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 abeautifullsoul
Joined: 10/20/2008
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I have been on this site for about 3 years now and all I ever meet is men who find ways to use me , they know how and what to say at the right time to get me to let my guard down .... This last meeting of a POF ( # 4 ) member lost me about 2800.00 in monetary values , he played on my sympathies , he had some serious issues he was supposedly dealing with , we became very close , I thought he was the one and after I had nothing left to give out he sent me a dear john letter via email ... He was insultive about my home , my pets and my mode of living , and my job and my truck , nothing was right for him in the end , and the woman he is with now was whom he told me he was just " settling " for because he didn't know what he wanted .... and this is the second man on POF who has went back to an ex after they took me for what they could , in the last 2 yrs ... so Im done ... I honestly don't think there is ONE honest man here at all ....

I wish you all luck , Anna
 Victoria021
Joined: 11/9/2011
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Posted: 11/23/2011 9:34:13 PM
Dear Anna,
I am fairly new to this site. I had been on anther one for awhile. I first want to tell you I am sorry for what you went through with someone you thought might be the one. Between the two sites, (both completely free) the other site is alot better. Since I have been on here with the exact same profile and pictures most of these men seem incompatible, untrusting, sexually hiked up, or just plain crazy, as though we have notv a mind of our own. They can not comprehend we are smart intelligent ladies and will act it when we feel something isn't right.

Anyway, I came across your message...just really messing around tonight. I never go to the forums and read anything. But, did tonight. I am fixing to hide my profile again, for I am as disappointed as you. I wish you the best of luck in the future. Although it would have been nice to find that someone for New Year's Eve.

Sincerely,
Victoria
 joghurta
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 11/24/2011 1:29:47 PM
What the f* r u complaining about?
Its women like you who make the dating game so frustrating for honest, straightforward men (like myself).
Your kind *insists* on hooking up with "damaged goods", because you have some big sister/little mamma repair complex, where you think you just have to "fix that guy".
In exchange for the most silly lies about "knights in shining armor" and "catching you the moon" your kind hooks up with petty criminals, physical abusers, scammers and often outright felons - giving truth over and over again to the age old saying of "nice guys finish last in the dating game".

Your kind can't find an "honest man" in here, because you are not looking fo r"honesty".
You are insisting on honey sweet talk 24/7, in combination with the most outrageous of promises and take *any* straightforward answer to a question as a personal insult.
Like the proverbial overweight girlfriend asking him "does that make me look fat?"

I have also been on PoF for quite some time and have yet to find ONE woman who appreciates honesty, because you are *all* just looking for entertainment and sugary prose.

There's a reason why so many men end up on Russian dating sites these days.
At least "those women" don't mind an honest man actually talking the straight talk that he walks.
 abeautifullsoul
Joined: 10/20/2008
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Posted: 11/25/2011 4:23:44 AM
@ Joghurta : My complaints are valid and are about men who lie cheat and steal their way thru life thru these kinds of websites . I am not looking for a Knight in shining armor . But I do seek a man who is not running back to the PC to find his next piece of ass after we're thru with our date / evening . I seek a man who doesn't want a harum of women on his profile and in his message boxes to stroke his deflating ego . I seek an honest man who is devoted only to ME . I don't insist on anything but loyalty , and above all a Godly man , with sincerity about himself . I would never ask a man if something makes me look fat lol I am cute and adorable and don't need flattery at all , I bring to the table to any man , honesty , loyalty , devotion and unconditional love but men on these sites see that posted and they think " ohhh my next prey , the next women I will f**k over and take what I can " woohooooo .... go me go me , I'm about to get a new table saw or a few payments on my truck made , or my autistic daughter will get new clothes , or my mortgage just got cut in half coz I am gonna tell her about my failing health right after I tell her I need her in my life that she is my sun and moon rising and I love her ... yeah she will believe me coz she is trusting and unconditional uhhuhh yeah here we go ....thats exactly what these sites are about ... men sitting here talking to women who not only may be the support for thier lazy butts but are taking advantage of them by using them for monetary values and breaking thier hearts because some of us actually show these morons compassion because we TRUST they are honest . Bottom line is that this site as well as many others are places men come to get women to fall for a line of bullshit , and use abuse and discard them when the women catch on ....and women do this too to men on these sites , but in my case my rant is about men I have met here .

