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 RichardL89
Joined: 6/10/2011
Msg: 1
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Long story short, I think I might have just been rejected because of my sign. Apparently she's a Gemini and I'm a Pisces so she won't settle for anything else other then a Libras or Aquarius...are you serious...do people really take these signs that seriously?? We had so much in common. I have the worst luck with women ever. 22 years and never been romantically involved with anyone ever =(
 femaleconnection
Joined: 8/12/2010
Msg: 2
Possibly Rejected Over Sign
Posted: 6/16/2011 2:03:35 PM
Some people really do follow that stuff...me, I read mine for entertainment...but I cannot respect those who really believe in that stuff. You are better off meeting someone who uses better logic in my opinion.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 3
Possibly Rejected Over Sign
Posted: 6/16/2011 2:11:37 PM
Why are you surprised????? Some people will dismiss you because of the "God"you worship (or don't). A lot of people believe in a lot of "different" things. Be happy she dismissed ya, before you really got to "know" her.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 4
Possibly Rejected Over Sign
Posted: 6/16/2011 2:30:49 PM
You dodged a bullet. If she buys into astrology, you should be worried. It would have been worse if you were the right sign.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 6/16/2011 3:39:54 PM
Well she's a Gemini.
Gotta expect that.
That is the sign of silly.
:-P

So don't be such a Pisces and brood over it.
Just concentrate on women more compatible.

Fish guys can intuitively find em and swim to em...
if not stuck circling in negative eddies of doubt.
 forumfishie
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 6
Possibly Rejected Over Sign
Posted: 6/16/2011 3:55:51 PM
Thank God your Moon is over sagittarius OP

Do you know what that means?

It means you don't give a $hit about people
who base their opinions on astrological signs
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 7
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Posted: 6/16/2011 4:20:16 PM
Ah, who knows. It's more common when someone is rejecting you to MAKE UP why, than it is to say exactly why. Since it doesn't matter, just forget about it.
 junipermoon
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 6/16/2011 5:01:48 PM
if she rejects you due to your sun sign, she knows very little about astrology.

the rising sign and your moon carry as much significance as your sun sign. in fact, she would need to examine your entire natal chart to make a decision based on that.

i'd guess she has some other reason for not pursuing the relationship.


22 years and never been romantically involved with anyone ever


i'd say you dodged a bullet. romance isn't all it's cracked up to be.
 VacationGuy234
Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 9
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Posted: 6/16/2011 5:32:34 PM

Thank God your Moon is over sagittarius OP

Do you know what that means?

It means you don't give a $hit about people
who base their opinions on astrological signs


You're freakin killin me here...

OP, she is one star short of a constellation, lose her in black hole and move on!
 gypsyfyre
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 10
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Posted: 6/16/2011 7:02:10 PM
some people take religion that seriously..weirdness..but such is their way. Maybe you're lucky she's ditching you over a sign. Hang in there !!
 UnixGrand
Joined: 5/9/2011
Msg: 11
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Posted: 6/16/2011 7:47:03 PM
Why is it that a lot of people don't want their sign to show on their profile? I seem to attract Aries. Don't know why.
 RichardL89
Joined: 6/10/2011
Msg: 12
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Posted: 6/16/2011 11:38:59 PM
It just gets tiring when you get excited about someone who seems to be such a good match for you. You have so much in common and the messages kick off so well. Then she rejects you for not being the right sign...ughhh it's like I don't even want to try anymore. 22 years and I've never been romantically involved with someone in anyway...no kiss or hand holding. I just don't know when it's going to happen.
 VacationGuy234
Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 6/17/2011 5:44:30 AM
OP, truth is, it is usually not just one thing that blows the attraction it is a bunch of things, but you are only going to get one answer. Don't think too much about it as rejection is normal, painful, but normal.

