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 somethingmoreinhfx
Joined: 8/10/2011
Msg: 1
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I have a question to pose to the ladies out there. Do any of you actually let the guy orgasm on your face, or is this a purely pornographic act done by actresses to appeal to male x-rated video viewers?

I'd appreciate any responses.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
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Posted: 10/20/2011 2:45:23 PM
OP - some girls like it...some don't...

some girls LOVE it..

some girl's wouldn't touch ur baby batter with a 10 foot pole...expect in their pie hole...



just don't get it in her eyes...she wont like that...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/20/2011 2:46:03 PM
yes, some of us women have no issue with it.....
I'm of the mind that my man can cum any where his little heart desires.....it's his orgasm and if the visual gives him an extra quiver.....I will happily oblige.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
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Posted: 10/20/2011 3:03:16 PM

any where his little head desires


Micki..

there !!

I fixed it for you...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/20/2011 3:45:05 PM
bwah-ha-ha
much more appropriate Boon! Thanks
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
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Posted: 10/20/2011 8:33:52 PM
^^^^most girls will do most anything with a guy who knows how to give it to her the right way...


what she might do with the vast majority of her sexual partners over the years...or with you...

guarantee most have had a guy who really turned her out...and she loved it when HE did it...


so how r u gonna do it to her ?

how r u gonna be with her ?

r u gonna be the guy she goes ""oh no, I don't do that""

or r u gonna be the guy she goes ""whatever u wanna do to me...DO IT""

??
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 10/20/2011 9:47:36 PM
Nope. NOt porn related. Some women love it. How do I know? They told me. We did it. They wanted it again.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
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Posted: 10/20/2011 10:37:46 PM
Because that's what *I* want, a guy who is up for letting me go crazy and do whatever I want with him...without feeling judged, without restrictions on her to be pure and not wild into sex. Without worries about his sex drive.

And you know, if you are that guy, she just might let on that she finds her man cumming all over her face to be extremely HOT. And she just might ask you to do it. Yeah, really.

But if you act like it's only something a slutty porn star will do...well, i guarantee she'll never show you her kinky side.


+ 1


see the guy who she lets cum all over her face, back, body, where ever...is NOT a ""nice guy"" in her book...

men drive the sexual relationship...

as with anything man/woman related - men are the actors...women respond...

most girls IMO WANNA be UR slut...UR freak in the sheets...UR own personal WH0Re in the bed...

they want a guy who will make love to them passionately AND has the balls to bend them over in the elevator and nail 'em from behind...


you as the man just have to KNOW how to do that, to bring that OUT of each woman you are with...


the only real differences between men/women in this vein is::

1- women will typically NOT show a man her truly SLUTTY side until he opens her up to it...she doesn't wanna bruise UR ego and at the same time she'll LOVe the fact that you know how to open her door to that side of her....that means in general, women are NOT as offended by a man who has been with 100 women or more, while men are typically more put off by a girlfriend/wife who has been with 100 men or more.. (100 being an arbitrary number)

2- once a man is with a woman who will do X Y Z sexually - he wants EVERY woman after that to do those things...he does not like going back to plain jane vanilla once he's tasted Rocky Road...women are far more accepting of a man sexually (bf/husband material) even if he is plain jane vanilla sexually IF he offers X Y Z in so many other areas...


conclusion: if you, as a man are sexually active with a woman...do NOT wait/expect her to drive the limits of sexuality....that is YOUR job. done right, IMO most women are willing to do whatever you want to do with them sexually...

why ?

cuz they want to PLEASE the man they are sexing...


duh...


you just gotta do it in the right way...
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
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Posted: 10/20/2011 11:24:18 PM

Boondocksaint, where do you get some of this sh*t? "Men drive the sexual relationship, women respond" HUH? What do lesbians do then w/o a "driver?" I can only speak for myself (and for the women I have been with) but it's not true for me. I am the one who asked my ex to give me a facial; he didn't suggest it.

It just burns me up when someone suggests how things are for ALL women or ALL men. We are individuals; we don't all act the same.




I am basing this on my experience and what I know about male/female dynamics in general....

if you paid attention to my post, I am speaking of women ""in general""...""typically""

I also qualify my post and assertion to women who we consider gf material and women considering us as bf material...

this ain't about some quickie with some slut who is just looking for someone to rock her world deep as you like from day 1...

this is relationship sex which I am discussing granola girl...


realize that YOU are a woman...and being a woman - you (allegedly) have not had to be a man who has been with many women and have had to learn how to please women sexually...many different women...

make sense ?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/21/2011 7:57:34 AM
Oooh Boon......you poor misguided soul!!

Women secure in their sexuality do not need a man to lead them to the water...we're already there and drinking up!
And it has nothing to do (for me) with bringing out my slutty side
Personally, I do not want to be any man's slut....and will quickly let him know I don't want to be called his slut/whore during the sex act. I find being called a slut during sex far more degrading then a facial (which I don't find degrading at all).