If you find a man to chat with on this site as well as many other sites , thier fantasy is to not be responsible and just keep sitting on a site and either busting a nut thru type or cam and not ever wanting to really have a meet with MY KIND .

Why can't a man just be straightforward enough to say : Hello Ladies , I am an abuser of the human kindness you will show me , I will give you what you need to fall in love with me , then when I know you're at your most vulnerable head over heels in love with me because I have lied and cheated to get you here , I will then break your bank / wallet with assinine bs stories about some tragedy in my life that I need help with , and then if thats not enough I will then start to insult you and your life , your body type and tear you to shreds mentally , becuase I am just the KIND of man that you need in your life .I will tell you I am dying of liver failure or some other drastic measure to get your sympathy and money too , because my meds are extremely high and my broke butt cannot find work and my check each month is not enough , so I'll need three or four women who can help me . But I won't tell you there are , but when time comes that you begin to question me I will tell you I have to go back to my ex and just settle for her because afterall she has more money than you most likely because you have not bought me one piece of furniture or paid a car note in over a month for me . Or I will move into your home , defile it with trash and leave my dog behind because she is to much for me to handle but someday I will come get her because she is a tool I use to get women , she is my trophy pet nothing more , I will steal your belongings while I am there to give to my next woman , and when you are not looking I will be in the bathroom on my cell phone texting my next victum , or on the pc while you're working chatting up women , and when you are mowing the yard I will be sitting on the porch reading the newest magazine out about what a woman wants and needs , and to top that off I will ask you to marry me and plan a big wedding but then go back to my ex wife because its easier to live with and settle with an old shoe than try and be what it is that I told you I was . I just want to be honest and straightfoward , and not get your hopes up that I am anything less than truly a slimeball piece of crap that will use you ... interested ? hit me up !!

Thats the kind of ad that should be used here !

Sincerely
 joghurta
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 11/25/2011 12:27:21 PM
abeautifullsoul,

The number of honest, hard working men on PoF (or most other dating sites for that matter) are legion.
But (most) women do *not* want hhwm, as they find them booooooring.
Women want romance, excitement and adventure - and that 24/7/364.

Since that is of course utterly unrealistic, only a professional con-man can offer that.
Man are (usually) realistic enough to know that Barby Doll keeps your juices flowing for one night, maybe two.
But no man in his right mind would try to hook up with a "blond bimbo" for any longer stretch of time.

Women on the other hand actually want to marry their knight in shinning armor.
They do expect for Robin Hood to come and rescue them from a live of boredom and mediocracy.

And then they get terribly upset if Robin the Hood turns out to be just an ordinary highway robber.

Dear "beautifullsoul", I have seen it with my own eyes how a dear friend of mine allowed herself to be taken advantage of, by just such a flim flam expert.
A guy who couldn't get off his butt to look for (honest) work if you'd set the comfy chair on fire in which he was sitting all day long.

He even told her that "the best thing a guy can do is look for a woman who thinks of herself as being ugly, has low self esteem and once he convinced her that he loves her, he's set for life and can have his way with her ..."

And as usual, whenever I pointed out his numerous failings to her, the response was "but I can help him fix that ...."

!!! Whatever partner we choose in life, we deserve ... its that simple !!!

So stop complaining and start choosing your men by more realistic standards, PERIOD
 abeautifullsoul
Joined: 10/20/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/25/2011 3:22:15 PM
Well I am among those women who are not " most " I want my Man to work , I want Him to be a good soul and of high standards for Himself , not what others decide He is .

