As I'm checking in basic search it shows "You have emailed this user." I've never even seen this person and there is no message shown? Just one more system glitch and no one to call.
Do you also have a green check mark next to their listing? If so, you must be on either the page of Users You Want to Meet or Users Who Want to Meet You in the Meet Me feature. Check the page web address in your address bar.
I am not seeing any email notifications in listings in either Basic or Advanced Search.