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Joined: 5/16/2011
Msg: 8
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I don't know the whole scenario,but,sweetie, my guess is that maybe things were progressing too fast for his liking. Call him (it may help you to feel better.......sometimes waiting,wondering,and NOT knowing is harder to take than finding out).......but,prepare yourself for hearing an answer you may not like to hear. With any luck,he really IS into you.......I wish you good luck! BlueButterflies
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 12
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Posted: 9/3/2011 9:31:35 AM
I have no idea how long you dated him, or how many times you were actually with him in person, but to me this would be a nice get lost attempt on his part without actually being totally honest about it. I'd guess he found someone else he wants to try out but didn't want to totally cut you off in case it didn't work out, or he just isn't good at telling someone he's lost interest, but whatever his reason, call him if you want but don't expect any honesty and probably more mixed signals. I wouldn't bother.
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 9/3/2011 11:44:11 PM
He isnt into you, this is a cop out and he is trying to spare your feelings.

forget about him and move on.
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