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 marisia
Joined: 10/25/2008
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No, you do not owe her the money...some people will say anything to get their way...unless you have some written signed agreement stateing you would give her the money whatever, or the surgery was prebooked..but otherwise a gift is a gift.
I am in the UK, and just realised you may be else where...I know the laws and living together are different in the USA...
But on a personal level, no..
 marisia
Joined: 10/25/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 8:39:26 AM
Matters, said exactly what I was thinking...Well put..
 marisia
Joined: 10/25/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 8:40:27 AM
Sorry Maffers, not matters..
 _TALL_IQ2_
Joined: 2/10/2010
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Posted: 7/17/2011 8:44:37 AM

Do I owe her this money, she’s the one who ended it.

No. just like we told you last time you posted this same question..
 LinuxD
Joined: 12/6/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 8:55:49 AM
Hell no don't give her a dime. When she "didn't love you anymore and it was over" she made a choice.

You don't owe her ANYTHING.. Not even the time of day. When her obligations to you stopped,so did your obligations to keep your word about the money. Tell the money grubber to take a hike and I agree.. let her new man foot the bill.
 negpotoprens
Joined: 2/12/2010
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Posted: 7/17/2011 8:57:41 AM
No, you should not pay, I wouldn't if I were you, but that's up to you though. One thing for sure, you are not obligated to pay. You really need a bunch of people on a forum to tell you this?
 Peppigonzalis
Joined: 5/15/2011
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Posted: 7/17/2011 9:37:49 AM
What a cheeky beatch! No, you don't owe her anything!
(unless there are other issues you have left out of the story)
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 10:09:12 AM
Surely you must know you don't owe her this money! Are you kidding?

Unless you signed some paper saying you would give her two thousand dollars, what's she going to do, take you to court? And really, stop saying you told her you'd give her the money, just stop, if she's good enough at stealing money she may take you to court! She's a common prostitute, why else would she have contacted you demanding money? Tell her to stand on the corner and earn her eye surgery money, or tell her to pour some sugar in her eyes, whichever is cheaper. Delete her from any contact to you, don't answer any contacts she makes, stop talking to this ridiculous *bleep*!

Why would you need to be told that you don't owe this woman a damn thing? Honestly, this is pretty silly.
 The_Song
Joined: 5/21/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 10:20:14 AM
dude is this a serious question, just laugh in her face n tell her to gtfo. Aren't you glad to find out what a b*tch she is after she broke up with you. Just be happy she's gone because you would have been miserable if she stayed with you and you found out later instead of now. I mean who the hell asks money from there ex to pay for there cosmetic surgery ... wtf
 sprite0561
Joined: 6/26/2011
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Posted: 7/17/2011 10:40:21 AM
It may have made sense to offer the money to your girlfriend, when she was your girlfriend.

But now, no I don't think so. She lost that opportunity when she decided that she did not want to be with you any more.
 FatBottomGirI
Joined: 6/28/2011
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Posted: 7/17/2011 11:29:06 AM
No way! But you should use that money to buy some common sense.
 FatBottomGirI
Joined: 6/28/2011
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Posted: 7/17/2011 11:33:42 AM
Reminds me of a People's Court case I saw a few years ago. This man loaned about $5,000 for breast implants for hi EX gf. This was after they split. He ended up taking her to court to collect on the loan. Even the judge laughed at him telling him he bought her boobs but never got to enjoy them! He looked like a complete fool.
 licoricecat_1
Joined: 11/23/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 11:44:32 AM
Definitely not. Even if you were still together it is not your responsibility to dish out this amt of cash to someone that is not your spouse. Loaning it is one thing but get it in writing if you do. This girl stated she no longer loves you. She could go to the bank for a loan if she needs the operation. Even if I was with someone, I would never expect him to pay an operation or this amt of money for anything for me.
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
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Posted: 7/17/2011 2:49:53 PM
OMG!

Where were you when I had my eyes lazered?

I sure could have used the cash.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 3:43:51 PM
Msg.#1:

You really don't need to give her the Two thousand or fifty dollars even you are still together ,it is not your obligation if she wants an eye cosmetic surgery , she can have it,as long it is her money to pay for it and not hustling others..
 dd3va
Joined: 11/18/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 3:54:52 PM
Hell to the no! Do not give her the money. She can finance the surgery, or get hew new boyfriend, parents, siblings, or bank loan to finance it. Better yet, she can get a second job and save up for it if she wants it that bad.
 ajkachn
Joined: 4/19/2011
Msg: 33
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Posted: 7/17/2011 6:15:13 PM
Hell no you should not pay the only reason you said you would in the first place was because you where togther snd she broke it off
 1776or1984
Joined: 12/25/2009
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Posted: 7/17/2011 8:25:14 PM
If you don't see the answer to this, you are the one that need the eye surgery!
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 7/17/2011 9:05:25 PM
Yes, pay her the money. Then ask her if she wants you to buy her a vacations, all accommodators paid with her new dude. Ohh, you will even buy them two boxes of condoms, which they will not use, since they are not at that stage. While you are at it, ask her about her dental, and pay for whatever she wants done there.

Good boy. Now roll over and play dead.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 9:11:11 PM
^ msg.59
If I were a guy, I don't think I will burn my hard earned money just to beautify her eyes, so he can see me that I am a good catch, I would rather put it in the bank, and I am sure it will earn an enterest. And I will look for a woman who will not use me as an easy money to enhance her eyes, wrinkles,butt, boobs....

Pardon me ,I would rather turn into a transvesite and spent the money on me to turn to a beautiful he/she and hit on men..

msg.53: easy there teacher,(you ) u are not in your classroom to check his typo error.
sugary ------surgery
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 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2011 9:41:40 PM
stupid is as stupid does...
 Diancarock1976
Joined: 11/23/2010
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Posted: 7/19/2011 10:35:13 AM
LMAO at this thread...... WOw, how come I don't run into guys like this lol!!!! I'm still trying to get an ex to pay for damage to my car 3 years ago smh!!!
 mrcs84
Joined: 12/9/2008
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Posted: 7/19/2011 1:22:24 PM
Tell that b*tch that she can kick rocks. You didn't owe her anything -prior- to breaking up. You surely don't owe her anything now.
 SleepyMcGee
Joined: 5/16/2008
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Posted: 7/19/2011 4:55:06 PM
The fact that you actually have to ask the question (let's just forget agreeing to pay for it in the first place) makes me fear for your well-being in any relationship. For the good of mankind, PLEASE find your testicles, no woman should expect this kind of treatment.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 45
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Posted: 7/19/2011 8:59:20 PM
Hell the **** no! She broke up with you, that's her loss next she riding up on some next man's****licking her lips, coming to you 4 the money. She's got some nerve. The word was broken the day she left so once again her loss.
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