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 Jayne0927
Joined: 11/1/2010
Msg: 1
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In my profile, which I have shortened several times, I try to express my real feelings about relationships, being with someone I want to please, etc. I wonder if there is something in there about being "playful" or passionate" that is being taken the wrong way.

I really haven't had any men respond in such a way that makes me feel that way, but I just would like to have an outside opinion.

Thanks in advance.

J
 laughinggem
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 2
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Posted: 2/12/2012 7:02:06 PM
J, I'm not a guy so can't really talk about if your profile is too sexual or not although I don't think it's too sexual. I would take out all the negatives. You might also consider getting rid of the paragraph that starts with "Much to some of my friends' dismay, ". It sounds like your friends are against you having a relationship and that does not attract anyone. Also that paragraph just doesn't seem to fit somehow and seems to just restate what you say in the other parts.
 You go first
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 3
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Posted: 2/12/2012 7:45:04 PM
If I were a man, I'd be totally turned on by the time I finished reading your profile! All that giving and receiving and a man's needs and passion and affection... wow! I think I need a cigarette.

Why not skip the entire middle paragraph and talk about actual activities you enjoy? There's enough clues about a physical relationship that the smart ones will get it. But what are you going to do or talk about after? Having things in common is just as important.

I think most mature men realize a relationship involves both partners wanting to please each other, and really, if they have any concerns, they'll ask. Trust me.
 lookin4theone30
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Posted: 2/12/2012 8:21:30 PM
nope, your profile seems totally non sexual to me :) Although (just my opinion) you could add a few more things about yourself, like hobbies/passions.. etc.
 coyotefeller
Joined: 11/12/2011
Msg: 5
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Posted: 2/12/2012 8:35:13 PM
Ha ha ha, your opening statement
is priceless and right on ! "You go first" :)

Listen up Jayne, I'm going to dissect some of
the things you say and translate it into what
a horndawg guy my age would read into it....OK ?!
(Not that I'm like that at all !!....lol )
"I feel and act very young and have
much to contribute to a relationship."= I'll be your young floozie !
"....believes he can find someone who will meet his needs."= This
gal's ready for action!
"Not timid or apprehensive."= Just do me on the kitchen table
"sincere man who can show affection and communicate
openly without hesitation or apprehension"= I can talk to this
chick, I'll send her a picture of my naked gun! :)
"I've had very good "luck" if you can call it that,
with interpersonal reltationships."= I was quite
a slut in my day, can you measure up.??!
"I am an open, understanding,affectionate,
compassionate, playful, giving and passionate woman."= I am
here on the bed with my legs spread wide, waiting for you! :)
"I am well aware of how to give and take
and keep things interesting."= I will suck your c0ck to the balls
if you eat my puzzy! :)
"Please don't respond if you're only looking for sex."=Hey?? wtf !!
"I need more than that."= make up your mind Lady !!!
"It gives me great pleasure to express my feelings and desires."= I like
to talk dirty before, during and after... :)

Don't take take any of this badly, it's all good and a man
can be a horndawg up front and still respect you in the morning!

You remind me of the girl I'm dating / talking to /seeing when I can! lol
 CoolQcumber
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 6
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Posted: 2/12/2012 9:13:37 PM
will you proof read my profile?
 Jayne0927
Joined: 11/1/2010
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Posted: 2/13/2012 10:23:51 AM
Coyotefeller,

That gave me a big laugh. Thanks for your opinion!
 Mantric
Joined: 2/5/2010
Msg: 8
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Posted: 2/14/2012 3:12:55 PM
Nope, I didn't read it as sexual, you sound really nice actually. Nice pic too.
 Mantric
Joined: 2/5/2010
Msg: 9
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Posted: 2/14/2012 3:14:12 PM
And for the record, you're twenty years older than me, and I would totally hit on you.
 iesha23
Joined: 12/6/2008
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Posted: 2/14/2012 3:24:42 PM
wow, can I copy and paste that to my own? lol
 bigun56
Joined: 5/16/2012
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Posted: 5/28/2012 7:06:18 PM
with most guys this is the most important part of your profile!
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