Last year I was to marry a POF member , we met in Jan , He asked me in May to marry Him , we set the date for Sept , He moved into my home to save some money in June , He worked at the prison here in Texas as a guard , drove a nice truck , a dually , wore nice decent clothes , had his own teeth , smelled great when we went out and when he first moved in . The very week he moved in he quit his job , and turned the TV onto Jerry Springer , didn't budge off the recliner that I wanted to sit in the yard and burn up unless he was getting on his pc or his cell phone to speak to his wife or other women . The truck he was driving was his sisters and because he was out of work , she decided , not him and I , but she decided for us that we would not get married , even tho everything was arranged paid for and such ( thank God she did tho ) and so when I asked him to bathe after 19 days of not having a shower or cleaning himself up , we ended up having to have called the law out here to remove him from my home ....that was in October . I too thought things would go back to the way they were at first , but they only got worse . While I was at work he was playing up on the pc , 24/7 even .
( Reggie )

The next POF member was a man who drove all the way down to Texas from Wisconsin , I thought wow , this one really wants to be with me .... when he came he had his own money and a place to live nearby , but he didn't tell me his wife had just died and he took her money out of the bank and moved away from her family and was hiding out , nor did he tell me he had a addiction to porn and for scores of women , I even allowed him to rent a room from me before I knew all the bad stuff would happen , he ended up sleeping with another member here and while my mother was dying in the hospital he was sleeping around all the while telling me I was his last woman , his soul mate , the lvoe of his life . ( Michael )

The 3rd POF member stood me up 2 times , my driving to meet him each time and his not showing up just saved me further heartache ...( Ronnie )

The last POF member was one who touched my heart thru his child , an autistic young girl who needed a mother . He had me from the moment he started talking about how much he loved her and cared for her and needed someone who understood . I fell for it hook line and sinker . He told me he was dying and just needed to know there was one someone out there who was caring and compassionate ....well he turned out to be the worst man I have yet to meet anywhere ever , he was judgemental , a drama king , pot growing dope smoking , lying , cheating , thief who took me for over 2800.00 before I woke up to him ....to top that off he then tells me he has Hep C but I am safe to be with , he is diabetic and terminally ill . ( David )

I didn't go looking for these men to betray me , to come off as knights in shining armor , they came to me , I don't message men first unless I know then in real life or have already spoken to them . I don't need a Robin Hood .

How more realistic can it be to want honesty from one man ?

How funny it is that you've been here on this site and have not found a woman yet , it must be that charisma of yours ? That charm you've displayed by being insensitive and unrealistic in thinking " most " women here are liars and don't know how to pick men ... ironic huh
 abeautifullsoul
Joined: 10/20/2008
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/25/2011 3:26:10 PM
joghurta : You say " I have also been on PoF for quite some time and have yet to find ONE woman who appreciates honesty, because you are *all* just looking for entertainment and sugary prose. "

But you're a newbie , I checked the date of when you joined :)
 joghurta
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 11/25/2011 10:13:33 PM
To "abeautifullsoul",

I have been on PoF for almost 3 years, but didn't log on for an extended period during 2011, so my (old) account got closed du to my extended absence.
In any case, your reaction only confirms my initial statements - women like you date irrationally and then get (very) upset if they end up with one jerk after another.
Simply stop bringing home "broken goods" and you won't have so much trash piling up at home.
 joghurta
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 11/25/2011 10:27:45 PM

abeautifullsoul:
Last year I was to marry a POF member , we met in Jan , He asked me in May to marry Him , we set the date for Sept , He moved into my home to save some money in June , He worked at the prison here in Texas as a guard , drove a nice truck , a dually , wore nice decent clothes , had his own teeth , smelled great when we went out and when he first moved in . The very week he moved in he quit his job , and turned the TV onto Jerry Springer , didn't budge off the recliner that I wanted to sit in the yard and burn up unless he was getting on his pc or his cell phone to speak to his wife or other women ...


I'm not even going to get any further into your list of absolutely IDIOTIC moves (mind you that I didn't call you an idiot, but you surely weren't acting to smart up there).
You say you were doing & enduring all these things in preparation to get married to a guy who quit his job the very day he moved into your home, and then ended up spending most of his time CALLING HIS WIFE on *your* phone???

You could count the number of men willing to have a woman live on their paycheck while she's still married to somebody else on the fingers of one hand, while the number of women ready to put up with such crap grows beyond counting.
I could never understand what goes on in a female's brain that they go rabbit if he has an affair while they are together, but is willing to tolerate "the other woman" as long as he brings her into the relationship from the get go.

