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Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 2
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If you feel like you're just searching, searching, searching to no avail, then maybe it is time to take a breather and focus on yourself for a while. Read some books, program, work out, do whatever that centers you and makes you happy. Then try and reach out to those with similar interests. That way you won't have to worry about your mind set when you do meet someone. :)
Joined: 1/18/2012
Msg: 3
Posted: 2/17/2012 5:24:42 AM
It could be your approach, the fact that many women have been 'burned' on any dating site, or just that you are not what they would be looking for. You are one in a million, so don't take it so hard. I have not had the best outcomes with people that I did go on dates with and some became very good friends. It is either/or, not a personal thing.
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 4
Posted: 2/17/2012 6:56:44 AM
"If you are intrested in a relationship ..."

Is that kinda like being in "love" with love?

You're more interested in a "relationship" than finding the women of your dreams?

Stop dating. Thats my advice. When the right girl comes along, you'll know. Why get a bad taste in your mouth by dating a bunch of "wrong " girls.
Joined: 10/26/2010
Msg: 5
Posted: 2/17/2012 9:34:39 AM
You are right my man. You can see the same behavioral traits with another set of women who get told by countless guys everyday they are beautiful, sexy, smart, funny, attractive, hot and so on. Plus they do the same by letting a guy spend on them and then smile and walk off. They are called strippers.
Joined: 2/8/2012
Msg: 6
Posted: 2/17/2012 9:18:44 PM
Funny that I've never ever had a female make a move on me or appear to be interested I've had two ex girlfriends who were clearly interested in something other than just me. I'm not nervous around women nor am I no confident in myself it just seems like I'm invisible!
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