Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
The way you type with all lowercase and lots of ..... those is consistent with 18-19 year old's.
If your trying to attact educated middle aged women then it gives a poor impression.
MTJD is right about typing all in lowercase and it does give a poor impression and to some it represents laziness.
first date ???...well i would say a meeting somewhere like a cafe or by the riverside would be nice ...perhaps followed by a romantic candle lit bath with rose petals and glass of wine or champagne ....hehe ..AND YES OF COURSE IM FANTASIZING ...i ran out of rose petals ages ago !! ... lol
This is probably why women think you are a player. Candle lit baths on a first date Maybe after a few dates BUT never on a first date.
Use proper sentence structure and paragraphs, apostrophes and capital letters at the beginning of each sentence ( also: personal pronoun I and I am etc., ) Too many ellipses within your profile. Use those suggestions and your writing will flow better and become much more legible and show you write well.
Being partial to ellipses myself, I have painfully realized that if overdone, the distraction dilutes the discourse so to speak. Sadly, I have to agree with previous observations and would suggest a rewrite with capitalization and punctuation in all the right places. Ellipses should be used sparingly in this type of "venue". Spell-check is your friend as well. Good luck to you.