Plus I also dont see any listings for events either. There used to be several meet & greet parties in my area. They usually appreared on the home page,
You should be able to find the event listings for your area on the state forum page for your state, or province if in Canada. For example, I'm in California, and when I click on the California forums page, there is a a link in red lettering which says "California Singles Events" 4 lines down from the top.