And I'm with Abe on this one.....If I have to "ask" for certain sexual acts all the time.....I will quickly get bored with my lover. It should be a give and take on stepping up the "creativity" in the bedroom.

Guess it's my own personal rant....but equating a sexually charged woman with being a slut just grates on my nerves!!
 femaleconnection
Joined: 8/12/2010
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Posted: 10/21/2011 9:24:11 AM
Im from the camp that says if two people treat one another with respect outside the bedroom, than anything that turns them on inside the bedroom is not disrespectful. If my man wants to do this and I already feel respected before the act, this act will not make me feel disrespected. And I get off knowing I helped him get off.

There are places to do these acts where the mess is minumal, like in the shower or sharing a bath. Its fun.

I would never advocate people do these things if they dont feel good about it though.

Men have been wanking off on the images of woman faces since before porn...I found a few crusty old eatons/bay catalogues that were from the early 1900's...showing women in bras and girdles...what do you think made them crusty? lolol

People have been doing this before porn for sure. Porn just makes it seem more mainstream is all.
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/21/2011 9:33:59 AM
some women love it, some don't.. I'm guessing partially the ones who like it are doing it to help show how much they like their man? maybe just like it for it's own sake, and because it's fun sometimes to abandon the 'good girl' image and get all sticky & gooey,, etc.

I don't see how this would be 'degrading' if the woman like sit..if shoe doesn't of course it would be.

what about when a woman sits on a guy's face and grinds her sticky puzzy & juices all over his face?

is THAT "Degrading" to the guy? I don't think so, it's a way to give her pleasure & demonstrate how much you are into her, like her, maybe love her
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 10/21/2011 9:47:29 AM
Guess it's my own personal rant....but equating a sexually charged woman with being a slut just grates on my nerves!!

It's not your own personal rant I am not a woman but I feel that under no circumstances should a sexually charged woman be connected with the word sl*t. It is that old double standard again that is just bullsh*t. It will always be in history the more women a guy can be with the better man he is and if the women choose to be the same way those names start flying, well not in my book it is a fair playing feild for both men and women. Some might need it more than others, some might like it more than others but we are all equal. As for facials go it is entirely up to the participants, I don't think there is anything degrading about it. Now if the woman does not like it or want one I totaly understand that but it does not mean it is degrading. It is part of sex to some people and sex is suppose to be fun as long as both partners are willing to participate how can it be degrading especialy if it makes both people feel good.
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 10/21/2011 9:54:23 AM

I have a question to pose to the ladies out there. Do any of you actually let the guy orgasm on your face, or is this a purely pornographic act done by actresses to appeal to male x-rated video viewers?

And ruin my hair and makup? He'd have a better chance of shaking hands with Jesus.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2011 6:12:15 PM
I've only been with one woman who even took it on her face,and she was a long term girlfriend. She wanted to try it to see what it felt like. Then she took the shot right in the eye and that was that. I've been with a lot of women who liked different parts of their body shot on,whether it was breasts,stomach,or butt,and a lot of women who liked to swallow,but no other who liked a facial. I know they are out there though.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/23/2011 10:04:01 AM
Who in the hell reapplies makeup after a round of good sex?
That seems far more impractical to me!
 ReAiZrEaL
Joined: 3/24/2009
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:35:43 PM
I happin to enjoy facials
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/24/2011 7:33:09 AM

If you don't have to reapply makeup, wash and redo your hair, you didn't do it right, no matter what activities were involved.

Amen!!
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
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Posted: 10/24/2011 7:37:01 AM
nothing says 'love' like her saying : "give it to me in my mouth" or "Fill my mouth", then opening her mouth wide..sticking her tongue out to catch it all..and moving to try to catch every drop as it pumps & spurts out

then she has it in her mouth & smiles contentedly, then swallows and smiles huge again
 somethingmoreinhfx
Joined: 8/10/2011
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Posted: 10/24/2011 9:25:04 AM
Good answer.......Marry me :) lol
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 10/24/2011 11:37:41 AM
I think everybody does it, personally , I like it better inside the woman
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
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Posted: 10/24/2011 5:16:06 PM
Once, and I thought I was going to be suffocated. Will never happen ever again.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/24/2011 6:20:57 PM
Maybe she is confusing a facial with teabagging!
 JCinVicBC
Joined: 6/17/2011
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Posted: 11/1/2011 5:13:35 AM
Gave myself one this morning--accidentally.
 BigJ_78
Joined: 2/15/2011
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Posted: 11/1/2011 5:36:00 PM
From Tallahassee ..to Miami..Back up to Tampa Bay..
All The Florida ladies say...
It’s the Highlight of their day.....
When I aim my d*ck at their face, and Spray ...
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