I told women over and over again "that only signals to a man that you are easy to manipulate", but they *never*, ever listen ... go figure.

You should have put him back out onto the street the moment he quit his job, but instead you went on repeating the same errors over and over again and then you come in here and blame it on PoF ... go figure.

"Pot growers", "men on the run from their family" ... your story line reads like a bad Hollywood novel about a woman who is an abuser magnet, through the bad choices that she insists to make in her life.

And yes, its because women like you insist on being told "sensitive lies", rather then the (unpleasant) truth, that your kind ends up with one snake oil salesman after another, while honest straight shooters like myself stay single.

So you go on an being an abuser magnet, while I go on living an honest life by myself.
 abeautifullsoul
Joined: 10/20/2008
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/26/2011 7:23:35 AM
I didn't log onto POF for almost 18 months and yet my account was in tact and not deleted ...hmmmm... You must have been a bad boy to get your acct deleted :)

BTW your opinions have been duly noted , and even tho I don't agree with them , thanks for making them known .

Those posts you sent here , further show that " some " men believe its all OUR fault and deserve what we get .... those are the men we should run too huh... thanks for the heads up !
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
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Posted: 11/26/2011 11:22:56 AM
Op- take a deep breath.

Sit down. Get comfy.

I want you to read, very slowly Joghurta' s
posts again.

I don't want you to do it with malice. I want you
to be calm and first, I want you to read your
original post.

Then his responses. Very slowly. A couple of
times over.

I want you to read this like you are an outsider.

He has given you excellent advice.

He has touched on everything from you having no
boundries with this man- allowing him to quit his
job and use you, to pointing out your excuses to
why you kept this going and now you are hurt.

You have a great opportunity here to learn something
about your behaviors and this poster was actually
kind enough to spell it out for you.

Instead of being defensive- learn something here.
 ala2010
Joined: 4/21/2010
Msg: 12
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Posted: 11/27/2011 2:52:45 PM
Most of women on here are FAKE..............
 joghurta
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 11/27/2011 6:21:17 PM

abeautifullsoul :
Those posts you sent here , further show that " some " men believe its all OUR fault and deserve what we get .... those are the men we should run too huh... thanks for the heads up !

Well, I wasn't a "bad boy", I just used and e-mail address to register the old account that is no longer active.
So I recon when they found that they couldn't contact me under, after my prolonger inactivity, that old e-mail they discarded my account.

Whatever the reason, fact is that by your own words you had these things happening to you times in a row (and each time worse then the one before).

So simply logic dictates that either all men are just out to get you, or you are setting up all kinds of flags that attract men of a certain (abusive) mindset to you.

And please explain to use once more why you would decide to keep up a relation with a man hiding from his own family, give money to someone you just met on PoF and/or allow someone to stay under your roof whose first act in your home is to quit his job and then to settle down on your couch for good?

If you can't agree that those are no smart moves to begin with, then you are one of those women who always go out on a limb, run the extra 1000 miles and make all kinds up upfront investments in "broken goods", because they insist "if he (emotionally) owes me, then he just has to repay me in kind (by being kind to me)".

Those are usually women who are highly insecure of themselves, have made early childhood experiences of abandonment and never developed the kind of healthy trust that normally exist between people.
So they must always ensure themselves of another person's loyalty by making (huge) "upfront investments" , expecting that they the other guy is morally indebted to them as a consequence.

And then they get utterly disappointed and often rabidly mad if they find out that the only kind of people they attract with that are exploiters.
But to give it to you straight, normal men find such "emotional overload" rather creepy, because the last thing a real man would want from a woman he just met would be for her to start plundering her life savings to start "buying him stuff".

A real man buys his toys with his own money, that kind of independence is what makes a man a man.
 shinebrightforever
Joined: 11/21/2011
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/28/2011 7:00:20 PM
that man needs to shut up with his rude comments and keep his opinions to himself.
your probably single because of this and have a hard time finding a woman.
 joghurta
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 11/28/2011 7:44:03 PM


shinebright345:
Message: that man needs to shut up with his rude comments and keep his opinions to himself.
your probably single because of this and have a hard time finding a woman

One of the advantages of being a real man is that no juvenile iron maiden, still immature enough to being comfortably seated atop daddy's tuition account, gets to tell me when to "shut up".

