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 eagerbeaver69
Joined: 10/3/2011
Msg: 1
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Hi, I am looking for some helpful advice on deepthroating.I have a terrible gag reflex and was just wondering if there is anything I can do to help it.Should I use something to numb it or try a different position.I have heard that hanging your head off the bed is a good way because everything lines up and makes entry easy..but it doesnt seem very easy for me.I can get a little bit in but then I gag.I would really appreciate someone giving me some advice on this because it is really something I want to be able to do.Thanks!!
 Maraleyha
Joined: 9/12/2011
Msg: 2
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Posted: 10/19/2011 11:30:09 PM
Practice makes perfect. Buy a vibrator & practice on it. Doesn't have to be a large one, normal phallus size. Then retrain the gag reflect, it's mind over matter. If you don't like the taste.. give it flavor.. using food & or whatever your mind can come up with.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/20/2011 12:00:06 AM
LOL, sorry...I have no experience! I DO have a terrible gag reflex though...I have trouble even brushing my tongue...I don't think anything will help ....it's a reflex.

FWIW I don't get the whole deep throat thing...
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 4
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Posted: 10/20/2011 3:12:03 AM
I have a strong gag reflex...I can't really deep throat but never had any complaints Just get as much as you can in...use your tongue A LOT esp on the head and lick the shaft up and down...and DO NOT forgot to play with the balls, with you hands or tongue...if you want to be even braver you can give him a rim job (not saying you have to stick a finger or anything in)...[most] guys get very excited just being touched/licked there...so there are many things you can do if you can't get the whole thing in your mouth...I use my hand on the area my mouth doesn't reach...good luck with your practicing and have fun
 BountyHunterMike
Joined: 10/5/2011
Msg: 5
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Posted: 10/20/2011 5:37:07 AM
I am impressed that you are willing to try something new...(maybe not new to you) But willing to push aside your feeling or natural body fuctions and to please your partner.. There are a ton of help on the internet...
Practice is the best thing....dont use a bannana...use a vibrator...
It does help to have your head hang over the bed....but again the only thing that helps is practice...mind u I dont deepthroat...Im into woman only..this info comes from the internet and my old girl friend who also had a gagg problem..but she practiced over and over again...which i was all for....

wish u the best of luck in this area..
 sweetteeny829
Joined: 8/28/2011
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/20/2011 1:53:31 PM
You don't have to take him all the way in to please a guy. There's lots of other stuff you can do with your tongue and hands that will feel just as good for him.

make sure you get plenty of saliva on his member, suck on the tip of it as your hand rubs him up and down.

Also try licking and palm of your hand so it's nice and wet then massage his tip with it. This feels real good for a guy:) As least every guy I've done it to loved it.

Oh and don't forget about his balls. Very gently massage them in your hand.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/20/2011 2:47:41 PM
there are a few threads already in existance with numerous tips
do a thread search!
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 8
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Posted: 10/20/2011 3:20:23 PM

there are a few threads already in existance with numerous tips
do a thread search!


LOl...Yeah....just look up Bukake [sp?]! LOL....numerous tips!
Tell me that was accidental!
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 9
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Posted: 10/20/2011 3:36:48 PM


FWIW I don't get the whole deep throat thing...


the impact of porn on our collective psyche..so many guys (esp. younger guys) think sex is all about deep-throating & anal (with a "money-shot" on her face at the end of course)
 recreator611
Joined: 1/29/2011
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/20/2011 4:53:24 PM
Shees...you got it bad...or just tryin to impress someone....Ive never needed anyone to "deep throat me"...its just as good if she knew what she was doing during oral....many dont....seems like theres some good advise here...have at it!...lol
 eagerbeaver69
Joined: 10/3/2011
Msg: 11
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Posted: 10/20/2011 5:29:41 PM
hey sweetteeny..Its not that I have to take him down my throat,its that I want to..lol..I never had a problem getting a guy to cum while blowing him but this is just something I want to be able to do for myself..
 sweetteeny829
Joined: 8/28/2011
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/20/2011 6:24:51 PM
you just gotta focus on him and get caught up in the moment so much that you're not thinking about how uncomfortable it is, that's what I do. I have a tiny mouth and still am able to give head very well because I'm so into the moment that I ignore how uncomfortable it is for me.

Just think about him and how hard he is, how he's hard for you. How he wants you, how you're the one making him big and hard. that's what I think about when I'm doing that to a guy:) It really gets me in the mood and helps with my deep throating:)
 Deke245
Joined: 9/28/2011
Msg: 13
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Posted: 10/20/2011 6:32:24 PM
Try saying "Ahhh" when you're going for it, that may relax your throat a bit.

