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 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
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Oh Rec hunny...trust me when I tell you that in the long run we have all "paid" for sex....think they call it marriage!

OT: I have heard this is a way to "break yourself in" so to speak...but can't offer advice on the how to...so I will look as well to see what others post. Good luck kid!
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 1/25/2012 4:23:56 PM

I have never paid for sex directly.

The ex's father told him the engagement ring was just a downpayment.
 MisterRiiight
Joined: 8/3/2011
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Posted: 1/25/2012 4:32:01 PM
Come up to Canada. It's legal to have an escort come to your hotel room.
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
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Posted: 1/25/2012 4:34:25 PM

2 is that why not screw a fatty? They've got the same needs we do and they're more desperate, they'd go for you for sure as long as you've got a working penis. Once you get the lights off it's an even playing field. Well, to some extent. Message chicks on this site with no pic and watch your success rates fly. Just agree to meet them in dimly lit locations preferrably your own house and bedroom and let them do most of the work. Odds are you're they only guy they've slept in the past few years, so you won't catch anything.


good tips, actually. rumor is that he vagina of an overweight or less-than-beautiful/stellar woman will work just as well to get a guy off-she may get just as wet, be just as slippery & feel just as heavenly.. if you can ignore the rest, keep the lights low the actual pvssy is likely to be just as nice as any other.

and MAY actually be better in bed than the "hottie" .. you never know, beauty does not equate to a person being a great lover/good in bed/at sex.

IME sex the first time with a new person is often not the best but gets better & better over time as you get to know each other, wants & needs ..so your first/only time with a hooker may not be nearly as good as it would be if you could "settle" for an 'average/fatter girl and have a REAL g/f..

pretty/hot body does not necessarily mean good sex/good lover. esp. if she is doing it only for $ not b/c she likes you.
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
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Posted: 1/25/2012 4:41:08 PM
^^ OP dude your attitude is quit defeatist & negative.

IME sex the first time with a new person is often not the best but gets better & better over time as you get to know each other, wants & needs ..so your first/only time with a hooker may not be nearly as good as it would be if you could "settle" for an 'average/fatter girl and have a REAL g/f..

pretty/hot body does not necessarily mean good sex/good lover. esp. if she is doing it only for $ not b/c she likes you.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 1/26/2012 10:02:22 AM
Some of the comments about obese women in this thread show how very "shallow" some of the human race can really be.

OP: As with some of the others, I think you really do have to try and bolster your self esteem.
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
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Posted: 1/26/2012 12:03:39 PM

Pay for a much hotter girl who is an escort but don't expect a girlfriend type experience and just enjoy her physical assets and honed skills, stay realistic about it and avoid letdown afterwards.


OP seems to believe most higher - $ cost escorts are 'smoking hot"-- from a review of some escort websites it appears many are sort of ..Average. (the pics are likely made up to the max with heavy make-up, lighting & maybe even photo-shop to look "better" ).

if a chick was THAT 'awesome', gorgeous, beautiful, smoking she could likely do something a little better (pay- & esteem -wise) than 'escort . e.g. model, acting, etc.
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
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Posted: 1/26/2012 1:13:16 PM
^^

Quality will be directly proportional to money spent, young lad.
If you can afford $1500-2000 per hour, you shall be able to get a "hot" girl


depend son one's definition of 'hot ' I suppose, these are not objective but rather subjective

Former NY state Gov. Eliot Spitzer paid Ashley Dupre US $4,300 in cash on Feb. 13, 2008

pics of Ashely Dupre: NOT that hot IMO, not $4,300 worth .lol

http://blog.nj.com/ledgerupdates_impact/2008/03/large_DUPRE4x.jpg

http://news.xinhuanet.com/english/2008-03/13/xin_5620305131632843978012.jpg

http://photos.lucywho.com/ashley-dupre-photo-gallery-c10213462.html
http://photos.lucywho.com/ashley-dupre-photo-gallery-c10213463.html
http://photos.lucywho.com/ashley-dupre-photo-gallery-c10220854.html


about a 6 or 7, 'club type girl' IMO

oh yes, besides the $4,300 it cost him his job as Governor, his self-respect ..likely made the relationship with his wife pretty tough -and a mockery of his former stance as 'get-tough on crime' Attorney General of NY State.
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
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Posted: 1/26/2012 1:51:30 PM
^^

true, Tiger's taste in women runs to the skanky it would appear, IMO

you forgot one of the most famous, former Pres. Bill Clinton & Monica Lewinsky.

