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Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 2
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He's a bit of a clean freak?

There are worse things a guy could be. But if it bothers you, then end it. If it doesn't, then don't worry about it.
Joined: 2/27/2010
Msg: 3
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he washes after sex
Posted: 3/3/2012 1:50:26 PM
Nothing weird about it. Don't fret.
If you don't like him leaving the bed, make sure there is a hot cloth and dry towel handy. (washing him can lead to more! ;)
I liked it when my fellow washed after wearing a condom, I hate the taste of rubber.
Joined: 10/13/2010
Msg: 4
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he washes after sex
Posted: 3/3/2012 1:55:13 PM
Nothing wrong with washing up before or after.
Joined: 1/17/2012
Msg: 6
he washes after sex
Posted: 3/3/2012 2:22:14 PM
It's not an insult to you. I wash after sex always too, and frankly I much prefer it if the woman I've had sex with does too, especially if we used a condom. Frankly I like to have multiple goes at it, and the taste of semen or latex is a major turn off for me when I'm giving oral.
he washes after sex
Posted: 3/3/2012 2:35:51 PM
it can only mean he's a player. the best way to deal with a player is to withhold sex. that's what you should do here, because logic dictates that he will then no longer wash himself after sex, and therefore will no longer be a player. it's all so obvious, isn't it?
Joined: 12/7/2011
Msg: 9
he washes after sex
Posted: 3/3/2012 2:55:38 PM

I believe 'certain' parts of the body should be washed after sex

And even BEFORE the sex!
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 12
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he washes after sex
Posted: 3/3/2012 3:16:20 PM
Wearing a condom doesn't keep him clean, in fact it leaves a mess, I'd be more surprised by the people who don't wash up after sex, at least a bit.
Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 13
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Posted: 3/3/2012 3:28:36 PM
I prefer having a shower after as well, although I can live without. It's not about you being dirty or anything, and I can agree with the condom ickyness, it's more about me feeling clean....although it's a bit (not total) of a turn off (hygenically and not necessarily emotionally/physically) to be with "unfresh" partner....maybe he feels he's not fresh enough for you, for a second round, or maybe he's sending passive aggressive hints, maybe it's both. Grab some soap and hop in the shower with him - go green, save some water and see what happens! Showering is a good thing!
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 3/3/2012 4:51:14 PM
Hell....I believe in washing before and after......I like to be clean and have my parts be clean and smell good when inserting them in any orifice of my partner....

I find it odd when I see men go into a restroom and take a leak or other, and come out and do not wash their, I am assuming that their parts are as dirty if not more because of the lack of practice of cleaning.

The world is a dirty place, and before I touch my private parts, I wash my hands, before and after, and seldom, if ever, allow my parts in my woman without knowing that they are clean. So, good for him!

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