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 natures_lust173
Joined: 10/29/2011
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After having sex with a friend of mine he told me I made him cum to hard. I did'nt have the nurve to asking him what did he mean by it so I left it alone. I would like to know what it means and have any men out there had a simular experience?
 satansevilmind
Joined: 6/26/2011
Msg: 2
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Posted: 11/2/2011 8:06:02 PM
Hes telling you that it was good (it was sex, of course it was good) and now you are a bootycall :)
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 11/2/2011 8:10:21 PM
You can have sex with him but can't ask him what something he said means.
 mrmisterme
Joined: 6/7/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2011 8:11:29 PM

After having sex with a friend of mine he told me I made him cum to hard. I did'nt have the nurve to asking him what did he mean by it so I left it alone. I would like to know what it means and have any men out there had a simular experience?


Cum too hard? Maybe it came out of some other organ, like his ears.
 ChillinChill
Joined: 6/17/2011
Msg: 5
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Posted: 11/2/2011 8:20:07 PM
Wow... are you bragging or advertizing???
 JP1111
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/2/2011 8:30:19 PM
Hmmm, too cum too hard?? Everytime a guy comes too hard is simply means that that a very good orgasm.

But saying it like that was complaint???? I just can'y figure that out :(

Ask him if he endeed up having a good orgasm?
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/2/2011 8:36:18 PM
I have no idea what that means. It sounds like stream of consciousness babbling that doesn't mean anything.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 11/2/2011 9:01:08 PM
It's his best attempt at a compliment.
and kindof lame.
For better ones sleep with a poet.
 MrPlatonic
Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 9
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Posted: 11/2/2011 9:23:18 PM
Maybe he wants to redirect focus towards you after he came too fast?
 mellowcountryguy1
Joined: 9/17/2011
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/2/2011 9:25:50 PM
I was thinking the same thing about going to fast...
 beacon_z_bard
Joined: 10/3/2011
Msg: 11
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Posted: 11/2/2011 9:30:35 PM
First off, I've never heard that phrase, so I don't know what it means.

Secondly, any guy who just uses you for sex is NOT your friend, he's a jerk you happen to know who also knows he can con you into "no strings attached" sex. Friends with benefits is an urban myth, created by selfish guys who don't want to go through the trouble of getting to know someone before getting their rocks off. Any woman who falls into this sort of trap has to either be naive or desperate for attention.
 TheCoolGreenMoss
Joined: 9/13/2010
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Posted: 11/2/2011 9:36:05 PM
Uhm... medically/scientifically speaking - means he felt he ejaculated a lot of semen; often as a result of a very satisfying sexual encounter... It was good.. enjoyed it.. a compliment..

An 'urban' or 'porn-ish' term...
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2011 10:09:29 PM
were his dentures out? maybe what he meant to say was 'gum too hard.'
 irce
Joined: 10/1/2011
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/2/2011 10:59:48 PM
Wow so it never happened to any of you guy's out there, where you came so hard it HURT?
 ZachariahTicer
Joined: 9/22/2010
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Posted: 11/3/2011 12:40:27 AM
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Ummm no. See a doctor.


After having sex with a friend of mine he told me I made him cum to hard.

So after he banged your friend you met with him for coffee and he explains that you made him "cum too hard" in an attempt to keep you interested?? Why do you care? If the meaning is good you will sleep with him again?
 114M3
Joined: 4/19/2011
Msg: 16
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Posted: 11/3/2011 1:08:45 AM

So after he banged your friend you met with him for coffee and he explains that you made him "cum too hard" in an attempt to keep you interested??


LOL ... Zachariah .. at first this was my understanding too .... .. however, if you re-read you will see that OP is actually talking about a guy-friend whom she had sex with and afterwards he told her he "came too hard" ...

OP, I say this would probably depend on how he said it ... I mean perhaps he was attempting to compliment you that you gave him an "explosive orgasm" .. aka: "cum too hard" .... then again... I'm only taking a guess at this ...
 unclezeus
Joined: 5/12/2011
Msg: 17
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Posted: 11/3/2011 1:37:00 AM
If you don't understand that concept, you're asking about, then the guys you ride, just are not doing you right. And thats a shame.
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 18
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Posted: 11/3/2011 3:40:37 AM

I have no idea what that means. It sounds like stream of consciousness babbling that doesn't mean anything.


Yup, after orgasms, people often babble on and on about nothing. Best to just shut the hell up and enjoy the love buzz.
 Villies
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 19
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Posted: 11/3/2011 6:25:10 AM
I don't know.
Could be a compliment that he had a great time.
Could be that there was too much mechanical stimulation on the point of orgasm which can give a tad of discomfort on the point-of-no-return.

But what strikes me from the post is that you are having a relationship with someone you do no have an open communication line to ask these types of questions freely.
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