Look at it this way, you found out early enough to put the energy towards someone else.
 shakeitupbaby2012
Joined: 8/12/2010
Msg: 14
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Posted: 6/17/2011 8:14:57 AM
OP, don't date someone with any expectations but positive thoughts and having fun. You're setting yourself up for disappointment thinking each person has the potential to go the distance .

To the guy who asked why people dont state their sign - I don't support beliefs in astrology .
 UnixGrand
Joined: 5/9/2011
Msg: 15
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Posted: 6/17/2011 9:45:45 AM

To the guy who asked why people dont state their sign - I don't support beliefs in astrology .


But you support age as in Birthdays? Very interesting.
 SunnyDazical
Joined: 6/13/2011
Msg: 16
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Posted: 6/17/2011 9:52:11 AM
I'm a Scorpio..we either love ya or kill ya...(don't look in the garden)

Diggin it,
Sunny
 VacationGuy234
Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 17
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Posted: 6/17/2011 12:38:41 PM

But you support age as in Birthdays? Very interesting.


Unless you consider people to be harvested(unlikely), it doesn't make much sense. And, the astrological calendar now has two more signs, amazing how things change.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 6/17/2011 3:25:16 PM
Richard, lots of good comments above.
and some funny ones.

but in the context you mentioned...
I think she used that reason just to be nice.
she didn't feel it online so came up with a good excuse.

Starting out...you will meet mostly incompatible women...
and be told by each you are not for them...
in a million different and unique ways.

Don't give it a thought.
Cus the same things they didn't like...
a girl for you.... will like.
probably alot.

good luck!
 scottey63
Joined: 3/8/2008
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Posted: 6/17/2011 8:06:15 PM
I don't put any stock in astrology. If a woman says more than two sentences about it or each other's "signs", my eyes glaze over and my only thought is: "Cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs! How can I end this conversation, and fast, and never talk to this woman again?"
 Janet_Always
Joined: 12/7/2010
Msg: 20
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Posted: 6/18/2011 10:23:17 AM
That's pretty funny... lots of odd people out there.

But as with any other reason someone rejects you, does it really matter "why"? The bottom line is you keep looking. No BFD.

But then I'm a Sagittarius -- letting go is pretty easy for me.
 thebladerunner
Joined: 5/22/2011
Msg: 21
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Posted: 6/18/2011 10:27:54 AM
OP,
It's shocking that in this day and age there are still people out there who believe in that sort of stuff. Of course, that's assuming she wasn't just using it as an excuse (which I doubt, as she probably could've come up with a better excuse anyway)... I'd avoid anyone who is into that sort of thing, and it's a good thing that you found out sooner rather than later...

Good luck!
 UnixGrand
Joined: 5/9/2011
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/18/2011 9:16:33 PM
Zodiacs are very important because some aren't compatible.


I have to agree. It's not that I find this a stupid game to play. I found the zodiac plays a part in the way people act, feel, and receive....... It's a sense of being. I was skeptical at first, but I realized that it does have significance. I noticed I really didn't get a long with certain signs. Now I know all of you may think I am crazy.... But it's like how long an egg is cooked. Some like a three minute egg. Some like it cooked longer. Some like it less. That's how I think that horoscopes work. Ok... I am ready for my flogging.... let me have it.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 6/19/2011 12:31:54 PM
^^^
Oh you will get a flogging for sure.
But I'll take some heat too, cus I agree.
I am a Libra, so naturally would agree.
We are the second silly sign of the zodiac.
so it's expected.

I don't get worked up over the ins and outs of it,
but generally month born does give one certain aspects.

Not make or break.
Just stuff to enjoy or work around in someone we date.
 pinkoleander
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 24
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Posted: 6/19/2011 2:34:07 PM
How silly of her. I don't believe in all that nonsense. But I'll never ever ever ever date another Scorpio.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 6/21/2011 3:04:06 PM
^^^
heheh
Take note fellow members of the guy team.
That is the proper attitude to move the ball down the field.
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