as POTUS a guy couldn't score something more attractive than that?? (plus she seemed very loud-mouthed & rather whiny)

VVVV



And to the woman that says this is a self-pity thread, I think you just got offended that you're exactly the type of woman I'd rather go without sex for the rest of my life.


how can you make a valid decision that you'd rather go with it, if you've never experienced it, as you say? you can't know how good it can be..?
you don't "know" that it would be "better" with a 'hot' woman vs. an average one, but have convinced your self of that notion?

VVVV
 Mozzily
Joined: 11/29/2011
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Posted: 1/26/2012 2:02:43 PM
My advice is to get a plane ticket to Las Vegas and go to the moonlight bunny ranch. There are some serious hotties there.
 Mozzily
Joined: 11/29/2011
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Posted: 1/26/2012 2:21:55 PM
if your persistant then you can f*ck your idea of a hottie, it takes effort.
 OOhMeeOhhMy
Joined: 9/17/2007
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Posted: 1/26/2012 9:22:00 PM
wow.... love it...

as a fatty... I have rarely had a problem dating.... and I don't put out until I KNOW I am in a committed relationship..... I am glad that not all men define beauty the same way..... as you should be glad that not all women define handsome in the same way.... I have dated men that were amazing looking... who I couldn't stop staring at... and they were good guys..... and I have dated men who I wouldn't have considered handsome.... but they became gorgeous as time went on because of how awesome they were...

change the attitude about who you THINK you deserve and start looking for who you really do deserve....


second though.... try 1-800-hot-slut and give it a shot.... then go get a shot of antibiotics....
 OOhMeeOhhMy
Joined: 9/17/2007
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Posted: 1/26/2012 9:39:04 PM
savvy.... I have always been pretty lucky when it comes to getting men to wait... I have this thing about having to meet at least 3 people in their life too.. and have to have been invited to their home..... mind you most of this comes from life lessons in my 20's.... I am forthright in my dating.... and let men know from the start where I stand....
 OOhMeeOhhMy
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Posted: 1/26/2012 9:58:10 PM
wow.... you need help.... your self esteem is so low that you judge yourself based on who you can get.... and how those around you appear to others... which when you aren't $hit.... you won't get $hit.... not everyone judges people the same way..... when you learn to look at people for who they are... and how they treat people.... you will find the real beauty in people....

good luck getting laid.... because once you open your mouth..... they will see you for what you are... what a class act...
 interintwined
Joined: 1/20/2012
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Posted: 1/27/2012 12:35:33 AM
Don't do it! You can get a hot girl who actually is super turned on by who u are for free. Plus. The cost will not equal the worth
 interintwined
Joined: 1/20/2012
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Posted: 1/27/2012 12:41:59 AM
I'm glad you said this because you got this so twisted super hot girls don't want to be fudge toys super hot girls are tired of being always hit on sexually and be viewed as meat super hot girls do not want casual with any type they don't want casual at all they are the most people who want to be liked besides their looks hello? And I'm sorry actually an obese girl would probably be the best bed partner you had you should practice with one gain some confidence and then progress to super hot girl but the second she sniffs that u weren't her for sex well then that's when u can start talking escorts just remember no cure to HIV
 StephB420
Joined: 11/24/2011
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Posted: 1/28/2012 5:23:08 PM
hot broads find confidence sexier then a 6 pack. your a virgin cuz ur a downer bud.... pretty sure a lot of girls like tall guys and being 5 foot 5 have slept with plenty of models... confidence is key.... save the hooker for when you're married and bored ;)
 part deux
Joined: 11/11/2008
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Posted: 1/28/2012 7:43:14 PM
Seriously, you are handsome! I think you should spend your money on some type of dale carnegie course and learn how to speak to women. Maybe you are undiagnosed Aspergers?
 dwayne88
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 1/28/2012 7:52:03 PM
I've read a couple of pages, and it was enough.

