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Joined: 4/6/2010
Msg: 5
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no you should get as far away as you can
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/19/2011 8:08:25 PM
Give it a week or 2...

then go back and send her a note like what Cowboy wrote...

then do NOTHING until she responds...

in the mean time - continue seeking other hotties to attract to the Bat Cave.
Joined: 11/10/2009
Msg: 7
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Posted: 10/19/2011 10:01:49 PM
Thought the batcave was for Emotionally Distraught Boys and Elderly Men?

I agree with everyone else. Wait a week or 2 then message again, if nothing. Re-bait the hook and cast the line.
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/20/2011 6:38:18 PM
I would say it's worth writing again as she's indicating some sort of interest by adding you to favourites and possibly the meet me thing. We don't know what you said in your first message. If you made a statement and didn't ask her anything, it could be she didn't quite know what to respond to. She could have said 'thank you for your message' at least, but who knows? It's worth one more message. If no response then, forget about her and move on.
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