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 BADassCountyGrl
Joined: 8/12/2011
Msg: 1
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Im starting to wonder if Im way to blunt on what I want on my profile, Ive been told that I sound like **** , which I honestly didnt believe that I do, i just got right to the point of what I want....So if any of you can help me out and see what it is I should change, I'd appreciate it
 psytle
Joined: 3/7/2011
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Tell me if sound like a B*tch on profile please
Posted: 11/15/2011 4:24:42 PM
OP, I would suggest emphasizing what you want, and simply ignoring what you don't want.

For example, instead of saying you want 'someone who isnt the obsessive controlling or super jealous type' how about saying that you want a guy that trusts your friends and loved ones?

Both statements are basically saying the same thing, but which one do you think sounds better to guys?
 You go first
Joined: 5/1/2008
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Tell me if sound like a B*tch on profile please
Posted: 11/15/2011 6:05:09 PM
If your kids are 'your world', why would you post their cute little faces on an adult internet dating site when you know what kind of pervs are here?

If you don't want guys messaging you for a fvck, why in hell would you have "sex" as an Interest? Really, don't you think that goes without saying?

As already said, the icky pervs don't read so it doesn't matter what you write in your profile to them, it will make you sound negative. The perv messages are part of the online process. Even I got them from 20-yr old kids looking to rock my world to guys my Dad's age. So what. Moving on....


Best advice you already got - write for the guy you want to attract.
 wooliepack
Joined: 5/10/2009
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Tell me if sound like a B*tch on profile please
Posted: 11/15/2011 8:01:10 PM
You say that if you have a man, you want his attention and loyalty, but you've already warned him that your children are "first and formost" to you. He's going to wonder why you're even on here. He's certainly not going to be important to you.
Drop the pics of your kids and besties! They're not coming on our date, so they shouldn't be profiled with you. Besides, this site is for over-18 only. Kids under 18 can be mentioned, not identified.
Keep the pic of you at "work", I'm a farrier, it's how my work looks, too!
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