To the OP, do you seriously need a hot girl for the first time?

I am a virgin, but I do not expect the first girl to be hot. Or any of them as a matter of fact.

I know that the only way I could ever get a hot one would be that way. But that is because I am very, very ugly. You look like a normal dude that could get plenty of girls.

I think the OP has very high expectations.

Waaaaay to high, and that is why he is a virgin.

I'd take most that weren't really huge.

Also, no drunk skanks.

Being drunk is an instant turn off.
 dwayne88
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 1/28/2012 8:03:51 PM

dwayne, when you dated, even for a brief period of time, a hot girl that more importantly was exactly your type, and were in bed with her/fooled around with her a few times, and were THAT close to going all the way with her, and the reason you didn't is because you were needy/clingy due to inexperience and scared her off, it's hard to "settle" or date down at all.


And your on this forum talking about getting and escort?

My God dude!

If you can get a hot girl into bed without drugs or drinking, then you shouldn't have much of a problem.;

I have never gottin a woman to hold my hand, much less had a hot one in my bed.

I have no sympathy for you at all dude.

And you deserve none.
 dwayne88
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Posted: 1/29/2012 7:18:21 AM
To the OP.

You may want a hot escort. But what happens after that?

If you do that. Are you gonna make another thread about how you can't find a hot girl to date, because you can't lower your dating standards since you started off so high?



You should simply be happy with what you can get.

I know I would.

You could work your way up too.

Start off with a less than attractive girl. Build some confidence, and make yourself appealing to a girl a little better looking than the previous one. Then go from there.
 Rain4Eva
Joined: 4/3/2006
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Posted: 1/29/2012 8:41:45 PM
I could not read every page, I read the first 2, and the last. (whining).

merchant, I really want to believe you are a troll....I really do. You can be whatever dude, if you can make conversation/not be a creeper, then women will know. I'm not the best looking dude (I lie, I'm awesome). You need to grow a pair and stop putting the "p***y" on a pedestal (40 year old virgin quote, lol lol).

Seriously you should think of yourself worse if you actually get an escort.... That's horrible, and pathetic. Maybe go to different places to see women who will fit your criteria? If you strike out every time, it's not them....but you buddy.

People shouldn't change themselves, but people need to adapt to keep on living, I think it's time for you man.

~Anthony.
 Rain4Eva
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Posted: 1/29/2012 9:05:06 PM
I just read everything else you had wrote. Dude Imho you need help. There is a learning curve, and you don't know anything. You want a woman that appeals to you, like you're the best thing since sliced bread..... Yet you can't actually prove you have anything for them...

Wow.... You're a virgin at that, and want to sleep with (insert hottest actress/model name). Dude maybe you could get "someone" if you weren't so pathetic lol.....I'm not trying to be mean but, jeeeeezzzzzzzz....

yea, I'm almost 99.8% positive you cannot be helped. Have a great life man. By the way Women telling you they don't want to talk to you is almost 95% indicative that you have ZERO game.

~Anthony.
 Rain4Eva
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Posted: 1/29/2012 9:55:20 PM
What??? I didn't even attack you dude....let alone do I want to be a rapper, or "wanna be". I really wanted to only write how you show yourself. You really do need to check yourself, and see someone to help you on your way.

Please keep messaging If you DO NOT see anything wrong with what you "were" planning on doing, that's....ok I guess. I'm glad you're not feeling "that" desperate and can wait, that's good man. lol....Just try and you will see. Be yourself and have fun man.

~Anthony.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 2/16/2012 3:40:43 AM
" Come up to Canada. It's legal to have an escort come to your hotel room."

Since I'm about a 3 hour drive from the border...damn that exchange rate!
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