Practice, practice, practice!
 kcladyz
Joined: 8/7/2009
Msg: 14
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Posted: 10/20/2011 6:51:05 PM
practice on a cucumber or a hot dog depending on your BF size lol
 eagerbeaver69
Joined: 10/3/2011
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/20/2011 7:25:30 PM
that's great advice..thanks sweet teeny..actually you kinda turn me on as well.lol..do you have any particular position that you use that works the best???
 sweetteeny829
Joined: 8/28/2011
Msg: 16
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Posted: 10/20/2011 7:41:30 PM
I like when he lays down on his back and I'm on top sucking him, because I have more control of it that way.

lol. I'm always able to turn myself on by just thinking about how hard a guy is for me. I do the same thing when I'm having sex with a guy, only I usually say my thoughts out loud. It turns both me and him on:) I usually say things like "I love it when your big, hard, C*** is inside me!" or "Is that big, hard, C*** for me?" lol:)
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/20/2011 8:00:34 PM
trick: when you have him to the back of your throat...and feel the gaggy feeling......make a swallowing motion with your throat.
This will bring him in deeper and help you get passed the gag reflex.
I've also noticed if I keep him to the top of my mouth.....so the head is against the roof of my mouth....and slide him that way...it works better for me.

every woman has a different opinion on angle....
I, personally, don't care for the lay my head off the bed thing...that angle doesn't work for me.
The best (for me) is the "69" with him on top......I think the combination of getting pleasured and that angle is when I can take him the deepest.
 cin____dy
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 18
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Posted: 10/20/2011 9:53:51 PM
You guys are funny, I wonder guys, lets see you have a big****stuck down your throat and fix that problem.??? Then give us women such good advice.
I do love to please the guy I am with but I often find it funny when men are sooo into this and think women should find it SOOOOO easy or best thing ever ! , guys stick a big vibrator down your throat and lets see if you gag sweet pea.

Oh and must add for all you women that think BIG is BETTER, I am thinking there are other areas where smaller is better, so don't want a big 12" one down my throat or up my other areas.
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 10/21/2011 5:34:12 AM

hey sweetteeny..Its not that I have to take him down my throat,its that I want to..lol..I never had a problem getting a guy to cum while blowing him but this is just something I want to be able to do for myself..


I am the same way...and nothing is more true in this case than practice makes perfect...every time I do it I try I get him a little further in...yes you will gag and your eyes will start to water but hey, if they watch porn then the gagging won't bother them LOL
 Sakfak
Joined: 7/17/2011
Msg: 20
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Posted: 10/21/2011 8:49:53 AM
this probably isn't great advice, but when I was young I accidentally got stabbed in the back of my throat with a pen (I was chewing on it, school bullies, long story). Ever since I have had literally no gag reflex.

If you get desperate maybe you can start jabbing toothbrushes at the back of your throat or something like that. Really, I'm sure it was the pain that did it, I got so used to fiddling around with the wound that it's no big deal now.
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 21
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Posted: 10/21/2011 8:55:19 AM

I usually say things like "I love it when your big, hard, C*** is inside me!" or "Is that big, hard, C*** for me?" lol:)


never ask a question you don't KNOW the answer to.. (lawyers' advice for court)

wouldn't it shatter you if he said : "no really I'm fantasizing about the neighbor"

.."or the bag-boy at the grocery store" LOL
 eagerbeaver69
Joined: 10/3/2011
Msg: 22
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Posted: 10/21/2011 11:24:46 AM
so you can do it easy now huh?Bet the guys love that.lol..so whats the longest you have done it with?
 sweetteeny829
Joined: 8/28/2011
Msg: 23
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Posted: 10/21/2011 11:58:03 AM
The first rule about Deepthroating is you don't talk about deepthroating.
Second rule of deepthroating is you Do not talk about deepthroating.
third rule Someone yells stop, taps out, go limp (lol) the deepthroating is over.
fourth rule Only one girl per D***.
fifth rule One D*** at a time ladies:)
sixth rule No Shirts, No shoes.
seventh rule Deepthroating will go on for AS LONG AS IT HAS TO!!!
and the eighth and final rule if this is your first time deepthroating, You have to deepthroat:)

lol. Fight Club is my favorite movie:) I think the seventh rule answers your question:)
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 24
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Posted: 10/21/2011 12:12:16 PM
Saying "aaah" might actually be really useful. One of the main things that I find helpful is keeping my soft palate lifted (which the "ahh" might help with). Keeping my throat as relaxed as possible is also a must.

I've found that head tilted back on a bed is also easier, but you might have to experiment further with the angle.

Beyond that: Make sure *you're* the one controlling the depth and speed so you can pull back when you need to. Push yourself a little, but not too much at first. Be aware that, if you're going to deep throat, you'll have an occasional puking "oops" involved, and just be somewhere that that's not a huge problem. Those kinds of events don't mean you've failed, so go easy on yourself when they happen. I can take a lot of c*ck most of the time, but I still get suddenly urpy on occasion.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 10/21/2011 1:44:40 PM


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You guys are funny, I wonder guys, lets see you have a big****stuck down your throat and fix that problem.??? Then give us women such good advice.
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lol....you never seen gay porn?
swap "war stories" with a gay friend?

There are some men that really do get a big****stuck down their throat to fix that problem.???lol
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