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 stonecastle
Joined: 2/14/2007
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How many of you like watching your partner having sex with someone else? Also if you were a woman would you agree to do this if your partner requested it inoder to turn them on? For many men this is a really big turn on. I know I would really like to see a woman I am dating having sex with someone else.
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 2
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 8:53:43 AM
Sorry not for me at all but what ever floats your boat. I don't condem it but like all the women say I am a one man woman, I am a one woman guy.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 3
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 8:54:32 AM
Been there, done that! I was TOTALLY against it years ago, then kind of willing to see...experienced it finally and found it to be extremely erotic! I've had a few open relationships since....anytime my girl was with someone else....I'd go nuts with anticipation of reclaiming her!

FWIW if this thread survives more than a day...you (And I.) are gonna get all sorts of haters, moralistic morons and the STD police jumping all over the place with misplaced animosity!

Pull up a chair...I'll make the popcorn....
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 4
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 9:00:36 AM
You won't get that from me 415 I have nothing against any of the negativity that goes on here. Just because it is not for me does not mean it is not for someone else. Everyone jumps to all these conclusions, and it is always the one with there hand in the cookie jar that is the first person to say I am against that and are the first one doing what they are against. Now if the thread lasts long enough I will get some of it to.
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 5
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 9:00:48 AM
Can't say I have ever wanted to share my Kitkat I prefer a relationship when it is just with me. I have been in enough short term relationships with women where I was not sure if I was just one of a few guys she was having sex with - the thought of that was never a turn on for me. The thought of a threesome with me and two other women is a fantasy as it is for many men but in reality I will stick with one on one.
 SuzySeashore
Joined: 10/18/2011
Msg: 6
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 9:04:22 AM
here is your first hater - it's disgusting.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 9:12:03 AM
Guess I have watched, while participating in a 3some with my partner and another woman.......
But those days are long gone and it doesn't hold a bit of interest for me these days.
 No_6
Joined: 9/27/2011
Msg: 8
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Posted: 11/6/2011 9:28:56 AM
I'd rather watch girl on girl action; but fat chance of my partner agreeing to that.
 TDH49
Joined: 8/13/2010
Msg: 9
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Posted: 11/6/2011 9:58:00 AM
When I was much younger I lived in a house in San Francisco with 4 women and 1 other man. This was a regular occurance with us. Not something I am interesting in 30 years later though.
 Pete2205
Joined: 3/18/2011
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Posted: 11/6/2011 9:58:46 AM
You should ask her No 6 but take it from one who has been there...She might find it so good that after about an hour your getting left out of the action and you will soon know your no longer needed ...You may end up downstairs on the couch eating toast and watching TV
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 11
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 10:05:14 AM
Pete.... Some guys like that...others know that no matter how much she's enjoying it she'll come to them for the grand finale'!

...Of course, the girl's got to be hot enough to actually GET other guys!
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 12
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 10:05:59 AM
I find it very hot, but have limited experience with it (not by choice, though).
 Cdn_Iceman
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/6/2011 10:20:03 AM
Nope, cant say I would enjoy it or suggest it, its not for me, not into sharing my partner with others.
 OzzGirl22
Joined: 8/17/2009
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/6/2011 10:39:46 AM
No thank you. I am way too selfish. ;)
 Pete2205
Joined: 3/18/2011
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Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 11:17:06 AM
''I'd dump you just for asking''.

Somes times its not the guy that does the asking....
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 11:18:40 AM
The thought of it, is really hot, erotic
my wife was bi, and she would have a girl over, reality was much different
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
Msg: 17
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Posted: 11/6/2011 11:31:16 AM
Nope.

What's mine is mine.
I don't share.

If he he wanted to participate with someone else ...
Then it's foot meet ass meet door.

See ya!
 Pete2205
Joined: 3/18/2011
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Posted: 11/6/2011 11:50:20 AM
The thought of it, is really hot, erotic
my wife was bi, and she would have a girl over, reality was much different
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Thats what I found too...Its a great erotic fantasy but bring it into real life and its not always bruilliant
 Cdn_Iceman
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 19
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Posted: 11/6/2011 11:55:41 AM

Every mans dream watching two wemon getting it on then get stuck in to both off them any bloke that says it would not appeal to them is lying
oh bullshit, I'm very healthy and enjoy sex and I can say with a straight face that doesn't appeal to me by the way its women not wemon

Edit^^^^^^^^
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
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Posted: 11/6/2011 12:16:23 PM

by the way its women not wemen


Actually it was wemon not wemen if youre going to be a nit picky anally retentive pedant about it


As for the topic though, its not something where I find the idea of it by itself erotic, and isnt something I'd ever suggest. Infact the only time I've had a chance of a threesome the relationship I was in wasnt solid enough for me to say yes and although I did offer her the option of just doing the girl on girl thing with me not taking part the other woman wasnt up for it unless I wanted to play so it didnt happen

That said though, I was seeing somebody who had a lot of fantasies surrounding multiple penetration who I did feel the relationship was secure enough to have explored without it being detrimentally affected but that was because it was something she had always fantasised about and wasnt something that I had ever thought erotic, but would have been something I'd have been happy to do so she could have ticked it off her own fantasy bucket list
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 21
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/6/2011 12:57:23 PM
If it was another woman, not a problem. Another guy? No. I'm not that openminded.
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 22
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Posted: 11/6/2011 1:03:24 PM
Well..humn...being as I fantasize about MFM..I probably would in a way. I wouldn't do so if my partner wasn't in on the action too. ;)
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 23
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Posted: 11/6/2011 1:06:09 PM
I have to wonder if mod's get a special exception to posting a main pic that is not a recognizable head shot. You are setting a bad example Abel.

As far as watching another man or another woman doing it to a woman isn't that what porn is for.

I have been told to remove my main pic or face deletion for pictures that are a much more of a recognizable head shot than your current one it - as I am sure many other posters have..
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 24
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Posted: 11/6/2011 1:10:01 PM
I thought the photo fit the job. I don't get a special exemption.
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
Msg: 25
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Posted: 11/6/2011 1:51:14 PM
^^^^


Do you really want to post that?




Gotta love the humour!
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