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 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 4
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Just what in the hell are you telling these women for them to feel they have to tell you to get rid of the furniture?!?!?!


A very apt question!
 HalftimeDad
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 5
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 2/12/2012 3:14:43 PM
Yeah, try not sharing details about the time you tried out a new position on the couch she's sitting on. Women will only respond this way if you give them a reason to.
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 6
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 2/12/2012 3:22:01 PM
Maybe the couch is just ugly.
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
Msg: 7
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 2/12/2012 3:55:15 PM
Choose better women, or keep your mouth shut about where you did them.
 J_bird61
Joined: 10/22/2011
Msg: 8
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 2/12/2012 4:22:44 PM
Yes - because it's butt ugly. Literally.
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 9
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 2/12/2012 5:25:20 PM
The fire department laughed and let it burn down.


I doubt that, arson is a serious crime.

Make her a happy wife.


Huh? I don't think they're married, or even living together.
 seabreezeandyou
Joined: 6/25/2010
Msg: 10
 0gental1
Joined: 5/23/2010
Msg: 12
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Posted: 2/12/2012 8:18:03 PM
this is too ****ing funny :) I am sorry but maybe its bad taste or the fact your a freak and they know about the dirty on it. U just need to relax and keep it tell them to stay at thier place and you stay at yours. if they replace it they should buy you new...but still have them stay and live at thier place lol
 SunshineAngel99
Joined: 10/13/2010
Msg: 13
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Posted: 2/12/2012 8:21:31 PM
No, this is crazy. Run away from these women.
 windchymes
Joined: 11/29/2008
Msg: 14
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Posted: 2/12/2012 8:28:35 PM
I was okay with his furniture until the sofa actually got up and walked away on its own....
 Greatcatch12345
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 15
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 2/13/2012 6:00:30 AM
i've had them want to get rid of a mattress and such..but usually we go out and get all new sheets, pilloiws, etc..and throw out the old..for obvious reasons..but its a cold day in hell i get rid of my flat screen tv..!! or any other nonsense.. lol
 femaleconnection
Joined: 8/12/2010
Msg: 16
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Posted: 2/13/2012 6:25:42 AM
I have never had this issue. I can only see people wanting new stuff if the OP is openly telling the ladies what he and the ex did on those pieces of furniture.

This is why it is better to keep some details to yourself!
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 17
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Posted: 2/13/2012 6:29:30 AM
Most of my furniture is hand made (by me), so it isn't going anywhere. I've put hundreds of hours into it.

Most furniture on the market today is overpriced junk.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 18
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 2/13/2012 7:27:17 AM
You need to stop carving ex-lover's names in the furniture and stop putting notches in the bed post each time you get lucky.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 2/13/2012 10:38:33 AM
"I doubt that, arson is a serious crime."

Arson law is only applied to real property with a legal title or a licence plate.... all other articles are considered disposable....

I agree w/ the ladies here.... you are either giving TMI or it it is trashy furniture....

However, some women will refuse to live in a house you had with a former partner...

The solution to that is... tell her you will be glad to live in any house or furniture SHE buys with her own money.... The bedding also has a large stigma for most women too... dump it
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 2/13/2012 11:38:26 AM
It's sticky and you need to have it professionally cleaned before trying to snare another girl in the same wet spot areas.
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 21
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Posted: 2/13/2012 12:38:28 PM

Arson law is only applied to real property with a legal title or a licence plate.... all other articles are considered disposable....


The dumpster was owned by someone and I'm sure it was located on someone's property (apartment complex?). It's against the law in many municipalities to burn garbage or to have an open fire without a permit. Fire departments don't take that stuff lightly. I can't see them laughing it off.
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
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Posted: 2/13/2012 4:36:35 PM
the problem is you're not negotiating terms very well. tell her that for every piece of furniture you give up, 20 of her stuffed animals have to go.
 junipermoon
Joined: 3/1/2006
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Posted: 2/13/2012 5:22:48 PM
maybe they just don't want to get cooties.
 ncdamsel
Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 2/16/2012 12:22:23 PM
Be cause they are inmature... that is the stupidest thing i ever hear of,,, the only thing i would get rid of is ...THEM
 stayinalivefl
Joined: 8/23/2012
Msg: 26
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 9/2/2012 8:08:10 PM
..........are you leaving "shot spots" in view???
lol
 TantricJedi
Joined: 2/22/2012
Msg: 27
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 9/2/2012 8:30:43 PM
If you tell her you acquired the Cali King Size bed after the divorce, make sure you tell her the sheets and comforter are new:)
 oh_hell
Joined: 11/26/2011
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Posted: 9/2/2012 8:36:40 PM
If I had a nickel for every time a woman made me kick a couch, ditch my duvet, or bail on a bed just because another broad's butt had brushed it - well, you get the idea. We share your pain, OP...
 Quasimodo11543
Joined: 7/21/2010
Msg: 29
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 9/2/2012 8:55:02 PM
do NOT tell her the ex touched your "no - no" it could be the next thing she wants you to get rid of.
 justlookingvt
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 30
Why do women want me to get rid of furniture that i had when i dated others?
Posted: 9/3/2012 12:50:19 PM
It makes me wonder if his definition of "furniture" includes the likes of sybians, swings, spring mounted stools, restraining devices and other such items ....

Furniture uh ? hmmmmm.....
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