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 willrr08
Joined: 12/7/2011
Msg: 1
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?Page 1 of 4    (1, 2, 3, 4)
Like the title says, do you like a person you can dominate or do you prefer to be the one being dominated?
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
Msg: 2
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 11:17:28 AM
How about just plain normal and loving.
 WinterIsComing80
Joined: 11/21/2011
Msg: 3
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 11:21:34 AM
I'd prefer someone open to role reversal every once in a while to keep things from getting old. Closed-minded = fail.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 2/7/2012 11:28:55 AM
Equality in everything.....your turn, my turn, our turn.....your dominance, my dominance, ours together....on and on.

Some times one makes love and other times one just enjoys the raw sex of it all, and other times one enjoys getting all that the other is willing to give in every way possible, and then another time you give the same way.............

cd.........
 ComplekCity
Joined: 1/17/2011
Msg: 5
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 11:33:27 AM
Being dominant does absolutely nothing for me - but I'd do it if asked.

On the other hand, having a woman wearing the black boots and acting like a dominating bitch , etc is a lot of fun !

 Della D
Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 6
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 11:35:19 AM
I'm completely with c deacon on that one, variety is the spice of the sex life also!
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 12:27:15 PM

How about just plain normal and loving.

So having someone who is dominant in the bedroom means they are capable of being loving? There is no normal... or rather, your idea of what is normal doesn't mean it's everyone else's.

I prefer my partner to be able to provide me with what I need... and what I need will change from day to day, sometimes moment to moment.
 funinsun32
Joined: 9/1/2011
Msg: 8
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 12:42:43 PM
On the whole I'd rather have someone dominating BUT have to agree that variety is essential. I'm sure any man would like for the woman to initiate or take charge once in awhile.
 SecretSub
Joined: 11/10/2011
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Posted: 2/7/2012 1:13:10 PM
The FANTASY is that they're dominate.

The REALITY is that I am.

Life is funny that way. ;)
 musical_turtle
Joined: 3/11/2011
Msg: 10
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 3:10:10 PM
I like when a guy takes control.I prefer to be dominated...in the bedroom =)
 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 11
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 3:10:48 PM
Neither. I like equality in bed. Each of us enjoying giving and receiving. I can't stand being dominated, nor can I stand the guy being submissive. Neither dominating nor being submissive does anything for me. Any guy who tries to dominate me, and any guy who wants me to dominate him - well, leaves me totally uninterested.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 3:13:31 PM
can one choose both???,love sub females, but it is really nice to role play
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 13
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 3:27:17 PM
Depends on the day. I tend to be the one who runs the show, but I also like to have someone else run it sometimes. I vote for someone who's versatile and open minded.
 veevee
Joined: 2/14/2006
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Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 3:40:33 PM
Why not trade roles. I can't respect a man that I can dominate all the time and one that tries to dominate me constantly is going to feel too pushy. Imagine that - pooridge that isn't too hot or cold, the hardest to find but there could be a 1/3 chance if fairytales are to be believed.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 4:02:46 PM
Sometimes a submissive partner is fun,but I prefer us both to be equals in the sack,both giving and taking our pleasure at the same time.
 smokincigars
Joined: 3/25/2010
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Posted: 2/7/2012 6:04:10 PM
I'll admit occasionally that I prefer to be dominant in the bedroom -- but only in a playful way, where both of us understand that it is just a game. And if she wants to turn the tables occasionally, I like that too.
 redhead00507
Joined: 12/27/2011
Msg: 17
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 6:25:12 PM
Just like most on here I'd have to say a little bit of both. Sometimes I can be feisty and want to just take control and other times it's a real turn on for him to tell me what to do and what he wants. And if we're both in a dominating mood..sometimes that's what makes for the best steamy hot sex...just saying!
 BMB81
Joined: 1/2/2012
Msg: 18
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 7:05:55 PM
Depends on my mood. I like to be dominated at first, then be dominant as the night progresses. Switch up when he gets tired sort of thing.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 19
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/8/2012 2:37:17 AM
I need a woman with affirm hand or sturdy hair brush...
 apurfectmeow
Joined: 11/19/2011
Msg: 20
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/8/2012 2:47:04 AM
^ in that case..... meow!

I like being dom in the bedroom, but prefer a man to be a man in public.
It depends on the man and if Im in love. I can submit to love when I have feelings.
 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 21
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/8/2012 3:08:11 AM
Are you wanting to hear about spearing men in the back on tile floors with spike heels or just taking a poll?

I think both sexes like to be thrown down and do the throwing down at least occasionally.

Thread search and you can find a lot on this subject going back years.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 22
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/8/2012 10:26:04 AM
I like a man who is dominating
 Goldentyga117
Joined: 6/25/2011
Msg: 23
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/8/2012 4:51:33 PM
I'm usually dominant and love taking control...but i also really enjoy it when the other person reverses the roles...hawttt
 CarKam1
Joined: 9/10/2011
Msg: 24
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/9/2012 10:14:49 AM
I prefer to be dominated but I have been known to take the wheel. I think it's hot when a man knows what he wants and just lets loose, those head spinners make for an incredible smoke afterwards ;)
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 25
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/9/2012 11:19:54 AM
I am dominate, but I am not into any lifestyle. I want variety and to be surprised sometimes. And I take requests, so I would say 70/30.

I don't want to own a slave, and I don't like to have to play Conan the Barbarian every time we have sex, and like a women that can think for herself and come up with her own ideas. Out of the bedroom she can be an independent as she wants, but it's never a good idea to give me orders, I am easy to lead but difficult to push.
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