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i have relationship issues ok. Im surrounded by women and 1 women said i cant talk to girls and that she sees me as a friend not a bf. i talk to girls all the time but i dont get into relationships maybe thats why she said that
I have a male friend who suffers with this - his problem, and I suspect yours, is that he approaches girls as a friend, in a friendly manner.
He's the nicest man in the world but he's got zero game ! He'll chat away to a girl and buy the drinks and think he's getting somewhere until her husband turns up and thanks him for keeping his wife company because he'd got held up ! LOL
I suspect you are doing the same. You are non-threatening and so easy going but you are not coming across as an 'interested' man just a friendly one.