Maybe you should do some growing up first, before dropping in to what most definitely is a very adult conversation.

The very idea that someone as inexperienced in life as you are, runs around telling grown ups to "keep their opinions to themselves" renders credence to many of the negative stereotypes people have about today's teenage generation.
 chasyates
Joined: 10/9/2011
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Posted: 12/5/2011 2:11:51 AM
Well said Joghurta

Just out the womb and she thinks she knows everything.

I visited the states last year for 8 weeks and boy, do a lot of your women need a reality check.

Just thought I would add my 2 pence worth.


Chas
 KittyCuriousity
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 17
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Posted: 12/11/2011 11:58:15 PM
It would be nice if there was a way to warn others about the men (or women) who do that. There have to be good ones out there, but it is unfortunate that we meet so many who are better liars than anything else. I dated a man on here, married him, then learned that he was still dating women on here. We now have two kids and are in the middle of a nasty fight. I know of at least four women he dated and got to buy him things. It is horrible and I feel totally betrayed and bad for the women he used. At the same time, I have to wonder why a woman would not be worried about dating a man who would not have her over to his house ever, who would not even go on dates in the are he lives in. Hard to look for the red flags when what we want is the real thing. What is worse is that he keeps coming home and saying he is not dating and only wants to be with his family. Does that mean he has intent to lie and to cheat these women out of money? I dont know...
 joghurta
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 12/12/2011 10:52:05 PM


AmyVonE:
...There have to be good ones out there, but it is unfortunate that we meet so many who are better liars than anything else. I dated a man on here, married him, then learned that he was still dating women on here. We now have two kids and are in the middle of a nasty fight. I know of at least four women he dated and got to buy him things. It is horrible and I feel totally betrayed and bad for the women he used.

How about you stop getting pregnant by a man you know has countless mistresses running on the side?!
Or for that matter, HOW ABOUT GETTING A DIVORCE?!

Contrary to feminin myth, we are *not* in the middle east here.
Contraception is (still) legal (at least unless the f*ed up NeoCon Republitards outlaw it), and so is divorce (once again, until some family values hypocrite passes a law against that one, too).

The "good" men out there are legion, its just that women like you never, EVER date them.
You go for the slime ball Don Juans, because they are so much more exciting.

News Flash: Good men are boring by design, exactly for the reasons that do make them boring.
And the exciting ones are bad boys by design, exactly for the reasons that make them exciting.
So stop complaining and make up your mind for once!
 joghurta
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 12/12/2011 10:58:48 PM


chasyates:
I visited the states last year for 8 weeks and boy, do a lot of your women need a reality check.
Just thought I would add my 2 pence worth.

Sadly enough you are right.
Both American men and women's relationship instincts have been crippled by centuries of religious brainwashing, instilling completely unrealistic expectations of familly bliss and perfect "little house on the prairy" happiness scenarios.
And if its not perfect than both sides overreact completely - because everything short of what Jesus would have wanted must be a mortal sin ...

That stupid tradition of the American bachelor party is a perfect example how this religious straight jacket has led to bottled up emotions, which in turn result in complete hysteria on all sides.

I for one never understood why a grown up man is not supposed to live out his sexual desires honestly, and instead has to hide away in a hotel room with his buddies, the night before getting married, for that :-O
 Sabetha
Joined: 2/28/2012
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Both American men and women's relationship instincts have been crippled by centuries of religious brainwashing, instilling completely unrealistic expectations of familly bliss and perfect "little house on the prairy" happiness scenarios.
And if its not perfect than both sides overreact completely - because everything short of what Jesus would have wanted must be a mortal sin ...

That stupid tradition of the American bachelor party is a perfect example how this religious straight jacket has led to bottled up emotions, which in turn result in complete hysteria on all sides.

