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 Quirky12
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Being over 45, a lot more men are bald/balding. Does that change women's views on dating a bald guy? Maybe you would now, even though you wouldn't before?

Just wondering if the ladies' perspective has changed, or if it is a non-factor. Non-factor as long as it isn't a comb over!!! lol
 ProcolHarem
Joined: 8/29/2008
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Posted: 7/28/2011 10:32:46 AM
Absolutely, still a balding bias for lots of women.
I can add that as my number 3 bullet point of why I cannot get a date here.
Thanks!
 motown cowgirl
Joined: 6/30/2010
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Posted: 7/28/2011 10:36:59 AM
i have 2 words for you:

Yul.
Brynner.



'nuff said.


if you are losing your hair, FOR GOD'S SAKE do NOT try to hide it. it's like fat women wearning mu-mus. and no over-compensating by letting the stuff that's left in the back grow into some long nasty-assed fringe..... you know that thing that looks like algae growing on an old rock? ugh, disgusting.
 unclezeus
Joined: 5/12/2011
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Posted: 7/28/2011 10:41:26 AM
Does that change women's views on dating a bald guy?


Well so be it. Men don't like flabby boobs, women don't like bald men. Thats the way it goes.
Thats also why we have breast doctors, and hair club doctors.

Luckily for both genders with these issues , attraction is often counter-intuitive.


Maybe you would now, even though you wouldn't before?


Its a long shot, but if she can still attract a man with a head full of hair, thats where she is going to go.


Just wondering if the ladies' perspective has changed


No. Women's perspective on this is not going to change. She may have to settle for second best, as men do, but generally, the head full of hair, makes the man appear more virile than the balding or bald man.
 GypsyEyes50
Joined: 7/16/2011
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Posted: 7/28/2011 10:51:09 AM
^^^^Beg to differ. I often do w/ your posts, but specially this one...

OP....I've dated men at all stages of the hair spectrum, from totally bald/shaved to hair down the back and never felt there was any settling involved ~ nor was the guy's virility in question (in fact, I seem to recall rumors floating around among my friends that high testosterone levels had something to do w/ baldness!!!!).

That is not to say there aren't women for whom a full head of hair is a preference...but then so are a million other factors. However, if women over 40 are dead set on not dating balding men.....hmmm, their pool is going to be pretty small.

Comb-over however....yuck!
 *army mom*
Joined: 6/9/2009
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Posted: 7/28/2011 10:56:13 AM
Well, I'll be the first to admit that hair is nice. However, I tend to live in reality, and hair is a bonus for most over-45 men. I much prefer bald to a bad rug, hair plugs or a bad comb-over.

If I could ever meet a nice, normal guy who lives in reality also, his lack of hair would be a non-issue for me.
 JD4Real29
Joined: 3/28/2011
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Posted: 7/28/2011 11:06:12 AM

I much prefer bald to a bad rug, hair plugs or a bad comb-over.


ditto

just shave it all off.
 casey0413
Joined: 10/27/2009
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Posted: 7/28/2011 11:07:08 AM
Motown Cowgirl - you forgot Ed Harris.
 PrunellaJones
Joined: 1/22/2011
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/28/2011 11:08:53 AM
Being over 45, a lot more men are bald/balding. Does that change women's views on dating a bald guy? Maybe you would now, even though you wouldn't before?

Just wondering if the ladies' perspective has changed, or if it is a non-factor. Non-factor as long as it isn't a comb over!!! lol .
Bald is not an issue. It is a non-issue and always was. I don't like comb overs. I don't like the sort of half bald look. I think it looks best if the head is half or more bald, just keep it completely shaved.


i have 2 words for you:

Yul.
Brynner.

I must force myself to agree.
 pinkoleander
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 10
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Posted: 7/28/2011 11:09:17 AM
As long as it's very short it's fine. Those of us who are attracted to people our own age are not unattracted to bald/ing guys. Off-topic sort of. There's an old guy where I live-at least late 70's really elderly looking, all bent over and everything. And he has this full thick shiny head of brown hair worn in the old Hugh Grant long side part style. It's real, I've checked it out and seen how it grows from his head and oddly enough it's unattractive. It's freakish looking.
 motown cowgirl
Joined: 6/30/2010
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Posted: 7/28/2011 11:13:07 AM
casey... Ed Harris... how could i?!?


i agree w/ you, he has it going on.
you don't wanna be lookin' like the cryptkeeper in those Harry Potter movies


I must force myself to agree.

that's nice... now i won't have to come over there and twist your arm. (j/k!!)

