot it over your back doggy style?
- Never let him soak your pubes or give a pearl necklace or rain in your hair or aim for the far wall?

NEVER

I mean...really, it's the same thing as cutting loose in your mouth, would you throw a fit about that? "But I had protection!!!"
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 1/13/2011 7:49:06 PM
You can blame porn.
cus by whatever flimsy plot twist that induces some woman to start ripping her clothes off
and doing stuff.....
to god knows who what or where.....
nevertheless the plot always seems to end up the same.
A girl in goo.

Some folks far off in the future may well wonder about this.
Just we do about all those fertility penises the Romans used to hang everywhere in their homes.

Perhaps it is just another ritual offering to the Goddess.
And therefore a blessing.
:-P
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