I for one never understood why a grown up man is not supposed to live out his sexual desires honestly, and instead has to hide away in a hotel room with his buddies, the night before getting married, for that :-O

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for one thing, GOOD MEN don't cheat on their Bachelor Party night... only sorry ones do.

For another, heaven forbid we expect respect, hard work, and a happy home. What's so wrong with that?

You are seriously grouping a diverse culture into whatever bad experience you had and that is totally unfair. There is such a thing as monogamy, and there is nothing wrong with striving for that.

PS
women have parties too... duh. we go to strip clubs, get drunk, and have a good time with our girlfriends.. it's a formality, not necessarily 'one last chance'

PPS... a lot of people get married at hte justice of peace for 10 dollars because they don't have much else between them, and they don't give a dern about the money or whatever
 wa_le_lu
Joined: 9/14/2011
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Posted: 4/3/2012 4:44:32 AM
Wow!!! First off, I am very sorry your heart over ruled your head/signs of this jerk abeautiful disaster. Unfortunately, there are MANY men out there like this. Then you have the ones like this guy dog you out because YOU do have a heart and he is saying he is one of the good guys??? You are right, who would run to that one So sorry, but don't give up, the true man for YOU and only YOU, is out there. Internet dating I believe shows the true colors of a person if you do this long enough and these are the ones you want to rule out. I went out with a guy and we had a great time, then all of sudden he flipped. He told me that he makes things up to tell girls and laughed because they actually believed it. He also made the comment about Russian women I later read his profile and he had changed it and said American women didn't have a heart and didn't understand that he was Autistic, and he got judged for this and his left leg was shorter than the other I sent him another message and told him he was a jerk and liar and that he should go get him a Russian woman/women if he so desired, and get off pof. These men that say they understand why Russian women are wanted, are liars too and they can't get them either so they do what this guy does, who claims to be ONE OF THE GOOD GUYS, and be bitter and clearly voices it I don't know about you, but I would not want to spend the rest of my life with someone this bitter I hope you find what you deserve abeautiful disaster....keep looking, it will happen
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
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Posted: 4/9/2012 11:55:07 AM
Actually, and I've noticed this problem more and more often (even with my own sister) is a problem with boundaries............
Why do women date men...and want to give them the world? No, REALLY, why? Why after 3-4 weeks are you absolutely, positively, 100% money back guaranteed beyond a shadown of a doubt that this guy you BARELY know deserve you taking money out of your pockets to provide for him? Really, why? And, its not just you, OP who is now gone, its a general situation. It happens with women as with men, but with women it seems to be more often because of what I call the "sacrifice" syndrome. She'd be willing to take any hit for her man, just like in the Twilight Saga....
Do any of you ladies know that so VERY few men in the ENTIRE world are deserving of such devotion? Do you? I think THAT'S where the problems lie. I also think its a problem men dont have, because most of the time, they simply dont care as much. Whereas women do, and that's their undoing; they have no discernement. And its something that can be worked on, and SHOULD be worked on. Like my daddy always said, trust isnt a gift to bestow; trust is EARNED.
Really, who in their right minds would accept to give out so much money to strangers? Answer; people with big hearts and small heads. I should know, I was caught more than once myself.......

Anyways, less trust, more thinking, and MORE listenning to people around you. You know, the ones who warned you but you ignored thinking you knew what you were doing? Those people.
 wa_le_lu
Joined: 9/14/2011
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Well said Capn America! Agreed.
 ImThatGuy4You1980
Joined: 10/21/2012
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Posted: 11/29/2012 10:37:02 PM
**** yeah! 95% of the women on here are fake!! A friend of mine once told me, he knew someone who started a dating site, and what they do is, they take random pics of females from all over the internet, post them on the dating site with fake profiles, only to lure men onto them, in hopes of finding "the one".
 alan_50501
Joined: 11/22/2012
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Posted: 12/29/2012 4:18:22 AM
This site is the biggest joke I have ever seen and also fake....Been on here close to 9 years just did make this account not long ago after taking yet another break...All people seem to do is view your profile day after day week after week its allways the same ones...They wont message you and if you message them they dont reply but boy they sure do like checking out your profile....SITE IS FULL OF STALKERS
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