 Molly Maude
Joined: 9/11/2008
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Posted: 7/28/2011 11:48:06 AM
how about ... Vin Diesel ... ??? HE'S got it going on!

the bald guy in "Harry Potter" is Tom Riddle ... aka Voldemort ... aka the Dark Lord ... doubt ANYONE besides a snake would find HIM attractive ... but it's more because he's pure evil!!! well ... having no nose is fairly unattractive, too ...

have a tall friend with curly strawberry blonde hair ... women found him attractive ... then he decided to shave off the curls ... women were falling over each other to get his attention ... I think a lot of women love the bald look ...

personally, I kinda liked the curls ... he had a Gregory Walcot sort of look! maybe even George Kennedy!!! (bad guys in the Clint Eastwood movies!)



P.S. comb-overs are just plain gross ... even if you're a multi-billionaire ...
 PrunellaJones
Joined: 1/22/2011
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Posted: 7/28/2011 11:52:49 AM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Telly_Savalas

Telly Savalas--"Who loves ya baby?" He had a TV show back in the 70's. He was very popular with the ladies. I was in the UK during that time for a while and he seemed to be even more popular with the women there than in the US. Greek and bald: what more can you ask for?
 cookie22222
Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 7/28/2011 12:03:12 PM
Can anyone say - Patrick Stewart? Bald AND a sexy accent...sigh...

Bald, balding, thinning hair, none of it has or does impact how attractive I find someone...but I will say I know women who it would impact!
 RichenLosAngeles
Joined: 11/14/2010
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Posted: 7/28/2011 12:05:32 PM
Don't leave out Curly from the Three Stooges .
Nyuk, Nyuk, Nyuk, , , , ,
 mateo45
Joined: 1/17/2008
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Posted: 7/28/2011 12:09:08 PM
if you are losing your hair, FOR GOD'S SAKE do NOT try to hide it. it's like fat women wearning mu-mus. and no over-compensating by letting the stuff that's left in the back grow into some long nasty-assed fringe..... you know that thing that looks like algae growing on an old rock? ugh, disgusting.

By "nasty-assed fringe" (LOL!), does that also include the ever-popular "bald guy with a ponytail" look (apparently very big here in California)?
 Janet_Always
Joined: 12/7/2010
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Posted: 7/28/2011 12:18:14 PM
If the top is going, it looks better if you take down the sides to match.

Just my opinion... and yes, I've dated a few baldies. I actually think they are very sexy.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 7/28/2011 12:27:24 PM
depends on the man for me........
some bald guys I find very sexy.....
some have that double roll on the back of their neck that kills the look!

and I agree........come overs make ya look like an idiot!
 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 19
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Posted: 7/28/2011 12:35:48 PM
BRUCE WILLIS.....................

You need a whole package. He has it.

The same with anything else.
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
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Posted: 7/28/2011 12:42:25 PM
I married a bald guy.

No issue.

However ... absolutely NO comb over!
 Jen_29
Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 21
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Posted: 7/28/2011 12:43:40 PM
I think bald men can be very sexy. But they need to be physically fit. An athletic bald guy can looks very masculine. A overweight bald guy looks just old.

Just look at the examples mentioned above. Those are not the Jason Alexander types.
 PrunellaJones
Joined: 1/22/2011
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Posted: 7/28/2011 12:48:00 PM

I think bald men can be very sexy. But they need to be physically fit. An athletic bald guy can looks very masculine. A overweight bald guy looks just old.

Just look at the examples mentioned above. Those are not the Jason Alexander types.
That is a very good point. Back to Telly Savalas. His sidekick was a short chubby guy, with lots of dark curly hair. But the one the women liked was Savalas, who was tall and lean. Yep. Short, fat, and bald...like Jason Alexander....you gotta have a lot of charm to draw the women in then.
 Molly Maude
Joined: 9/11/2008
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Posted: 7/28/2011 1:10:57 PM
there's a man here in my area who is balding with a pony tail ... and ... that man is HOT!

the fact that he's a plastic surgeon doesn't hurt a bit!

 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
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Posted: 7/28/2011 1:24:12 PM
^^^^
Bald guys with a pony tail?
My mechanic has one and I find it a real turn off.

If you're going bald ... then shave it ALL off.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 7/28/2011 2:32:27 PM
Bald guys with a pony tail?
My mechanic has one and I find it a real turn off.

If you're going bald ... then shave it ALL off.

Ahhh, the skullet!! When will those balding on top realize it's not attractive to try to go mullet ??

~OT~ I'm not opposed to balding but definitely prefer bald. I am opposed to swoops, comb-overs, plugs and other camo efforts. Like has been stated ~ balding looks better just bald. Shaving is our friend.
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